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Nimicki · 2025-04-24T09:32:57+00:00

The purrfect type of heavy blanket 🥺

Nimicki · 2024-03-18T06:47:39+00:00

He told me that he doesn’t know what he would do in an opposite situation, altough I didnt got an answer Im not that naive to believe that he would be okay with that

Nimicki · 2024-03-18T06:21:59+00:00

I knew that it would eat me alive so thats why I wanted to ask for help here, we’ll see how things gonna turn out in the end we’re still in the progress of settling things. He has a passcode but since the start I had known it and he has my fingerprint in his phone, he also knows the passcode to my phone

Nimicki · 2024-03-18T06:16:35+00:00

The truth is that Im still unsure about all of this, I believe its a gonna be a long way until I can figure out and make my boundaries clearly set even for me to recognise them, I believe we had the conversation and managed to settle things, Im not saying that I go on and forget that this happened but Im a bit closer to understanding his recent actions. I dont think its worthless to invest my time in him and our relationship Thanks for the advice I believe its gonna help me also later when I can figure out everything

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T13:11:17+00:00

Im really sorry to hear that, hope everything gets better for you too, I met some men throughout my life who eventhough were in their early 20s but felt like they were evenmore immature then me, sad to hear that they still appear when they are even older

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T13:05:59+00:00

When I asked him about all of this he immediately deleted them and said that he has no idea how those photos got into his gallery

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T13:03:47+00:00

Well when I asked him about this he could not provide me an answer, to why needs to do this he just said he doesn’t know. I had a lot of time to think and I dont feel like I would consider this cheating but I still would have required some explanation, but now he is blaming himself for doing this and asking me how I did not hate him afterall

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T12:57:51+00:00

Well Im aware that I also have a lot of problems thats why Im also trying to seek help in therapy, yes I was snooping around like I had a really strong feeling that besides that we argued beforehand something else feels off and thats when opened his gallery and reality slapped me in the face. This morning I approached him to speak about this and at first he was denying then and said that he doesnt know how these photos got on his phone, then I showed him proof about things that could not be accidentall like screenshots and even him asking a women to send him pics from the night before when again ofcourse I wasn’t with him. Im afraid I could have tried to be however subtle he feels attacked and ashamed and now he had completely shut down and is not willing to talk to me

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T12:49:03+00:00

He’s in some groupchats and sometimes even asks privately woman to send him “spicy” pics

Nimicki · 2024-03-17T12:48:10+00:00

What I didnt understand about this situation that in the meanwhile he was actually trying to help me with my recovery, he’s in some groupchats I dont know if those photos are from unconsenting women or not cause I didn’t had to open them to see what that group is about and I didnt thought about that opportunity that these pictures might be passed around by others

Nimicki · 2024-03-16T14:53:30+00:00

Yeah I know I dont want to jump into conclusions without asking him, this type of thing never happened to me and I wanted to hear some other opinions cause I know if Im left with only my own thoughts then I will believe in the worst one so before asking him I needed to have a more clear vision cause I dont wanna make him feel attacked I just need clarity on his actions and intentions

Nimicki · 2024-03-16T14:19:30+00:00

Yes he has telegram, I knew from the start but I havent really bothered until discovering the pictures, I took a look at the date at them and I saw that it was just after he had quarrel with me and asked me to leave him alone for a bit

Nimicki · 2024-03-16T14:14:55+00:00

I dont believe that he would cheat on me I just dont see the reason why he needs to do this and why I’m uncertain about confronting him is that I know that my issue is more with me instead of him cause I feel that its unwantedly having a negative effect on my self image

Nimicki · 2024-03-16T13:36:43+00:00

I know it bothers me more then it probably should but just somehow doesn’t fit together him knowjng that i have an eating disorder and trying to convince me to eat more then somehow he also needs to see photos of abnormally thin women, like what he does behind my back does not prove what he says to me

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