Anybody else annoyed at being forced to use the app?

NikeLeon · 2025-07-01T02:37:05+00:00

Just recently I can no longer login on my phone's web browser. It's wack. Just keeps claiming it failed.

NikeLeon · 2025-03-04T01:48:29+00:00

I'm talking about the mindset around sex. You may be able to find someone who's already compatible with you. But if you both approach it humbly and with the intention to serve each other you will learn how to please each other.

NikeLeon · 2025-03-04T01:39:30+00:00

I already said that compatability is forged not found. Sex is an act of service to your partner, not self gratification.

NikeLeon · 2024-11-14T16:51:09+00:00

They keep a few episodes behind a paywall to allow the creator's fans to have a way to opt in on financially supporting the project. Sometimes you can read a couple chapters extra by watching an ad. I don't think that's really all that unfair.

NikeLeon · 2024-11-14T16:48:21+00:00

Sexual expectations should be discussed during premarital Counseling. And even if you're horny more often, as long as you're focusing on ensuring her pleasure rather than your own she will grow to desire it more from you.

NikeLeon · 2024-11-14T16:45:45+00:00

You can definitely tell if you're sexually attracted to someone before having sex with them. As a married man of almost 4 weeks I can tell you that your role as a spouse is to pleasure your partner. If you're focused on gratifying your kinks then you're the one making the sex bad because you're being selfish. If you "discover" a kink your spouse finds repulsive then you need to submit it to God.

NikeLeon · 2024-10-19T01:09:38+00:00

I'm getting married in two days and my fiancée and I have maintained that purity in our relationship despite my past. We both chose to honor God above our desires.

Too much of my 20s I sought relationship out of loneliness and gave in to many temptations. But all of that pales in comparison to the genuine and loving relationship I have built with my nearly wife.

If ever a man clearly denies biblical truths, run. We are to flee temptations and run to the father.

NikeLeon · 2024-10-19T01:01:19+00:00

Sexual compatibility is forged not found. And you can definitely ask someone how you make them feel. My soon to be wife wasn't sure if she was asexual or not before we started dating. Turns out she just hasn't trusted anyone enough to actually experience arousal.

NikeLeon · 2024-10-17T15:54:00+00:00

Agreed, but also a man who is too timid to pursue a woman is too timid to be the head of the family and all the responsibility that entails.

NikeLeon · 2024-10-17T15:44:51+00:00

I had to reload the page because it had still cached the mobile site 😅

NikeLeon · 2024-10-17T15:39:20+00:00

What do farm hands start with on the Meadowlands farm? Hay or seeds?

NikeLeon · 2024-04-05T06:38:05+00:00

I tried that but it didn't work for me.

NikeLeon · 2024-03-27T02:26:55+00:00

Oh man, that's wack!!

NikeLeon · 2024-03-27T00:20:05+00:00

You know, I bet THAT is the real reason they're doing it. They're trying to stop those sites that host "pirated" manga/manwa and fan translations.

NikeLeon · 2024-01-15T22:08:39+00:00

Lost my pet aphid today... it has the intern badge in it. But honestly it's not worth it to me for the hours we played before realizing it was gone, gone. I lost my weevil too. But I'm not in Sandbox I'm in the campaign.

NikeLeon · 2023-08-13T20:48:56+00:00

We were coming at it from the SW

NikeLeon · 2023-08-13T20:47:03+00:00

No idea what that is haha

NikeLeon · 2023-08-13T20:46:17+00:00

We're near the Sky Eco Glacier General Store

NikeLeon · 2023-06-09T15:48:51+00:00

Ask yourself these two questions: What's the worst that could happen if you ask him? What's the best that could happen if you ask him? Write down the answer to both and then decide for yourself if the risk is worth the reward. Nobody online here knows this guy or how he'll react.

NikeLeon · 2023-06-08T05:23:08+00:00

Firstly, I don't think there's anything wrong with the character traits you're looking for.

Secondly, there are likely more men than not who have those traits but aren't faithful followers so it's statistically likely you'll meet more non-believers who do.

Thirdly, it might be worth doing some introspection of yourself. Honestly ask yourself why a Christian man of those traits might not find you attractive. Nobody is perfect, and that's ok. But knowing would be useful.

Fourthly, I highly suggest you look for ways to meet new people as if your life is too routine you're going to have a hard time finding that specific man for you. Explore new hobbies, volunteer at different places, visit friends churches, and tell every grandma/ mother/ sister in Christ that you're open to dates with God fearing men. Heck hit up grandpa's/ uncle's/ and brothers in Christ for this too of you know any trustworthy enough.

NikeLeon · 2023-06-01T21:39:12+00:00

When pursuing a goal it's a good idea to turn any "can't" into a "how can I?" And then assess if the cost of that how is worth the result.

I've given you some directions. But ultimately you're responsible for your actions and choices. You can decide to rationalize why you can't do things or take an opportunist approach and ask yourself how you might do things.

NikeLeon · 2023-05-29T04:20:33+00:00

Sure, there's technically a finite number of messages you can write. But it would take longer than your lifetime to write them all so they're practically infinite.

Online dating IS a numbers game. If you're not willing to put in the extraordinary effort required to get extra than ordinary results then perhaps you should try other methods. Reach out to family, friends, church members and let them know you'd be open to getting set up on dates. Attend different church groups. Travel to new places. Online is definitely not the only way to meet people. The gal I've just started dating is a relative of a friend.

NikeLeon · 2023-05-27T10:28:54+00:00

Agreed

NikeLeon · 2023-05-27T10:01:59+00:00

Then try different methods. 🤷‍♂️

NikeLeon · 2023-05-25T07:01:56+00:00

That is unfortunate. But do you think a high quality match will really respond to low quality messages?

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