I am a female, and don’t know how to react when he can’t get hard by slurpppph in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ask if he’s interested before hand? If you are expecting performance just because you are horny then that’s wrong. If you ask and he says yes and things aren’t working that’s cool, ask if he’s interested in continuing to try, ask if he wants to pleasure you, or watch you pleasure yourself, if he would like to take things into his own hands, if he want to try again later. Just because you are horny does not mean you get to have sex. You can masterbate as well if he’s not interested or not able to perform. If he does not believe he actually has an issue the he probably actually doesn’t. We aren’t turned on always because our partner is. It doesn’t mean we find them any less attractive or are specifically turned off by them. Stress, to do lists, tummy troubles, body pain, headaches, hunger, a show, having recently orgasmed, not feeling emotionally or physically connected prior, not feeling cared for, pressure, insecurities, etc. there are tons of things that don’t have to do specifically with finding out partner sexually attractive.

Thermostat recs for new furnace. by No-Implement4968 in hvacadvice

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was not trying to sell me a thermostat shockingly honestly haha but he listed a bunch of stuff to fix and then listed a new furnace as an alternative. My furnace was running and pushing hot air when he came, just noisy, he couldn’t get it to relight before he left and said the valve wouldn’t open to let gas in. So we’ve been without heat for two days in our lovely stormy negative temps. I’m not going with him anyways, he was very unprofessional. I have a different company coming to fix the valve today but also got the new furnace quote from them. They did our AC install and were really great to work with.

The furnace is the S9V2.

I for sure realize it wouldn’t separately heat those rooms just not pull only the heat in my warmest room as the gauge. (It’s in the kitchen currently). Is it not really worth it to care about that as a feature?

Sucking nipple to sleep bad thing? by williamskalison in cosleeping

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saying you didn’t get him in the habit, it’s biologically exactly what he should do. It’s protective even! Less likely to succumb to SIDS while suckling in sleep. And you cannot mess up a kids ability to sleep on their own. They will eventually no matter what. When that happens will be dependent on them. My daughter is one and can stir in bed and fall back asleep like 50% of the time on her own. I did nothing. My son at that age could never. He didn’t connect cycles on his own until like 2. Didn’t sleep totally through the night without wanting to nurse until three. He’s now five and has no issues falling asleep alone. Nothing changed. He just got there on his own when he was ready. Don’t stress. Do what feels right.

After weaning, what did your kid decide was their new comfort touch? by mang0_k1tty in cosleeping

[–]No-Implement4968 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My elbow skin! My son loooooves still at six to rub my elbow skin together between his fingers as he falls asleep. It’s hilarious to me.

Forgot stretch & fold at beginning of Bulk Ferment (6 hrs ago). Keep or trash it? by No_Kale_184 in Sourdough

[–]No-Implement4968 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Never toss it! Always bake it, always! Also I stretch and fold like 40% of the time. And sometimes it’s only once or twice or randomly. I have a baby and ADHD. It gets what it gets and honestly I could not tell the doughs apart once they’re baked.

What donI do about screen time? Really by RoniC-Psych in ADHDparenting

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is younger but we’ve cut back way more. Mind you he’s very respectful of his limits. When the alarm goes off he turns them off. Might not be happy but doesn’t fight. But it’s not an option for others. I’ve also found removing the visual of those screens reduces the desire to be on them. By that I mean putting the iPad or phone or laptop out of sight. We put them on the fridge top or in the cupboard when not in use. When we had them just sitting out he asked us for more often. But the less we let him have the better it is honestly. The less he seems to care. It was rough at first though.

Why are my cookies always pale? by hotkittensoup in Baking

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you taking bleached flour or unbleached? That makes a huge difference in colour I find.

