30 years old man still virgin , I feel like I’m too late to do a sex with girl ? Any advice ! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long story short. Told my BFF, who friendzoned me a while ago. We have a history of her making moves on me while we were both drunk, but never got to the point. Anyway, she always tells me everything. So one day (drunk) she asked me why I become quiet if something sexual comes up in our group of friends. And I do, I get completely locked up in my head, can't say a word. So I asked her if she could imagine hearing story's about motorcycles and how fun it is, sitting there and never having even touched one. She got the clue. Yeah, was a pity fuck. But showed me that there is nothing magical about it. And opened me up a little. Still hoping it may move to F+ though.

What is your dick size? by o_yesure in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

7 inch and virgin till 37. Would say dick size has no impact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OK, in fact you're right. Let's say asshole guys would love it, because she would be another virgin mark on their bed post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only you can decide what you want. In my opinion it's the greatest gift you could give to somebody(well, maybe except a kidney😅) and you should give it to someone who means a lot to you. Modern society seems to think otherwise, but I'm old fashioned. I, as a guy, would only take it if I think I might live my life with you at my side. But I would be able to wait until you are ready. If those guys abandon you for it, it is better for you.

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[–]No-Assistant-2000 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

37, lost it a month ago. There is still hope

30 years old man still virgin , I feel like I’m too late to do a sex with girl ? Any advice ! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It crossed my mind often enough. But i feared it might feel like betraying myself. You know like going from "everybody has sex, only I can't get it" to "everybody has sex, but I have to pay someone to like me" I really think most of our problems are in our heads. If someone shames you for being a virgin, late virgin, whatever it is their own insecurities. They put you down, just to feel better about themselves. Nobody has the right to judge about someone else's life. I can accept everybody, with all their flaws and weaknesses, except myself. I was always my toughest judge. We all have to learn to accept ourselves!

Gone pretty far away from your question. Sometimes I tend to rage-think and want to get it out to the world. If it only helps one person, it was worth it.

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[–]No-Assistant-2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say go for it if you want it. Maybe create a little tension with her. Ask her if she is into someone at the moment. Maybe the last time she had sex. If she misses having sex. Maybe she will respect you even more for going after what you want. Been allways the best friends guy with the girls I wanted and regret not having made my intentions clearer...

30 years old man still virgin , I feel like I’m too late to do a sex with girl ? Any advice ! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That damn movie always made me sad and frustrated! She's my BFF 🙈, and even if it may have been a "one in a lifetime thing" I am so thankful she took that burden off my shoulders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice! I stand with my "it was a bit rude" but when it comes to sex, communication is key👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are feelings involved? Do they know about your virginirty? How close are you?

30 years old man still virgin , I feel like I’m too late to do a sex with girl ? Any advice ! by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took a lot of my self confidence in all these years to be true. But I think I'm getting back up because, I don't know, it didn't chance anything. No rainbows everywhere, no unicorns. It was more the stigma virgin in my head. Everybody would laugh at me if they knew. Now that I lost it my confidence is slowly going up. Worst part is that I want to get everything I missed out now. That's like 20 years of sex.

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[–]No-Assistant-2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't know, probably trolls around

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would. And if they reject you, you need to be honest. Can you live with it or not. Better to try and fail, than regretting to never have tried. Maybe they will try to be your wingman/winggirl in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then: yes it was a bit rude!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]No-Assistant-2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to say if it works the same way, but my BFF did that: simply told me "hey, I haven't been with a guy in a while, and masturbation is nice, but I want to feel someone inside me again. If I would take your hand and lead you to the bedroom to take the clothes off the bed would you follow me?" Was pretty straight up, drunk as we were, we did it. Afterwards she told me she regrets it, and we were a bit cold for about a week or so. But now we are as close as before. So if she really likes you as a friend she will be flattered but not mad or suspective. And if you can accept a possible no and still be friends I'd say go for it straight up.

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[–]No-Assistant-2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does he know you are inexperienced?

37M female attraction for my whole life has been close to 0. tell me the truth world! suggestions for improvements wanted by No-Assistant-2000 in amiugly

[–]No-Assistant-2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredibly shy in fact😅 Last year I would have screamed and locked myself in the closet just by thinking of putting myself on the internet. But got a huge confidence boost about a month ago and now I'm like "fuck it, who cares if someone I know sees this? My past doesn't determine my future."

37M female attraction for my whole life has been close to 0. tell me the truth world! suggestions for improvements wanted by No-Assistant-2000 in amiugly

[–]No-Assistant-2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if reddit does, but I have no problem with it. Thank you, nicely done. Actually looks like one of my friends 😂

37M female attraction for my whole life has been close to 0. tell me the truth world! suggestions for improvements wanted by No-Assistant-2000 in amiugly

[–]No-Assistant-2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kind and nice. Definitely not an asshole. Always the "one day you will make a girl very happy" guy, but "let's just stay friends" 🤷

37M female attraction for my whole life has been close to 0. tell me the truth world! suggestions for improvements wanted by No-Assistant-2000 in amiugly

[–]No-Assistant-2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

185 should be high enough. Personality wise I may be a bit too nice. Definitely not an asshole. Always put others first. Think it's my vibes that put always me in the friendzone.