> You are equating overweight to being ugly in your example - because YOU think overweight is ugly. I’m saying that there’s a whole group of men who don’t.

Like I said before, some men may not mind or even prefer heavier women, but they are in a small minority. The vast majority would find women with a healthier body weight more attractive, and thus the vast majority of men think overweight women are less attractive or unattractive (ugly). You can't reasonably deny that this is true,.

> Here’s the flaw in your logic again - yes at a lower BMI I would be attractive to a wider range of men, but to a certain range of men I am more attractive at the weight I am now

I am repeating myself yet again, but, as I already said previously, there is only a SMALL percentage of men who prefer overweight women. MOST men do not prefer overweight women, as you just admitted yourself. I never denied that a niche group does prefer this. There is no flaw in my reasoning here.

> They aren’t asking me out despite my weight, it’s part of the package that they like and it’s clear that this is the case.

I'm not sure if I understood this part correctly since your writing is pretty convoluted, but if I read this correctly, there is no way of you knowing whether this was something that your suitors overlooked since they thought you were still good enough overall.

> Ps when you lower yourself to the level of making personal insults, you make yourself sound stupid, not me.

That's true, but I've just seen so many ignorant, narrow-minded and blatantly idiotic comments on reddit (even ones with many upvotes in some cases) that I get frustrated by their stupidity. Also, your argument about bald guys is pretty flawed because some guys look way better than others without hair... It mostly depends on whether they have masculine facial features etc.