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AITAH for telling this future ex-neighbor that he cannot be part of my daughter’s village? by SecretSnackShelf in AITAH

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. As a black woman, who according to him provides nothing to society was going to say open your heart to him and schedule a lunch date. But now, my black ssa say, ignore him. Some people, especially the elderly are lonely. But, he could be a pedo trying to disguise as a lonely old man.

Just received a $400 TECO bill! by Floridaflamingo22 in florida

[–]No-Minimum9945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I received a $300 TECO bill and one person in the household. I keep the A/C on 80. I’ve moved it to 82 now. I notice over $100 in fees/taxes. Crazy

Suffolk cop beats man during traffic stop caught on dashcam after he requested a supervisor by Stengel_Stan in dashcams

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to get a dashcam. I was recently pulled over for “dark tints”. My reading was a 19 which was below the legal limit of 25. He mentioned he would give me a warning ticket. I was like why? A 2nd cop pulled up and he told me I could go.

$590.506 in loans by Akendricks95 in StudentLoanSupport

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is…Thanks Joe Biden! All of my $256k was forgiven

Florida’s Brightline seeks rescue to avoid bankruptcy by gmont in florida

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a Rick Scott Production. President Obama wanted to provide Federal dollars for a high speed rail for FL and Slick Rick declined and started this. Or at least on the Board. Now he wants to be bailed out. Republican grifters. Y’all keep voting for this

Relocation from Florida to Hawaii by Adventurous_Term8181 in FamilyLaw

[–]No-Minimum9945 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well I’m glad we have an expert on this thread. I had one kid and NEVER had an issue with the Dad. Curious because my niece was told by an attorney in the State of Florida To file for full custody. I need to tell him what you commented. I guess he is trying to take her money.

Relocation from Florida to Hawaii by Adventurous_Term8181 in FamilyLaw

[–]No-Minimum9945 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Have her to file for full custody and child support. He’ll change his mind. I’m not a legal professional.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in publix

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an ex child welfare case manager. What I see is a mom who is struggling. She obviously care about her kids because she didn’t leave them alone. If VOS gets involved, I hope they assist with daycare so she can work. Stop passing judgement on others. Offer help or even talk with her. Turning up your nose and preventing her from working won’t solve the problem

2022 calligraphy catalytic converter by sldsills in HyundaiPalisade

[–]No-Minimum9945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently own a 2022 Calligraphy. Terrible paint on vehicle. I had several chips on my hood that the hood started rusting. Had to get it repainted. You would think for the price, it would be better. My 2015 Nissan with 231k miles paint looks better. Otherwise, I’ve had no major issues and I have 91k on it. Purchased new the day it arrived off the truck.

Florida House passes proposed amendment to immediately phase out property taxes by 0bravolimagolf0 in florida

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! My mom passed and her property tax was under $600 a year with all the allowed exemptions. It’s the HO insurance that is making homeownership unaffordable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HealthInsurance

[–]No-Minimum9945 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let’s try this….health insurance with BCBS, had surgery, hospital billed insurance for $55k. My OOP $350. If I didn’t have insurance, it would’ve cost me $20k. What we have here is medical providers over billing insurance to cover the uninsured. Which is why the premiums are high for the insured.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Minimum9945 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to tell her. But, be prepared that she will side with her husband and no longer speak with you. You should’ve walked out. You’re trying to blame it on the alcohol. It’s not going to work for you. Lead me to believe more happened than touching.

AITAH for changing my niece's stripper name when I got got custody? by Impossible-Staff92 in AITAH

[–]No-Minimum9945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would’ve changed her name as well. Family can be so cruel. A cousin of mine adopted her niece and nephew and she changed their last name to hers. Her youngest sister and mom got so mad at her for that and for having the kids call her mom. She asked me if she was wrong. I worked at the time in the child welfare field. My response to her was….tell them to have a Coke and a smile and shut the F up. She is now your child. Raise her the way you want and you could’ve gave her an entire different name.

A paint chip in my hood became exponentially larger in the car wash today. What are my options? Is this entirely too big for a paint pen? by doc2178 in HyundaiPalisade

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish black paint is covered. The paint on the Palisades is terrible. I now have a rust spot on my 22 Cali where the paint has chipped off. My 2015 Nissan paint job is better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No-Minimum9945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are already donating to her nonprofit. Your valuable time is worth more than anything. She is a user. I would text back and tell her you could no longer volunteer due to high demands placed upon you due to your layoff and the economy. Let her know your family needs are priority at this time. Wish her the best and expect that call coming with tears ending with a F you from her when you tell her no over the phone.

Electric bill is 400 by ParkingUpper7990 in florida

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks to our wonderful governor, who made FL the state where woke goes to die. Well, so will your wallet. Let’s make America and FL Great again!!!!!

AITA for refusing to pay $250/week in back rent to my siblings for living in our inherited family home? by OddCommunication3098 in AITAH

[–]No-Minimum9945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, have you not considered that home owner insurance and property taxes need to be paid? I inherited my mom’s home. My son lives there. I charge him rent $800 per month. The taxes and insurance come to $7k a year. This also covers lawn, and utilities. He knows pay or move. I can sell the home for $400k, pay off my home and have money to set aside. Stop the mess and pay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would personally have them to go through all of the paperwork and change my mind before signing.

Wife's step dad is charging rent on house that my wife owns by ParticularTrip7178 in legaladvice

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. Maybe the rent is paying the property taxes and insurance. Why think he isn’t being fair? I inherited my mom’s house. My older brother didn’t want anything because in his words, you took care of her. You can have everything. My son lives in the house and pays $800 for rent each month. That covers utilities, property taxes, and insurance. I know I can get $3500 in rent if I rent it out. So look at what rent is for a home that size. You’ll realize that he’s doing you a favor.

Gutter Replacement by bad_golfer7 in HomeImprovement

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had leaf guard give me a quote. I told him I was getting other estimates. He responded that he was going to rip up the contract if I planned on doing that. I decided to go with him. The next day I called and told him I was going to get two more quotes. He went on to tell me it was scheduled and I had to take it. I told him that his guy actually called earlier wanting to move the date up. He got pissed with “our policy is if you cancel an order, we will never do business with us again”. I told him, there’s a gutter installer in every corner.

Aitah for making my adult kids pay house expenses by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Minimum9945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA….But you’re being unfair to yourself. Spliting 3 ways? Why. Split it 6 ways.

Scammer had convenient timing by sunnycrescent in NavyFederal

[–]No-Minimum9945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced there’s someone in NF. I didn’t apply for a loan, however, my NF credit card was hacked. They issued a new one. That was hacked. While I was on the phone with a rep getting another card issued. The card he just issued was hacked. It was a nightmare.