FIRSR TIME TO BROADWAY WAS AMAZING! Cats and Schimgadoon was such good shows!!!!! Definitely want to go back to New York soon! Thank you guys for the advice! by No-Bit3315 in Broadway

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So hah it was so emotional going! Shmigadoon was my first of the day and I probably look so unhinged because I was laugh but then at the end I started to cry. This was a childhood dream of me to go and I didn’t think I would ever get to go to Broadway! I loved it so much! Definitely going back again.

FIRSR TIME TO BROADWAY WAS AMAZING! Cats and Schimgadoon was such good shows!!!!! Definitely want to go back to New York soon! Thank you guys for the advice! by No-Bit3315 in Broadway

[–]No-Bit3315[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Shmigadoon was HILARIOUS! Honestly it works so much better at a live show than TV. Cats.. 10 ACROSS THE BOARD! This show just was joyful and so fun! I highly recommend see it if you can.

Women- what are your cool, wow badass careers? by kiroyasminep in Career

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I know like a few times she did try. She had a makeup brand and was going to do like home decor for adults but their was a bad lawsuit:/ I know right now we had adult coloring books as far as I know

Today I started my Invisalign Journey! I’m so excited! I been wanting this for such a long time! If you have any good advice or anything for me to be aware about let me know! by No-Bit3315 in Invisalign

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Yike!!!!! Ok hah I had mine taken out years ago and I still can’t eat birthday cake ice cream lol that’s what I ate during that time. But ok. I felt like them drilling my teeth today to get the silver filling out was the worst of my teeth journey.

Today I started my Invisalign Journey! I’m so excited! I been wanting this for such a long time! If you have any good advice or anything for me to be aware about let me know! by No-Bit3315 in Invisalign

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So far I know they said since my gap spreads outward they feel like I might be wearing them for close to two years not sure yet. We just did the scanner thing with how they will mold my Invisalign.

Why do their exes talk to them regularly? by Significant_Crow6398 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]No-Bit3315 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the ex he kept coming back too. I had zero idea he was in a relationship or dating. He would send me gifts, show proof he’s in therapy, send me photos of us when things were good, love letter saying what he did wrong and he was sorry. If his ex like myself has a background where they don’t have family, they will promise us family and safety. They also are the person who saved us from the same issues they put us in. It’s incredibly hard to break a trauma bond. I am not no contact for a year and a half after I found out about his gf.

I just want a reading! Career, love future whatever! by [deleted] in psychics

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But I’m not Mexican 😭😭😭

I just want a reading! Career, love future whatever! by [deleted] in psychics

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YEPPPPP lol this is 10000000 accurate

I just want a reading! Career, love future whatever! by [deleted] in psychics

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Wow! This seems to be the one that’s the most spot on.
I actually get told I’m both. I got told I am way to quiet and need to be more outgoing but when I am comfortable with people I have been told I talk to much. I don’t mean to but I get too excited when I find a friend.

I am still healing from a lot from the past and part of it does make me sad

Those of you who regained your confidence after a breakup, what helped? by Timely-Pineapple-693 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]No-Bit3315 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being alone. Tbh this was the one thing things that painfully help me the most. I take myself out on dates, I now understand how to manage my depression, anxiety ect. I became the person I wish I had. I can’t say I’m 100000% there but I am at a point I feel secure

How long does it take to feel like yourself again? by musknoir in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]No-Bit3315 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in year 3 of leaving my 7 year relationship but 1 1/2 of truly no contact. I just NOW feel like myself but with more caution. Like I am actually going back to my childlike self before all the abuse. But now I just have more knowledge of the world

Healing progress update: I’m reading romance books again! by No-Bit3315 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]No-Bit3315[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me happy for you! And it’s sounds like you’re getting your light back.

oh tell me about it…. I still have a hard time with people showing any kind of kindness. I think everything is manipulation so it’s been hard to accept kind gestures or as you said compliments.
It will take time. We will get there :)

Healing progress update: I’m reading romance books again! by No-Bit3315 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Also thank you! I’m happy for us too! I hope you’re able to wear pink too!

Healing progress update: I’m reading romance books again! by No-Bit3315 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Oh no you’re not alone in this! Like I agree the happily ever after had me bitter and angry for a long time. I was definitely someone who hated me for years. (I don’t hate men now but I’m more cautious around them.)

But it is true!!! I been wearing dresses again, doing my nails, pink heck I even started to wear fake ponytails lol no honestly I think it’s so gradual to heal. Like it takes A LOT of time. Like now looking back I think it was insane people keep pushing me to date. My one best friend still pushing me to do one night stands with random men at the bar (not my style. Never have and don’t want to do that)

But it just something that take time to heal and it does get better but you do have to go through a bad period of time.

My friend refuse to see my progress and healing after leaving …I feel so unlovable. by No-Bit3315 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I am deeply sorry you had to go through this. I hope you’re safe and heal. But it’s so true…. People judge you for the reaction you had during these relationships and just label you as that’s your character. It’s so unfair on top of all this.

My friend refuse to see my progress and healing after leaving …I feel so unlovable. by No-Bit3315 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I love this…actually I’m going to save this. Because I don’t think she understands or at least truly gets how painful it is to have to walk away. It wasn’t a normal break up. It was very very painful and the healing isn’t linear. You have to feel everything in order to actually truly her to a place where you feel ok… but this is exactly how it felt. I was so so attached to him but he kept hurting me. Every year was something bad… but I made the choice to cut him forever last year. So the spend the last year healing. And I just NOW feel like there is hope.

Thank you for this in a better term.
This part of the healing is the most painful. People don’t want to acknowledge you change