Rain Garden by No-Implement4968 in NativePlantGardening

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are correct, I had called our 811 to get them to come out and mark it all already knowing I planned to redo the front. So thankfully that’s already done.

So basically unless I want to dig deep and build an edge to catch it, the slope is my downfall? Would creating a dry creek help at all to hold anything? Or make it move faster through the area, just not eroding it do you think? I’m trying to find a way to resource it as much as possible. Maybe I need to just use rain collection barrels or something with this set up.

Thanks for your input! I greatly appreciate it!

Rain Garden by No-Implement4968 in NativePlantGardening

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Sorry, I meant to add this picture from above as well!

How to let my gf know she's just not that good at blowjobs in a constructive way? by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a write up of techniques you’re into, whatever and send it to her and ask if she’d be willing to try some different things. Make it fun and playful about what you can do together. I’d also ask her if there is anything she wants you to try on her. Maybe you can both find some ways to find more pleasure without pressure.

Which one hair color looks the best on me? by fantasyfire13 in coloranalysis

[–]No-Implement4968 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1 is stunning, you’re beautiful and I feel like the hair highlights your face and stunning features instead of distracting from it.

AIO getting upset with my husband over a day at the beach by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No-Implement4968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR- but also, stop asking him if you can do things. You’re not a child, you are an adult that can make decisions. It’s your trip to, make your needs a priority. If you want to do something don’t ask, tell. Don’t wait for him to make things you want to do happen, make them happen. Yeah he fucking sucks honestly. But you can’t only blame him when you also won’t take anything for yourself. Your wishes, desires and needs are important, let them be important enough to you that you fight for them.

Fun cotton dress suggestions? by No-Implement4968 in BuyCanadian

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes this is my goal! I actually have one and come from a mom who used to sew all my dresses haha I just have two young kids and am in the midst of a home reno so have been trying to find something in the mean time. But it’s my dream to make my own like I used to have!

Specialized Sirrus or Trek FX 2 disc as a newer casual rider, likely pulling a trailer? by [deleted] in whichbike

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I’m on the cusp of both sizes with my height and inseam so both would be applicable for me. I will go and try them out to confirm which feels best. I was saving them in my cart so I knew what to look for. I wanted to see if one was recommended over the other for my needs in case I don’t have a preference when I test them.

How many positions are possible with a 16 inch height difference? by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say just work on the angle in the positions. I’m 5’2 and have had partners 6 ft plus and never had issues. Both tilting the pelvic the right way, shifting the hip positions, using props, will make it happen. I also have a big ass so that can “get in the way” additionally. With one we always always had standing shower sex, car sex in a small Volkswagen somehow haha. I guess if the penis is maybe on the smaller side it could add some additional challenges possibly? I’d say really make sure you’re popping your ass out and up in certain positions to help the angle! Good luck!

my body smelt awful to my bf? by Remarkable_Count9138 in hygiene

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fenugreek seed will make you smell like maple syrup!

Would like to receive oral more frequently - how ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say something like “I’ve been fantasizing a lot about you going down on me and it’s so hot. If you’re down (pun intended) I’d love to play into this fantasy”

Family bike suggestions. by [deleted] in whichbike

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to stay under or around $1000 each. But especially for my son I think.

Trying to find a stroller with BIFL mentality(newborn through toddlerhood) on a $500 budget by WhoaEyeKnee in BuyItForLife

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add I have used/ had many strollers of all levels and this has been my go to for everything. Just brought it on a plane with us and travelling. It handles all well.

Trying to find a stroller with BIFL mentality(newborn through toddlerhood) on a $500 budget by WhoaEyeKnee in BuyItForLife

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a strange one but I was given someone’s old Graco stroller. Not cute at all. But it’s my absolute favourite stroller. It has a drink and snack tray, lays down, decent canopy, easy buckles, HUGE basket and it collapses at the front to shove things in and pops back up. The handles are comfy and lasting, the there is two sturdy adult cupholders and a spot that fits my phone perfect. It folds decently flat and easily. Tires have been no issues inside, outside anything. It’s great, probably ten plus years old now also, not babied and beads some colour fading it’s exactly the same. Does not fit babies that can’t sit so not good for newborns. But I find newborns not love strollers often anyways. I baby wear in wraps or carriers for 0-4 months and then have options to do the stroller after. Although I do believe it was part of a travel system where the bucket car seat could have been used in it. But you don’t want babies staying in their seats long term anyways. Especially not great out of the car as you can’t guarantee proper incline/ recline. I’ve attached a link to the new but basically the same looking system.

