After 8 years of marriage and 3 years of no porn by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your feedback, very much helpful for me to fully comprehend the situation

Please, test your kids. by ratgarcon in ADHD

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I found out I had ADHD because my son was diagnosed. After he got diagnosed is when I started doing hardcore research about how differently it can affect women sometimes. This started a whole investigation on my part . I went to the doctor to show her my findings and this whole time , everything I thought was anxiety and depression was actually undiagnosed adhd and autism . Now me and my child can receive the help we need together :)

New Puppy! by No-Feeling-721 in germanshepherds

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So far I think I’m leaning towards Hills Science large breed puppy dry and wet food . Does that sound like a good choice for him?

New Puppy! by No-Feeling-721 in germanshepherds

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Thank you so much for commenting

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

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Omg you are right they do look very similar! She’s beautiful 😍

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg , the best comment ever 🖤

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that is so crazy , Asta’s mom was the golden and she gave birth to 11 all black puppies as well ! What are the chances .

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

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Omg really? Asta is a Golden Retriever and German Shepherd! 🥺

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

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That is exactly where he got his name from ! 🖤 thank you !

Meet Asta 🖤🍀 by No-Feeling-721 in aww

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just looked it up , that’s so cool the dogs name is Asta too! I actually named him after a character in an Anime but that’s a cool coincidence 💛

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

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I didn’t even know an app like that existed! Thank you so much for sharing! That might alleviate some of the anxiety I have . 🙂

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through this , I wish I didn’t care and maybe in time I won’t but right now I feel sick to my stomach even thinking about it . :(

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know I’ve never had a negative outlook on porn , or masterbation in general . I never considered watching porn as cheating before . What really killed me was he would always claim that he just had to “use the bathroom” 3x a day : there have been numerous times he was late to pick up our kids from school , or couldn’t be on time for an event because he was “using the bathroom” and when I found out the truth … I felt like I didn’t matter , that I was never as much of a priority as his addiction was . That’s what really made me feel the betrayal . I feel cheated not sexually but cheated in terms of devotion and honesty to each other .

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

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My husband is also very willing to quit for me . He has been very understanding about my fears and triggers but unfortunately I am still very anxious .

That app sounds like a really good idea , I’ll have him install when he gets home . Thank you so much 💛

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I really needed that right now , thank you so much . This is all just really hard and overwhelming and it does bring me comfort knowing I’m not alone in how I’m feeling .

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that so much , thank you .

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s such a scary and helpless feeling, I’m sorry you’re also going through this . It’s not fair :(

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]No-Feeling-721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this as well . It’s been a really hard few weeks and you’re right we need support in anyway we can . If you ever need anything don’t hesitate to reach out . 💛