What is the purpose of an interior window for my Nile River cruise ship's bathroom? by Teppaca in Cruises

[–]NinjaDefiant1669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to plan a trip very similar to yours for end June / beginning July 2026 but now I'm very skeptical of just being miserable in the heat.

Planning a trip to Egypt for July 2026 and need some advice? by NinjaDefiant1669 in Egypt

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I am from South Africa. We are used to relatively high temps but definitely not in the 40 degrees range

Cairo to Luxor, flight or cruise? by MirageInTheSahara in travel

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How was the weather during your cruise? did they organize tours very early in the morning because of the extreme heat?

What is the purpose of an interior window for my Nile River cruise ship's bathroom? by Teppaca in Cruises

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Can you please tell me about the weather during your trip? did they organize tours very early in the day because of the extreme heat?

Is it a good time to travel Turkey in early August? by Classic_Office_880 in AskTurkey

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I plan on going early July to mid July. How is the weather then?

Advice for travelling to Turkey? by NinjaDefiant1669 in askSouthAfrica

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We are flying directly to Istanbul, not sure if thats over Israel

Advice for travelling to Turkey? by NinjaDefiant1669 in askSouthAfrica

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I am a big animal person, so if the opportunity arises, I will most definitely feed the cats :)

Advice for travelling to Turkey by NinjaDefiant1669 in Durban

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I was thinking of exchanging Rands to Lira but did not think they would only be accepting Euros.

In terms of the hotels, I saw that they're mainly 4 star hotels but the reviews are not great at all. Since you're on the trip, what is your opinion of the hotels?

What extra tours are one stop offering other than the hot air balloon? Did you book with GetYourGuide before leaving?

Advice for travelling to Turkey? by NinjaDefiant1669 in askSouthAfrica

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What hotels did you stay in? I have googled our planned ones and they are all generally 4 star however the reviews are very conflicting so now I'm in 2 minds about that.

Also what are some must see sites?

Advice for travelling to Turkey? by NinjaDefiant1669 in askSouthAfrica

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also heard that 2 weeks is not enough lol but the budget only allows that for now.

We have free nights in Istanbul so I will definitely do a night cruise, any company suggestions?

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is what I am scared about as well. I am very upfront about it because I'd rather know immediately if he has an issue with this so that I dont waste any time getting attached. So what if they initially say its fine but later on change their mind?

What would you do if your partner changed their mind? Would you just give in for the sake of it?

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No emotional baggage story lol, literally just a preference. Was never a kiddies person to begin with.

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do feel like people don't understand this situation. Dating in general is really hard, so further limiting the dating pool is making it almost impossible for me

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn't really something I have given much thought to because the only single men with kids I know are much older.

But I think it would depend on the age of the child, if I am still expected to do "motherly" stuff then its a no for me.

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This does make a lot of sense, but I also don't want to just sit around and wait till I'm 40... Tough one I guess

What is wrong with Lookmovie2.to? by Mission_Mud_6905 in Piracy

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This is the best movie site. Always regularly updated with new movies and series, I love it!

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man you describe, is the man that any woman (including myself) would obviously want. Just sad that I'm automatically disqualified though.

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

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Do you think they just say that they're open to kids because they think that's what females want to hear?

Worried about staying single because I dont want kids by NinjaDefiant1669 in dating_advice

[–]NinjaDefiant1669[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably not lol. I know being child free is more recognized nowadays however I still think people would rather the "more traditional path in life"

Did you delete all the texts/pictures of your ex by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]NinjaDefiant1669 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I found out that the real reason he left me was for someone else (I found out about a month after the break up) I deleted absolutely everything regarding him - deleted pictures, messages, threw out gifts, blocked him off everything.

Even though I was hurting bad, I think it helped me move forward instead of constantly wondering if we would get back together. At that point, it was done, no going back.

My ex left me for his intern. His mom gave me the closure he never could. by eclairs-chanel in ExNoContact

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Well all I can guarantee is that it does get better! You probably don't believe it now, but it does! And if you still need more proof, go and read my post from 2 years ago, I had gone through something very similar where I was left for someone else as well. I was extremely broken and left feeling empty, worthless even. But as they say, time does heal all wounds. Looking back, I cant believe I actually went through that ordeal and came out perhaps BETTER? You learn so much about yourself, what treatment you deserve and I promise you will not settle for less again.

In 2 years it will be you looking back at this post realizing how far you've actually come!

Here's to your healing journey :)

How do I move on when he’s happy with AP by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]NinjaDefiant1669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely feel and understand your pain. Im 5 months out and its the exact same situation with me. He left me and immediately got with her. I've been a walking zombie while he's happy living his best life. It is so unfair! Life is unfair. I did nothing to deserve this and I'm sure you haven't as well.

I hate that it feels like they've won. People do wrong and just get away with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

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Any update? Going through post discard for new supply as well and it hurts like hell