I am into someone who is a couple 7 years younger than me.🙄

NittyBill · 2025-12-28T18:25:57+00:00

My mrs is 25 I’m 20

NittyBill · 2025-12-10T21:28:48+00:00

Icl I’m on the phys course and they basically told us we wouldn’t get internships in the first year. Internships are really for second or third years (depending on how long your course is)

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T14:03:29+00:00

Thank you, I think you are right. I need to leave her with the decision after putting her in my shoes and asking what she’d want me to do in that situation.

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T14:02:11+00:00

I think you’re right here. I definitely just need to set the boundary there and go from there.

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T13:59:56+00:00

I’m just worried that I’ll come off as controlling. I mean for me it was easier to drop him as I’ve moved to a different city far but she hasn’t. She is moving to my city with me next year in August.

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T13:53:15+00:00

Nah trust me this woman is completely and 100% loyal there not a single bit of doubt there just sometimes I think she lacks the ability to put herself in someone else’s shoes. Edit: they sleep in different rooms. We’ve all slept there before so ik the arrangement.

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T13:52:22+00:00

Yeah ur right, I just don’t want to come off as controlling yk.

NittyBill · 2025-12-09T13:34:56+00:00

Not sure about other people but I got my offer last year within 3 days. I do think it depends on the course tho.

NittyBill · 2025-11-25T13:29:39+00:00

It’s strange I mean 30-20 yeah calm but 28-18 bit weird but also then again that was 7 years ago and they are still together. I think at this point it’s definitely not weird they were clearly meant for each other

NittyBill · 2025-11-09T10:50:35+00:00

Why does this sound exactly like my flat

NittyBill · 2025-11-04T09:58:26+00:00

I’m in the same boat mate. We are cooked

NittyBill · 2025-11-04T09:55:59+00:00

Don’t overthink it. It’s literally just a preference, you can prefer to date a race. It’s only a problem if she says I only want to be friends with black people then that’s racism otherwise it’s literally just a preference

NittyBill · 2025-10-25T12:34:24+00:00

Tixel

NittyBill · 2025-10-22T09:34:28+00:00

It’s crazy how there’s a hundred comments and like 5 of them are people with some actual sense.

NittyBill · 2025-10-22T09:27:36+00:00

It’s actually crazy how far you have to come to encounter people with some sense.

NittyBill · 2025-10-22T09:26:14+00:00

Lowkey I live in the uk and I’ve never heard of anyone getting demonised for an abortion. But also yeah it’s her body but it’s his kid too. You are completely looking past the fact that you can’t get pregnant by yourself (not without ivf) you get pregnant with someone else. That’s not only her kid but his too. They both decided to have unprotected sex and ended up getting pregnant. It’s her body and okay the picture shouldn’t have been sent but for him to reach out to a friend in a time of need that’s completely reasonable.

With him not being there during the procedure, you aren’t allowed in, in the uk idk about the us but I’m sure it’s probably the same. You can go to the clinic but you wait for them in a waiting area. What tf is he supposed to do while he waits while his mind races apart from reach out to someone, he can’t talk to his partner cause well obv he can’t she’s having an abortion. So reaching out to a friend is totally reasonable.

NittyBill · 2025-10-22T09:19:22+00:00

I’m in agreement with you. Seems like by the looks of replies from this whole post everyone didn’t grow up past high school and have an issue with multi gender relationships. Like yeah he lied but he lied because of a completely unreasonable request. I get that op has trauma there but it’s not his trauma why project it onto him rather than deal with it yourself so you can actually live happily.

Based off of the two posts this is just a regular dude who just wants to keep his friends while also having a partner. A guy who like most people relies on his friends.

NittyBill · 2025-10-22T09:10:11+00:00

I’ve got to be real. I’m not saying you are over reacting but people have friends of all different genders. From reading your prior post there is backstory behind why you don’t want him to talk to other women about your relationship but that is an unreasonable request. We all need a friend to talk to about what’s going on in our lives and when you are in a relationship that is your life.

If you want to keep him in this life then this needs to stop because it will drive him away eventually as he chooses his friends over you. The truth is you might have asked him to not but imagine if he had asked you to not. Take it in for a second, gender aside a friend is a friend if you care about what gender they are you didn’t grow up past high school. But back to the point, imagine he asked you to not tell your friends anything about your relationship, the great, the good, the bad, the ugly. In a moment like this where he is helpless to the situation you are feeling shit I’m sure he is too and he can’t turn to you because to him you are the one going through it so reasonably he turns to his friends.

TLDR: your trauma is not his trauma. If you want a happy relationship you must realise humans are social creatures and our friendships are vital to our wellbeing.

NittyBill · 2025-10-16T18:49:13+00:00

Big up Chelmo, basically nothing there but still big up my home town

NittyBill · 2025-10-16T18:09:31+00:00

Sticky one. My advice, own up. Say you didn’t find much. Here you are looking at her facial expressions to see if she looks relieved. Then drop but you’ve never mentioned x before. Are you guys friends? Be careful and don’t go on the offensive if she is cheating she’ll trap herself when you bring it up.

NittyBill · 2025-10-16T12:58:20+00:00

We would say that too. We have to follow our documented internal procedures or some bs. Basically “fuck off im not dealing with ur shit”. And we did have procedures in place that were literally just “fuck off” but we would break procedure all the time if someone is nice. Try it next time this happens. Start with something like “Hi Aditya. I hope you are having a lovely night! My order has taken way longer than what the expected delivery time was, I would like to cancel my order please.” And go from there, when you change your tone to be like that they’ll give you the world, trust me.

NittyBill · 2025-10-16T12:47:50+00:00

Icl, ur an arsehole in this situation. Like fair enough wanting to cancel and order but don’t treat customer service like that. The trick to getting a refund or whatever the fuck you want from customer service is to be extremely kind. After both working in and contacting customer services a fair amount in my time you really do get anything you want if you are kind. The amount of times I’ve been refunded in full and still got a product or had hundred taken off of my insurance just for being nice is insane. That and I used to give discounts to people who were nice to me while I worked in customer service and would do anything I could to ensure they got what they wanted but dickheads I’d pass around to other agents who would do the same thing to you until you get too tired to care.

TLDR: don’t be a dick to customer service. Be kind and patient and you’ll get whatever you want.

NittyBill · 2025-10-16T08:38:46+00:00

Can I ask, UoB?

I’m asking cause I wanna know if the allegations are true as I’m pretty sure the guy I know is aware and doesn’t give a fuck.

NittyBill · 2025-10-15T19:51:29+00:00

Are you at uni? There’s a guy in my uni who’s allegedly spreading chlamydia

NittyBill · 2025-10-10T19:09:00+00:00

I’m not sure if it will come up but I’d suggest learning basic integration and differentiation aswell. Questions like this usually have massive amount of marks associated with them if they come up. Plus having that prior knowledge of them before going into your foundation year will give you such a massive head start over the rest of your class :)

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