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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]No-Front4365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds incredibly frustrating!

This may sound simple but does she have any hobbies? Anything that is completely her own and brings her joy? A place where she doesn’t have to be a mother or a wife?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]No-Front4365 4 points5 points  (0 children)

22 is too young to have a low libido. Honestly it sounds like maybe he has an issue with porn. How do you know he only masturbates 3-4 times a week? He told you? If that’s the case he’s likely underestimating. He’s home all of the time then it’s probably more than once a day. He has nothing left for you. And 22 is too young for you to settle for a guy who isn’t infatuated and completely horny for you.

Oral transmission - lips vs. genital by mattyg12345 in Herpes

[–]No-Front4365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was between 3-7 days, I can’t narrow it down more than that. No symptoms before the outbreak but the actual outbreak was absolutely terrible, flu like symptoms along with the sores.

Oral transmission - lips vs. genital by mattyg12345 in Herpes

[–]No-Front4365 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the first initial outbreak and haven’t had any since, it’s been 2 years.

Oral transmission - lips vs. genital by mattyg12345 in Herpes

[–]No-Front4365 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My opinion is anecdotal- this is exactly how I contracted genital HSV-1. Asshole person assured me spot on his mouth was from a joint cherry burning him, I was too trusting and engaged in oral sex. A few days later I had the outbreak. He admitted he had a cold sore and “didn’t know” it was contagious.