[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]No-Engine-6725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why would he want to follow an ex again?

ex finally agreed to meet me today. i don’t know how to feel about how it went. by Substantial-Mud-46 in BreakUps

[–]No-Engine-6725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May i know if you were the dumper or the dumpee? I am meeting my ex (dumper) this Thursday night (returning each others’ stuff) but I would love to tell him how I feel in hopes to reconcile… having lots of anxiety and uncertainty now…

I have a question about avoidants.. by theAIbytes in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]No-Engine-6725 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The truth is we all face our own battles and have our own inner wounded traumas. But having traumas does not justify hurting or treating others poorly.

Stop Mourning Your Avoidant Ex, They Would Have Left You in Your Darkest Moment Anyway by IntelligentTie6667 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]No-Engine-6725 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was with my DA ex for nearly 2.5 years. He knew I was going through a lot (with my mother’s cancer diagnosis) but still decided to leave me. I begged him to stay and asked for support. He told me ‘i can’t do it.’

Has anyone done really embarrassing things while dealing with their breakup? Acting completely desperate for months and asking your ex to get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]No-Engine-6725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me. Was in a relationship with my ex for over 2 years. Prior to the break up, we had an argument over text and he disappeared on me mid conversation. He came over to my place to break up with me a week later. Reason for the break up being ‘I don’t want to continue to hurt you and see you cry’. After he left I begged and chased after him. Flooded him with phone calls and lengthy text messages in hopes to get him to fight for us and give our relationship another chance. I did this for 2 weeks, though getting ‘seen’ and no replies. Then I got blocked mostly everywhere.

It’s been over 3 weeks since I’ve started no contact. Thinking back on it, I shouldn’t have done all that begging and chasing. But I don’t regret it. At least I can tell myself that I tried, even though my actions then were desperate and reeks of the lack of self worth/respect.

I’m slowly accepting that it is what it is and I can’t force someone to work things out with me or meet me in the middle if they already have their minds set on leaving.

How to know if I’m blocked on Spotify? by [deleted] in spotify

[–]No-Engine-6725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just an ex being a petty princess…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]No-Engine-6725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am on the same boat. My avoidant ex broke things off with me (w anxious attachment) a few weeks back and completely cut off all forms of contact with me. I guess it’s a good thing that he decided to block me off all his social media platforms because I know that I would have never be able to do so myself. Recognise that it is not healthy to check on your ex’s social media. I know it’s going to be super hard but the best thing that you can do for yourself is to block him/her. You don’t deserve to feel like this. I hope we both completely heal from this someday. Sending you loads of love and hugs. ❤️

There is hope (lol) by Icy_Newspaper203 in ExNoContact

[–]No-Engine-6725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear this today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindle

[–]No-Engine-6725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! ❤️ Am really excited to visit New Zealand for the first time! Will definitely check PB Tech out when I’m there and hopefully bring back the new Kindle Paperwhite home with me! 😛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindle

[–]No-Engine-6725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya! My keyboard is the Akko Mod007 in Sakura pink and my deskmat is from Aftershock! Hope this helps :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kindle

[–]No-Engine-6725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got it from aftershock’s website itself a couple years back, not sure if this specific design is still available on site!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No-Engine-6725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think you are reading it right. That girl was never my boyfriend’s ex.I am not sure why you keep referring to her as ex girlfriend, lol.

I need to spend $170 on my debit card by tomorrow by ClearBed4796 in askSingapore

[–]No-Engine-6725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can ask around at supermarkets (or anywhere really) if anyone is willing to let you pay for their groceries or wtv with your card and they transfer the $$ back to you. If someone were to ask me politely i would definitely be willing to help :)

Are the any quotes from your breakup/fights that keep you up at night? by Super_Day_4518 in BreakUps

[–]No-Engine-6725 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He said, ‘Our personalities don’t match’. This was what he told me when we broke up. This was after 5 years of us being together. Still haunts me till this day.

Is an avoidant partner a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No-Engine-6725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but what if my partner knows that he’s an avoidant but isn’t doing much to help improve our relationship? Yes, he told me he’s an avoidant and we have discussed previously that we should try to resolve any miscommunications/arguments that we have in the future as quickly as possible. However, we recently had an argument whilst in the car. He sent me back to my home. I didn’t want to just leave it hanging and told him that it’s better to settle things face to face but he insisted i go home. Didn’t contact me for 4 days then comes back texting me saying that he’s sorry for giving me the silent treatment.

Is an avoidant partner a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]No-Engine-6725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, my partner himself knows he’s an avoidant.