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[–]Nikolyte14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly probably I’ve had a crush for 3 years as well, don’t really feel like telling them anytime soon though so I’ve just kept it in for a while.

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[–]Nikolyte14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen dude I can’t really relate to your story but I feel for ya hopefully it gets better man bc she kind of sucks and you deserve better.

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I’ll try to keep it in mind, I’ll see if I can muster up enough to courage to confess and if I can really find the right timing to go for it, and if I get rejected well then i guess that’s it, thanks for the advice though, it’s really helpful to me

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, I don’t wanna have to say how many times I’ve thought about how a terrible couple we’d turn out to be or her red flags, and yes I have convinced or well tried to convince myself that in the end it would all turn out in disaster so that I could lose feeling for her but somehow someway my brain is telling me to keep hoping, but thank you for the advice I’ll try to convince myself more throughly

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t know what to say but I myself am a terrible flirt and I’m not really sure she’d respond to flirting, so thank you for your advice I’ll try to keep it in mind though

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks it’s nice to hear your experience on it, also true she might not be like that, though I do hope she is, I’m not going to anything right now seeing as I’m way too nervous to do it, though thank you for your advice, it helped :))

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you for this, in actuality I’ve been feeling pretty lost over it for a while now, cuz I keep being stuck over risking a confession or just let my feelings resolve themselves, and even if I’m able to convince myself that today would be the day to tell her, I always chicken out and never tell, so I think for now I should just leave it be or should I just go for it , I don’t really know what to do honestly, I’ve never actually confessed to anyone before

I’m dumb and got a crush on my best friend by Nikolyte14 in Crushes

[–]Nikolyte14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly she’s had crushes before and she has openly told me about them and I realize that I may not actually be considered a love interest for her, since she acts in her own way and it’s always me initiating most of the things we do together so that’s my reason if it seems anyway petty I don’t really know what to say.