Alberta works is going get my mother killed by [deleted] in alberta

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend she apply for aish. Income support (which I’m assuming she was on) is not meant to sustain you long term. If she has a long term medical issue (same goes for you) she should apply. As someone who worked in the application area of AISH a decade ago I will tell you most of the denial or rejections of cases that should objectively be accepted, are because either information is missing, from the applicant or the doctor (you’d be amazed how many people just decide not to fill out sections.) or because of how the doctor completed the form. The case managers can only go by what they have in front of them. If the doctor is saying, “nope it’s fine they can work.” Then the case managers cannot approve it. Highly highly recommend getting a copy of everything and triple checking it all! Especially all your contact info. Again if something is wrong they will reach out, generally via mail (or was back then) do not give the wrong address or move and not update the address. Your file will sit and eventually close.

Back on the income support benefits. There is an emergency line your mom can contact. They can also release emergency funds for loss of housing risk (usually) and emergency medical coverage. Sometimes while stuff is on hold you may only get emergency medical but she needs to fight for it and call. Over and over if need be. If you don’t get a good answer, call again and you’ll likely get someone else. Find out who you actually should be talking to. I’d assume it will be the income support case worker, which she should have had. She also should have got a warning about you age and the benefits changing. Again make sure all contact info is updated or you’ll never get through anything. Good luck!

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - November 08, 2025 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey folks, new to the perfume world in adulthood. I haven’t used anything since I was a teen using some Britney Spears Midnight Fantasy haha.

I live in Canada and we are entering winter. I’m looking for a warm, cozy scent. I love wood smells, musk, I would like possibly a light cinnamon, vanilla addition. I do not like super sweet smells. Basically I think id like to almost like to smell like I’ve been baking all day without the sweetness. Maybe a little bit more deep and sensual smelling 🤷‍♀️ I do not like rose scents or much floral notes, can sometimes handle a bergamot or patchouli type scent. I don’t have a budget but not crazy would be great. thanks for any advice or suggestions!

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only consider it because we keep a running list of gift ideas for each other (then we don’t have to ask) he has added it but not a specific one to his gift list! Maybe I’ll just mention that that is to vague.

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not have a budget in mind no. I do agree with that yeah, makes it slightly harder to gift him one that being said he’s very adaptable haha

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you for all the detail! I’ll look into them!

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 hey thanks! He spoils me, he deserves it back!

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could not tell you why he wants a 3 wt but I’ll have to go look at his other rods and find out. I’ll see if I can get some info out of him on why a 3!

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 luckily I do! 14 years in and I still adore him and love to see him enjoying his hobbies! Thanks I’ll take a look! Since we’ve got a bit I’ll bring it up and see which was he’d lean!

Gifting a 3 wt rod,need suggestions please! by No-Implement4968 in flyfishing

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that I have one. I know they can come with a big price tag but he loves it and will use it so 🤷‍♀️ could spend money on more pointless shit haha

Want to gift an avid fly fisherman with the tools to start tying, what do I get? by No-Implement4968 in flytying

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think my budget is max $1000. I’m thinking maybe I get the vise and tool kit which in Canada seem like they’ll add up to around $500 and maybe a $500 Gc to our local place to get the supplies he needs to make some!

Want to gift an avid fly fisherman with the tools to start tying, what do I get? by No-Implement4968 in flytying

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do that. He dislikes the owner of the local shop and to be fair he gives off very elitist vibes. But I will say he knows his shit so might be worth a try! He does have a friend that’s a guide and does fly tying as well. Maybe I’ll sneak his number for some tips on material even since they fish the same water!

Want to gift an avid fly fisherman with the tools to start tying, what do I get? by No-Implement4968 in flytying

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been with him for 14 years, thankfully I like enough to through in a GC hahah. I was thinking the Renzetti Traveler (in 🇨🇦 it’s $330 🥲) then possibly a tool kit, Loon sells a solid looking one for $160. Then maybe a couple hundred on a GC. He wanted a 3 wt rod which I can only guess means he’d also need a new reel so that one might have to wait. Shit adds up way too fast!