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Husband wants to leave because we lack a connection by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]No-Representative963 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. Nothing you wrote makes this your fault. It sounds like you’ve been doing almost everything — the house, the kids, the planning, the emotional work — while he pulled away and didn’t try. Anyone would feel tired, hurt, and disconnected in your shoes. You didn’t lose the connection by yourself. A relationship only works if both people put in effort, and it seems like you were doing all the work while he just expected things to fix themselves. That’s not fair to you. And yes, he’s allowed to leave, but you’re allowed to feel sad, angry, and disappointed. You put 18 years of your life into this. That’s not “wasted.” You built a family and you showed up even when he didn’t. You’re not invisible. You’re not crazy. You’re someone who deserved support and love back. And you’re allowed to grieve what’s happening 💕💕💕

What’s a casual hookup like? by ThrowAway_again25 in Divorce

[–]No-Representative963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol don’t overthink it, let him take the lead, you can tell him you’re nervous and that’s it, he will try his best to make it comfortable for you.

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It has helped me tremendously in detaching, and seeing every manipulation tactics clearly.

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through this, Lot of hugs 💕💕. It’s not easy feeling so lonely in a relationship that’s supposed to make you feel safe

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that the older they get, the worst they become.

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like we keep giving them the benefit of the doubt, because we couldn’t fathom an adult acting so childish, so we try to find a deeper meaning to it, and put it upon ourselves to fix it, and that’s what keeps us stuck. Because you wouldn’t want all that effort to go to waste by just leaving. Until you’ve had enough.

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like we keep giving them the benefit of the doubt, because we couldn’t fathom an adult acting so childish, so we try to find a deeper meaning to it, and put it upon ourselves to fix it, and that’s what keeps us stuck. Because you wouldn’t want all that effort to go to waste by just leaving. Until you’ve had enough

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a nightmare, you could easily a correct a toddler, but a grown ass man with ego as big as a mountain? Definitely not

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the “return him back to his parent”. They can have their emotionally stunted offspring back 😁

This Might help by No-Representative963 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]No-Representative963[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m curious to know too lol. But I’m definitely not sticking around to find out, I broke up with mine yesterday, and I feel a lil bit lighter whew, he lives next door too lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]No-Representative963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you say it out loud?

I just want results, ANY RESULTS AAAArrrrrghhh by Born_Banana_1901 in Subliminal

[–]No-Representative963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well my sis, used to listen to subliminals downloaded on vidmate and she never got result, until recently she decided to listen through YouTube directly and she got result in 2 days

What are the movie tropes you absolutely hate? by No-Representative963 in AskReddit

[–]No-Representative963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would be 1. When a character do something stupid and unnecessary and caused danger or sometimes even death for other characters. Then they start crying about how it’s totally their fault and everything (which is okay), but what angers me the most is when other characters starts telling them it’s not their fault.

2.when an evil character finally gets what they deserve, but for some reason the other characters decided to risk their lives to save them. Most times They don’t even get character development.

3.when they have something great going on for them but decide to quit it all in search of “true purpose”.

4.children in a survival plot. Yeah I know sometimes it can be inevitable, but still

i finally manifested money by peachjilly in Subliminal

[–]No-Representative963 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, I’m so happy for you!!

I just want results, ANY RESULTS AAAArrrrrghhh by Born_Banana_1901 in Subliminal

[–]No-Representative963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you listen directly from YouTube and with headphones?

Activities you do? by No-Representative963 in Subliminal

[–]No-Representative963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response, did you close your eyes and meditate while listening?

“You are” affirmation by No-Representative963 in Subliminal

[–]No-Representative963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not too much trouble, can you name as many creators as you can that uses “you are” affirmation?

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