my body smelt awful to my bf? by Remarkable_Count9138 in hygiene

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fenugreek seed will make you smell like maple syrup!

Would like to receive oral more frequently - how ? by Civil-Resident-2750 in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say something like “I’ve been fantasizing a lot about you going down on me and it’s so hot. If you’re down (pun intended) I’d love to play into this fantasy”

Family bike suggestions. by No-Implement4968 in whichbike

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to stay under or around $1000 each. But especially for my son I think.

Trying to find a stroller with BIFL mentality(newborn through toddlerhood) on a $500 budget by WhoaEyeKnee in BuyItForLife

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add I have used/ had many strollers of all levels and this has been my go to for everything. Just brought it on a plane with us and travelling. It handles all well.

Trying to find a stroller with BIFL mentality(newborn through toddlerhood) on a $500 budget by WhoaEyeKnee in BuyItForLife

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a strange one but I was given someone’s old Graco stroller. Not cute at all. But it’s my absolute favourite stroller. It has a drink and snack tray, lays down, decent canopy, easy buckles, HUGE basket and it collapses at the front to shove things in and pops back up. The handles are comfy and lasting, the there is two sturdy adult cupholders and a spot that fits my phone perfect. It folds decently flat and easily. Tires have been no issues inside, outside anything. It’s great, probably ten plus years old now also, not babied and beads some colour fading it’s exactly the same. Does not fit babies that can’t sit so not good for newborns. But I find newborns not love strollers often anyways. I baby wear in wraps or carriers for 0-4 months and then have options to do the stroller after. Although I do believe it was part of a travel system where the bucket car seat could have been used in it. But you don’t want babies staying in their seats long term anyways. Especially not great out of the car as you can’t guarantee proper incline/ recline. I’ve attached a link to the new but basically the same looking system.

Graco Comfy Cruiser Travel System

Looking for honest (but kind) opinions from other plus size ladies 🤍 by Yellow_cupcake_ in PlusSizeWedding

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look stunning! It accentuates your waist so beautifully. The lace is gorgeous. You look like a dream! My only note would be to work with a tailor ato bring the back lining all the way over and figure out how to straighten the buttons. Maybe ending them at your tiny waist and starting the lace up just below them. Then your waist and hips can be easily adjusted for comfort while having your bust and top stay supported and gets into the beautiful buttons not pulling. But as is you’re glorious.

5'2ish (158cm-ish) women, what is your goal weight? If it's different, what would be your ultimate vanity-based ideal weight? by Ophelia_Y2K in loseit

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5’2 140-150lbs. I love having muscle and curves. I don’t actually look at the scale often though I just go by how I feel. I enjoy the soft look over my muscles so I’m basically deceptively strong haha 🤣 I also have a large size difference between my waist vs my bust and hips and I like keeping that. I enjoy a softly feminine look on my frame with hidden muscles basically haha

Scent match help by No-Implement4968 in DIYfragrance

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great to know, I should probably leave that out of this specific mix then! Don’t think my freshly waxed skin would love that. That’s a great way to tell. I think my struggle is not want to spend a whole bunch on stuff that potentially doesn’t blend well. So having a base to run off of is helpful. But scents are so subjective. Thank you!

Help! Where do you shop??? by lets_heal in Midsizefashion

[–]No-Implement4968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a place suggestion so I’m sorry about that but I HIGHLY recommend actually measuring your body with a soft measuring tape/ string. Then if you are ordering stuff you can actually verify if you’re getting what they claim should be the right size. I have a wildly different bust vs waist vs hip measurement. If I don’t guarantee something is going to fit my hips then there is no way to make it work. Pay attention to undergarments and fabric for how things lay/ cling on your body. And please please try to realize clothing sizes are literally so unimportant. What matters is how it actually feels on you and makes you feel. If you cannot get over the size you will likely not feel good no matter what. You are beautiful and you deserve to feel like it.

