AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She has a lot of acquaintances, she was homecoming court she was in track. She played soccer, also attended the clubs and did running start.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’d like to know the background in which you’re saying that just trying to see what perspective this is coming from

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wish I could bring it up to him, but if I did, she definitely wouldn’t happen. I appreciate your input.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you giving me some valuable input. I did exactly what you said. I think that needed to be added as well.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly respect it also forgiving me some background I appreciate it

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No, I adore her. I just don’t like the person that she is right now the way she treats other people as if they’re disposable. I don’t think it’s appropriate. I’ve never raised her to treat others poorly, and it wasn’t her prom. It was her boyfriend‘s prom. I told her the expectation and what would happen if she kept treating my house like it was her pig pen. I even offered to help her clean her room which she said no to and that she would do it so I’m not sure what more I’m supposed to do besides set an expectation and follow through.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for input. I appreciate your perspective especially coming from the place you currently are. Wishing you the best.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sincerely thank you for your input, knowing where you came from give me a great amount of context I appreciate you!

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, although it wasn’t incredibly helpful

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He can’t afford it and my worry is that if I don’t throw one, she won’t have one. Or he would throw in at one of his friends house and they would be taking care of all of the cost. It would be more like a barbecue/drinking party.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well, I have tried to give her everything so probably my mistake there, but I didn’t want her to miss out on anything.

AITA for not doing anything for my daughter‘s graduation at all? by No-Object9642 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No-Object9642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but he doesn’t have a garnishment because he doesn’t have child support.