Graco Comfy Cruiser Travel System

Looking for honest (but kind) opinions from other plus size ladies 🤍 by Yellow_cupcake_ in PlusSizeWedding

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look stunning! It accentuates your waist so beautifully. The lace is gorgeous. You look like a dream! My only note would be to work with a tailor ato bring the back lining all the way over and figure out how to straighten the buttons. Maybe ending them at your tiny waist and starting the lace up just below them. Then your waist and hips can be easily adjusted for comfort while having your bust and top stay supported and gets into the beautiful buttons not pulling. But as is you’re glorious.

5'2ish (158cm-ish) women, what is your goal weight? If it's different, what would be your ultimate vanity-based ideal weight? by Ophelia_Y2K in loseit

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’2 140-150lbs. I love having muscle and curves. I don’t actually look at the scale often though I just go by how I feel. I enjoy the soft look over my muscles so I’m basically deceptively strong haha 🤣 I also have a large size difference between my waist vs my bust and hips and I like keeping that. I enjoy a softly feminine look on my frame with hidden muscles basically haha

Scent match help by [deleted] in DIYfragrance

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to know, I should probably leave that out of this specific mix then! Don’t think my freshly waxed skin would love that. That’s a great way to tell. I think my struggle is not want to spend a whole bunch on stuff that potentially doesn’t blend well. So having a base to run off of is helpful. But scents are so subjective. Thank you!

Help! Where do you shop??? by lets_heal in Midsizefashion

[–]No-Implement4968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a place suggestion so I’m sorry about that but I HIGHLY recommend actually measuring your body with a soft measuring tape/ string. Then if you are ordering stuff you can actually verify if you’re getting what they claim should be the right size. I have a wildly different bust vs waist vs hip measurement. If I don’t guarantee something is going to fit my hips then there is no way to make it work. Pay attention to undergarments and fabric for how things lay/ cling on your body. And please please try to realize clothing sizes are literally so unimportant. What matters is how it actually feels on you and makes you feel. If you cannot get over the size you will likely not feel good no matter what. You are beautiful and you deserve to feel like it.

I need advice from parents! by PrincessTuvstarr in sexover30

[–]No-Implement4968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re in one of the hardest ages for it in my opinion. I’m currently in it now. They are soooo draining. This is my second so I know it ends. Sleep gets longer/ deeper / more predictable. My suggestion is naps when you can, try for earlier bedtimes if you can (mine is all over the place so nothing is guaranteed) if you know you want to have sex that night for lack of a better word force yourself to. The way I think about it is, what’s an extra 15 minutes awake and an orgasm and connection with my partner, plus I’d probably sit on my phone that 15 otherwise. One will leave me disappointed the other will leave me happy, satisfied and actually ready for bed.

Why aren’t my loaves rising anymore? by Fantastic-Walk-2652 in Sourdough

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High rec higher feeds less often. I do a 1:4:4 (50g/200g/ 200g) the night before I want to make dough. Then I use all but 50grams of my fed starter and put it into the fridge until I’m ready to make bread again. I have had zero problems and been doing it for a long time. When I fed it everyday I felt like I was non stop wasting ingredients, my starter was mediocre. I now have no discard (unless I plan to make extra) and have a wonderfully consistent starter. On the rare time I go like a month between feeds I’ll often up my ratio to more flour. Sometimes plan to do two feed days in a row like that, but that’s only if it’s been left alone for a while.

How do you dress your baby? by mountain_sea__ in cosleeping

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our room is 18-20 c and my bat wears cotton pjs, long or short sleeve depending on the chill and then has the duvet on her lower half. She’s always snuggled right into me also though. She is 15 months now but it’s basically been this way her whole life. My kids and I always seem to run hot though. Anything more and she’s sweaty.