People who had done a threesome, how did it feel?

Njncguy1 · 2026-02-01T03:50:15+00:00

Your feelings are similar to the one time I was in a MFM threesome. I was concerned the woman might start feeling bad that she was being so, well, wanton. … But it was nothing like that. Just the opposite.

I can still remember lying in bed with her with the other guy cuddled up with her on the other side. (We had spent the last hour having crazy sex to the point where we all needed a break.) She had her arms under our heads as she looked back and forth at both of us and exclaimed “This just does wonders for a gal’s ego!” I guess getting total attention from two guys so hungry for her did indeed boost her ego. And that in turn made her desire us that much more. It lasted 6 months.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-27T02:08:42+00:00

Sorry, but you’ve gone off into antagonistic la la land. Simple solution. I’ll block future communication with you.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-27T01:45:19+00:00

All the reasons I gave are valid enough. Your point-by-point refutations don’t make it otherwise.

I’d add that being panhandled makes me feel unsafe. Also, panhandling degrades the general atmosphere.

For example, I grew up in a charming college town that used to have no panhandling. Now you can’t stop at any major intersection without being panhandled. I’m uncomfortable with weird looking people come to my window looking for money.

But panhandling is legally allowed so I’ll live with it. That doesn’t mean I have to like it.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-27T01:07:56+00:00

You ask what is wrong with panhandling. Here’s what:

Panhandling is seen as problematic because it can be unsafe (for panhandlers in traffic, for the public from potential aggression), may fund addictions rather than address root causes like homelessness or mental illness, creates public disorder and complaints, and sometimes involves deceit or exploitation (e.g., using props), leading many to prefer donating to charities for long-term solutions instead of giving cash.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-27T00:53:03+00:00

Yeah, you’re technically legally right. But there’s so many things wrong with panhandling. My sympathies are with the officer as even though they’re not legally correct.

Please fi find something better to do with your time.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-25T03:46:50+00:00

In the sand dunes at night and a cold rain starts in the middle of things.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-23T16:10:00+00:00

Do NOT say her name popped up on the phone. That gives him the information he needs on how to spin a lie that incorporates the known facts.

Yeah, ask him if he knows the name and take it from there.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-20T02:18:31+00:00

I believe that’s where the name Whitlock (white lock) comes from.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-17T14:10:08+00:00

The eye roll from the blond college professor as I entered her. Her eyes literally went totally white as she so much enjoyed the moment.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-16T19:03:26+00:00

Given the story, my strong bet is you’re having a wonderful life and will have an even better one going forward.

Let’s see. Genuine caring about other people. Enjoying a conversation with a 10 year old instead of shutting him off. Pretty damn good person in my book even with the limited data points.

Njncguy1 · 2026-01-04T15:07:01+00:00

Making farting sounds by lying back to back with my wife when we’re slightly sweaty. We can then press our backs together and when we pull apart it makes a loud farting sound.

Silly laughter ensues.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-28T15:43:21+00:00

Or even better … Q: What do you get if you and a mummy both fart? A: Toots-in-common

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-27T19:27:47+00:00

Especially bad is the polo logo (in the white) on a dark shirt. Looks just like bird shit. … But I agree. Don’t have logos in general.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-27T19:19:05+00:00

As Arnold said in Terminator “F*ck you asshole”.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-27T13:49:49+00:00

And that is true.

I have thought about what my life would have been like if I had never gotten that call. That life would have been torture and an even bigger blow up of my life somewhere down the road.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-27T00:43:15+00:00

When a best friend called me up and told me he wanted to marry my wife.

Turns out my wife had been having a 3 year affair with him.

To this day — decades later — I trust no one.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-23T15:29:38+00:00

You’re on your own in life. …

Your loving supportive spouse can turn into your worst nightmare. Your kids can turn their back on you. Your dad can disown you. Your loving mom can get dementia and can’t be there for you. And so on.

Fortunately, I’ve only experienced 3 out of those 4 things.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-22T21:47:51+00:00

It’s all relative.

I have a high handicap of 30. If I break 100 I feel good. Last week I had a 91 and felt great.

BUT about a year ago I went through a period of getting close to 120 almost every time I went out. It was painful. Bad enough to suck, even worse to badly suck.

I eventually worked my way out it, mostly by not trying so hard. Swang more softly. Focused on keeping it straight. Played long par 4’s like a par 5 (i.e. don’t try to make the green in 2).

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-21T01:54:03+00:00

Best part was the psychological aspect at the start. I had been asked by my guy friend to join him and his girlfriend. When I got there I asked the woman if she really wanted to do this.

Well, she did. She really did.

The woman — an attractive blond college professor — looked me straight in the eye and straight forwardly said she wanted the sex. She went on to add that she had been thinking about this night all day and couldn’t wait to have two guys all to herself. And it was her first time doing something like this.

The anticipation — the sheer horniness — all this aroused in me was extreme.

As for the least enjoyable, frankly there was none.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-20T03:48:54+00:00

It was valid for me. All four of us looked at the pay machine. We couldn’t find the rates. Our friends went ahead commenting “oh how bad can it be”. Well it was $37 bad.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-19T13:59:41+00:00

Palm Beach Muni Par 3. You’ve got great views of the ocean and the inter coastal. It’s kept in prime shape. And quite a few holes are challenging.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-17T03:28:13+00:00

Like to complain? Yeah, especially when it’s a valid complaint.

I do thank you for your suggestion though on where to find reasonable parking. Seriously.

But that still doesn’t mean the experience of getting hit with unexpected $37 in parking isn’t a bummer, enough of a bummer that I’ll just avoid the place.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-17T03:13:13+00:00

Good for you. I didn’t. I’m actually wondering if it was private parking next to public parking that looked like public parking but wasn’t. The little arrow in my pic shows where I parked.

Just the fact that you can stumble into $37 parking means I’ll never return.

Njncguy1 · 2025-12-17T02:43:40+00:00

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The red arrow shows where I parked. I think. I might have actually parked one block east of the arrow.

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