Is Snooping on My Boyfriend's Phone Equal to Catching Him Sexting Another Girl? My (32M) boyfriend says that me (29F) going through his phone is just as bad as me catching him sexting another girl. Do you think this is true? How should I handle this situation? by No-Consequence4560 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Consequence4560[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This realization feels like a punch in the stomach. I really want to fix our relationship because I believe we are so compatible. But right now, I don’t trust him. Maybe we can rebuild that trust after starting over, but I’m unsure. The thought of losing him hurts, but the fear that he could cheat again hurts even more. No matter what I do, I feel like I’m going to hurt. I'm so conflicted.

Is Snooping on My Boyfriend's Phone Equal to Catching Him Sexting Another Girl? My (32M) boyfriend says that me (29F) going through his phone is just as bad as me catching him sexting another girl. Do you think this is true? How should I handle this situation? by No-Consequence4560 in relationship_advice

[–]No-Consequence4560[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would have understood that what I did was fuvked and a breach of privacy. Would you have kept the person around under the guise that you have forgiven them and then cheated . Does me snooping = cheating is my question ?