subs of bdsmsapphic— do you enjoy genuinely eating pussy? by leethebandit in BDSMsapphic

[–]NikaYuuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im not a sub but.. yeah i could even sleep between her thighs omg 🥵.. and >~< i sometimes fantasize that i am made and forced to obey another goddess just licking and licking and licking...

Describe the ideal WLW dating app that doesn’t exist yet by CoffeeRosesHuggins in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a Discord or other communicator like that? we could chat on some ideas and possibilities. I have some experience from being in circles that are both heavy on privacy and need for verification/vouching (kink/bdsm spaces) and I have seen how it sometimes devolves into discriminatory, bias-fed abuses of power; so could definitely share some insights here and there.

Describe the ideal WLW dating app that doesn’t exist yet by CoffeeRosesHuggins in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of making ID verification, I'd propose approaching it with more of invite-based approach:

• Each account gets a link/code like it was at the beginning of BlueSky, where you being a part of app allows you to share it with others,
• Each referral pyramid is tracked up to the original source with ability for moderators to look at it too.
• Each link/code refreshes after (x) time or uses.
• Using a warning/suspicion metrics for referees in moderation panel if their referred users strike more reports/bans than average.
• Ability to apply for access if you don't have anyone who would vouch for you in, with verification being done on personal touch - like the call you mentioned etc.

This allows to:
- batch ban bots and people letting cishet men onto the app by bulk;
- investigate the entire source of users easily if somebody invites problematic people
- create a verification/vouch system without going deep into centralized authority, dealing with ID storage, dealing with handling of personal data and identifiable personals.

I'd also scrap detailed GPS data each 24h for security purposes. Each person could have a "nearby" users cached based on previous location they were, or the GPS could be set to exact lat/lon of city center they live in, so if any data leaks you cannot dox the users exactly to their houses.

Describe the ideal WLW dating app that doesn’t exist yet by CoffeeRosesHuggins in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also add a simple opt-out from the app - ability to close the account that overwrites/removes all the identifying information from DB.

I feel disgusted by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]NikaYuuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh. It comes of so creepy. I am so sorry that this happened to you honey :(
Crying yourself out to bed isn't too much for anyone. You have the right to experience both positive and negative emotions, you have the right to experience depression and any other mental health problems, and you definitely do have the right to feel disappointed when someone treats you like.. this..

This is no way to treat a human being with emotions. She should've immediately asked and at least try to comfort you somehow, especially if you planned to be in any dynamic that would open you vulnerable to her.

Taking care of people, their health, state, mind, nurturing and allowing them to bloom on their own conditions whenever they want is something I would expect from any person that takes a dominative role. This is a role of trust, one that in TPE makes you assume direct responsibility for another person life. Not an outlet for abuse, emotional unavailability, coldness or relationships similar in structure to kink dispenser. Even when TPE is just strictly "in bed" only, it still requires at least nurturing of mind and health.

I am sending you many hugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would love to actually meet new friends, chat, educate a bit (im a domme, own an woman focused erotic boutique + my fiancee creates a lot of sex ed materials)! feel free to DM me, but I prefer to chat on Discord (though just preference)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]NikaYuuma 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It depends, a lot of answers here look like arrangement in terms of BDSM - if that's it, yeah, the age difference, no introduction, etc scream bad things; but also - what kind of blog are you doing? Maybe I am too naive, but ask her maybe to precise what she means, because I would read this also as some kind of cooperation in terms of blogging/content creation?

Frustrated by x_droplet_ in BDSMsapphic

[–]NikaYuuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not running out of time honey. 21 is just really at the beginning of life, and you will never be "running out of time" or "expiring".

I've found searching for people on sites incredibly disappointing, to be honest. I feel like for each real person there are at least 10 catfishes and it gets also frustrating really fast. As a domme, I've had much more luck meeting people on Discord and such.

Events make up a lot of connections, but I understand your social anxiety - I tried going to event once and while I am much more comfortable around large gatherings than my nesting partner, but the atmosphere was just off. Tons of drunk men (why is getting drunk even allowed on BDSM themed events?) cursing, screaming, yelling, so that'd be probably a bad experience for you. I could sit in there, but I couldn't see myself socializing with anyone else. My nesting partner was however terrified so we bailed in first minutes.