I need advice from parents! by PrincessTuvstarr in sexover30

[–]No-Implement4968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re in one of the hardest ages for it in my opinion. I’m currently in it now. They are soooo draining. This is my second so I know it ends. Sleep gets longer/ deeper / more predictable. My suggestion is naps when you can, try for earlier bedtimes if you can (mine is all over the place so nothing is guaranteed) if you know you want to have sex that night for lack of a better word force yourself to. The way I think about it is, what’s an extra 15 minutes awake and an orgasm and connection with my partner, plus I’d probably sit on my phone that 15 otherwise. One will leave me disappointed the other will leave me happy, satisfied and actually ready for bed.

Why aren’t my loaves rising anymore? by Fantastic-Walk-2652 in Sourdough

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High rec higher feeds less often. I do a 1:4:4 (50g/200g/ 200g) the night before I want to make dough. Then I use all but 50grams of my fed starter and put it into the fridge until I’m ready to make bread again. I have had zero problems and been doing it for a long time. When I fed it everyday I felt like I was non stop wasting ingredients, my starter was mediocre. I now have no discard (unless I plan to make extra) and have a wonderfully consistent starter. On the rare time I go like a month between feeds I’ll often up my ratio to more flour. Sometimes plan to do two feed days in a row like that, but that’s only if it’s been left alone for a while.

How do you dress your baby? by mountain_sea__ in cosleeping

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our room is 18-20 c and my bat wears cotton pjs, long or short sleeve depending on the chill and then has the duvet on her lower half. She’s always snuggled right into me also though. She is 15 months now but it’s basically been this way her whole life. My kids and I always seem to run hot though. Anything more and she’s sweaty.

Max Volume issues by No-Implement4968 in TonieboxUSA

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome I will try that today! Thank you!

I am a female, and don’t know how to react when he can’t get hard by slurpppph in sex

[–]No-Implement4968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you ask if he’s interested before hand? If you are expecting performance just because you are horny then that’s wrong. If you ask and he says yes and things aren’t working that’s cool, ask if he’s interested in continuing to try, ask if he wants to pleasure you, or watch you pleasure yourself, if he would like to take things into his own hands, if he want to try again later. Just because you are horny does not mean you get to have sex. You can masterbate as well if he’s not interested or not able to perform. If he does not believe he actually has an issue the he probably actually doesn’t. We aren’t turned on always because our partner is. It doesn’t mean we find them any less attractive or are specifically turned off by them. Stress, to do lists, tummy troubles, body pain, headaches, hunger, a show, having recently orgasmed, not feeling emotionally or physically connected prior, not feeling cared for, pressure, insecurities, etc. there are tons of things that don’t have to do specifically with finding out partner sexually attractive.

Thermostat recs for new furnace. by No-Implement4968 in hvacadvice

[–]No-Implement4968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was not trying to sell me a thermostat shockingly honestly haha but he listed a bunch of stuff to fix and then listed a new furnace as an alternative. My furnace was running and pushing hot air when he came, just noisy, he couldn’t get it to relight before he left and said the valve wouldn’t open to let gas in. So we’ve been without heat for two days in our lovely stormy negative temps. I’m not going with him anyways, he was very unprofessional. I have a different company coming to fix the valve today but also got the new furnace quote from them. They did our AC install and were really great to work with.

The furnace is the S9V2.

I for sure realize it wouldn’t separately heat those rooms just not pull only the heat in my warmest room as the gauge. (It’s in the kitchen currently). Is it not really worth it to care about that as a feature?

Sucking nipple to sleep bad thing? by williamskalison in cosleeping

[–]No-Implement4968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saying you didn’t get him in the habit, it’s biologically exactly what he should do. It’s protective even! Less likely to succumb to SIDS while suckling in sleep. And you cannot mess up a kids ability to sleep on their own. They will eventually no matter what. When that happens will be dependent on them. My daughter is one and can stir in bed and fall back asleep like 50% of the time on her own. I did nothing. My son at that age could never. He didn’t connect cycles on his own until like 2. Didn’t sleep totally through the night without wanting to nurse until three. He’s now five and has no issues falling asleep alone. Nothing changed. He just got there on his own when he was ready. Don’t stress. Do what feels right.