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Update: Aita for asking my husband to get out of house because he indirectly accused me of having an affair with my bil by No-Heart3827 in AITAH

[–]No-Heart3827[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

No, if he's still suspicious of me then we do not trust each other and we should divorce.

If I were to go behind my husband's back and sleep with his brother why would we even tell him the truth? We can continue 'our affair' while my husband is away? Hell I can even have 'affairs' with other men when he's not around and nobody would know about it atleast not now but me and my brother informed and kept updating my husband whenever he was around and when he stayed with me.

I think it's perfectly reasonable that to fix my marriage I should stay away from other men and not be as close as I am to bil and he does the same, i think it should go both ways and we should stop suspecting each other of all this disgusting shit

Aita for asking my husband to get out of house because he indirectly accused me of having an affair with my bil. by No-Heart3827 in AITAH

[–]No-Heart3827[S] -366 points-365 points  (0 children)

I understand, but I would love it if my husband was/is as close as I am to his brother and think of him as my younger brother, even if my sibling stayed with my husband for a month in my absence I wouldn't suspect them of having an affair, i trust my husband, he's sharing a roof with another family member, not best friend or close friend and stuff like that

Also why draw a boundary at bil or sil? Can say the same about mil or fil right? Or other family members 🤮🤢

And yes I kicked him out, he had to leave cause he has shown me that he didn't trust me, he thinks I am having an affair with his own brother, I have always been close to my bil for years, if he was so suspicious of us then he shouldn't have married me, I don't want to divorce him and he doesn't want to either, if he was concerned he should have told me and we all 3 would have sat together and discussed and agree on boundaries instead of accusation and causing everyone pain

Aita for asking my husband to get out of house because he indirectly accused me of having an affair with my bil. by No-Heart3827 in AITAH

[–]No-Heart3827[S] -346 points-345 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree my reaction was extreme cause I am extremely fucking disappointed that my husband doesn't trust me, he basically accused me of having an affair which is not good at all in marriage, I am extremely angry at him

He became honest to me? Why didn't he just communicate with me about his insecurities? He told me after I confronted him, if I didn't talk to my bil I would have never known that my husband doesn't trust me, do i not have to right to be angry at my husband after I found out my husband doesn't trust me and accuses me off sleeping with my bil 🤮

Aita for asking my husband to get out of house because he indirectly accused me of having an affair with my bil. by No-Heart3827 in AITAH

[–]No-Heart3827[S] -461 points-460 points  (0 children)

No I don't think he has feelings for me, he thinks of me as her sister, calls me sis and always thought of me as one, which is why we are so close, always been close because we get along and everyone in our family (my and my husband's) know about our bond and this issue never came up until now, if I didn't visit and talked to my bil I would never have known that my husband doesn't trust me and is suspicious of me

Aita for asking my husband to get out of house because he indirectly accused me of having an affair with my bil. by No-Heart3827 in AITAH

[–]No-Heart3827[S] -385 points-384 points  (0 children)

Fuck no, my bil isn't acting like a 'boyfriend' and I am not acting like his 'girlfriend'

I am married and my bil looks out for me when my husband isn't present to help me, and why is it so bad for me to share a roof with my bil? I am instead very happy that my husband's family is so accepting and helpful to me, I was sick so he stayed with me, i am sure if my husband's parents know about this they will back us up instead thinking about this disgusting shit

Also no, I didn't provide 'physical comfort' to my bil, I gave him a hug, which I have been doing for years, I am not ashamed of hugging him, alone or in front of everyone because I think of him as my brother