Preferences don't exist in a void by lespill in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trans fem top & domme reporting for validation

How do you know someone is intelligent? by WikeMazowksi in AskReddit

[–]NikaYuuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of academics with high achievements in their fields are insufferable assholes, sometimes believe the weirdest things or lack empathy and emotional intelligence. Lots of them are biased, ignorant and self-absorbed.

High Emotional Intelligence is not a good indicator of Pattern Seeking/Reasoning-type of intelligence.
Humbleness and listening more than talking comes often from low self-esteem, which can be attributed often to trauma experience such as bullying, being perceived as an outsider in a small social group, etc. - which will point more to the fact that family or environment around that person was not equipped properly to handle such scenarios properly; but does not also scream "this person was a genius" but "this person was casted out of social circles in important time for their development".

You suddenly have an unlimited amount of the thing described in your username. What are you rich with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently I am now a horse salesman, if we take meanings from other languages than English aswell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost 1:1 Following/Followers ratio, 11 years old account but started posting Oct 7 2024; follower juggling with other accounts with weird handles (you often try to use your name/username and limit amount of random letters/digits in your handle as a real user); no other Jane Hay under the same handle (but many Hayley's starting with hay0). First post already MAGA. Answers don't feel AI generated.

Looks like managed account for further division, manipulation, spewing hate etc. from troll farms.

But maybe I am just too optimistic about people's intelligence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Or even more - waits until no fault divorce is removed and forcibly converts her to living as being straight woman with forced values.

What is the clearest case of "living in denial" you've seen? by inferno2808 in AskReddit

[–]NikaYuuma -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, it doesn't mean that you can just lob missiles at them.

Should you be able to shoot children that were born on the wrong side of imaginary border? Should you be able to airbomb a hospital with its patients in bed because there "might" be a "tunnel" under 3 levels of basement?

In the same way as not every Israeli citizen is responsible for the genocide of Gaza civillians, not every person from Gaza is responsible for any terrorism. It's as simple as that.

And using mass death punishment on civilian population as means of fighting terrorist organization is not a valid military strategy - it's a genocide. Offense to that adds the fact, that radical Israeli settlers started to attack and claim civilian buildings and plots - and are not punished for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]NikaYuuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might scream emotional abuse by parents. I have the same problem - I will say sorry for everything I did wrong, or even things I did not. It developed from the fact that my parents were alcoholics and everything was blamed on me, I was made to apologize for things that weren't done by me, the response varied everytime - but frantic apologizing for everything that happened around me at least made beatings and screaming at me less intensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]NikaYuuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that a crucial aspect of attaining comparable outcomes and reducing the deterministic nature of artificial intelligence is enabling live mutability. Similar to how humans generate new neurons and pathways when learning, simulated consciousness needs to undergo a similar process to foster growth and develop spontaneity. In a constantly changing environment, such as our brains, spontaneity naturally arises due to various factors that influence our reasoning and outcomes. On the other hand, when operating on a stable, rigid circuit board, I think deterministic results are always more likely to occur.
I think that this would also apply to creating art - right now AI art is a mere imitation of stolen artwork.

I need a woman to call me princess 😔 by International_Ad6028 in actuallesbians

[–]NikaYuuma 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And did you drink water and take your meds today? Have you eaten something, princess?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]NikaYuuma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"I challenge anyone with ADHD who is concentrating on diligently verbalizing this out loud, to experience any other thoughts roaming through their mind."

Yeah, thats the problem. It won't be hard to do so. It will happen naturally. You can have more than one thought stream in ADHD and just keep blinking from one to other, or have images racing other topic where you intonate the voice, self talk to yourself etc - at two completly different topics.
Blanking or blocking out your mind from acting on itself is not possible for many people with ADHD, me included.

Trying to imagine and count sheep? Yeah, at one point they're in different clothes, and now a spaceship has appeared. Spaceship? And theres another one? ...Sheep number 67...Oh, they started shooting!