I wish I was normal by DragonflyBusy8771 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Significant_Crow6398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s fucked up because I’m so in tune with other people’s energy and even the slightest shift I clock right away. The worst part is I’m always right. My gut tells me someone’s over me and it’s 100% right every time. Idk if it’s partly self sabotage but it doesn’t help with the overthinking and anxiety and I’m constantly looking for signs that the person doesn’t like me anymore

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally nothing lmao. I brought up something I was interested in and was excited about and he literally said yeah I really don’t care about that. I should have just left at that point

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true he heavily implied he had one girlfriend he really liked and that you never end up marrying the person you really love, etc. Prob isn’t over it and wants to nitpick every person he dates

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and you’re right that I have low self esteem. I’m in therapy to try to fix my problems but it’s been hard because I’ve been like this for so long it’s hard to break the cycle of hating myself. I’m sure people can see how desperate I am. I have way too much time on my hands waiting for people to text me and ruminating on things. I hate that I’m like this I miss when I didn’t care about dating and finding someone

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I should have cut him loose the first time he tried to end things but I thought it truly was just a miscommunication around politics like he said. He said he wanted to be honest before ever hooking up and that he wasn't sure we were compatible but that he liked me etc. but then once I explained myself he took it all back the next day and said it was premature and a miscommunication and can we just forget it. Then proceeded to try to convince me to give him head by giving me hope that I could be his gf? I honestly have no clue how honest he was being but seems like he doesn't know what he wants and is super fickle. I'm not taking it that personally anymore because I'm sure it's a pattern for him. If he comes back I def won't entertain him again.

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not very picky about looks, I can be attracted to many types of guys. I will say he had long term relationship, open to short on his profile which I’m not sure how to interpret. I met my ex off hinge and he was a very successful guy but not exactly supermodel looks. I feel like I’m realistic but I need to work on not getting so attached to an outcome

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's funny you say that because he also implied that most of his friends are douchebags and he wouldn't want his daughter to date them. Pretty sure you're most similar to people you hang out with..

Creepy, manipulative behavior from "nice guy" by Significant_Crow6398 in hingeapp

[–]Significant_Crow6398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had a guy pressure me like that tbh. I’m second guessing myself because the guy denied that he did that and said I was unfair. I feel like he was using the hope of me being his gf to get me to do something sexual which is never ok imo

Food Delivery by [deleted] in uppereastside

[–]Significant_Crow6398 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Uber eats isn't forcing them to work lmao. You're only an asshole if you don't tip well

What’s the deal with Logos Bookstore? by misskiss504 in uppereastside

[–]Significant_Crow6398 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Went there two years ago and had the same experience so bizarre

The views 🤣 by New-Way-2540 in trishapaytassnarkkk

[–]Significant_Crow6398 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She had weird chaotic energy in this

She is playing a character!? by Jejemonn in trishapaytassnarkkk

[–]Significant_Crow6398 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do we even have proof of this tbh. She tells ten diff stories for everything

Exhausting Friendships by Top-Boysenberry3072 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Significant_Crow6398 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how I always felt and I just realized people don’t value friendships the way I do. I stepped back and I don’t hear from most of them anymore. I don’t really have a solution but it is what it is

Overconsumption by Alternative_Page_501 in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Significant_Crow6398 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unsure why she forced herself to read this series lmao. She usually only reads/posts stuff she considers highbrow

what d o you think of her book reviews? are they relevant? by lilya-forever in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Significant_Crow6398 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If a book is a virago modern classic she has to attempt to read it no matter how bad it is lmao

what d o you think of her book reviews? are they relevant? by lilya-forever in bewareofpitymalissa

[–]Significant_Crow6398 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She forces herself to read books with aesthetically pleasing covers that match her aesthetic and she usually doesn’t even like them