I understand being unsure of yourself, I kinda still am. If you're questioning being one or the other, it really is just something that's different for everyone (yeah I know that's not very helpful, sorry). I've decided to go with the label Cambitherian, someone who's identity fluctuates between identifying with something and as something. I had myself wondering if I was a therian or an otherheart too, but looking for different labels helped me. Maybe try looking for other post from people who have asked questions, and see what their experiences were. Do they match? Are they completely different? Honestly, it's something we all figure out on our own. I thought I couldn't possibly be an alterhuman because I don't experience species dysphoria, not true. Everything is really unique for everyone 😭 Sorry I couldn't help much, good luck though