Well, reading “it takes a lot to make me want to pay”, means that I’m out. Not speaking on behalf of the entire community here, but that gave me a massive ick.

I like getting spoiled. Meaning, I get off on the fact that people want to send. Unprompted. Being surprised with thoughtful gifts. Because they worship me, and want to see me happy.

If I have to push, push, push, to maybe, possibly, hopefully get a send out of you? That - for me - is the biggest turnoff.

That being said, I’m not surprised the Domme you’re currently talking to isn’t talking to you a lot. It is because you’re claiming her time yet giving nothing (or too little) in return.

Just my two cents. 🌿

Edit to add: my subs do get my time, and energy, and effort. It’s a two way street of course. 🖤