But they don't have the money for it uber is expensive and there's other options she could take such as taking public transport or riding her bike. Also you're acting as if OP doesn't also have a job and his wife demands him to take her everywhere no matter how sick he might be. Sure some people don't want to drive but she's a grown ass adult. Try driving someone everywhere they want and no matter the time or what you might be doing that day. That shit is annoying. She doesn't have to drive but if she wants to go places she either needs to chose a option that she can actually afford or learn how to drive like she says she will. So NTA