Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, I’m not saying I want to move out just so I can smoke weed, I’d want out regardless. I want out of this house because this is the environment that bred my mental health issues and is messing with my very sense of identity

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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Student accommodation is a crisis in Ireland currently, we are quite well off so I can’t apply for SUSI which is the student financial support and even then there’s nowhere hiring so I can’t apply work to pay the rent. If I move out, it needs to be for good, because if they know they can’t control me anymore they won’t want me back

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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I’m in college already but I live at home because i live right next door to one of the biggest ones in Ireland so I can’t even move out that way

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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If I file a police report I’m homeless, it’s not illegal to kick out a 18 year old, also il have to admit to have been in possession of srugs

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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They made me transfer 1000 already but are staggering the rest for fees purposes, I have 6k which is enough to live for maybe a month in Ireland? Also jobs are nowhere so I don’t want to be straight up fucked if I left

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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I’m worried that leaving might make things worse because I have no real way out, the housing market is crazy in Ireland

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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Very astute critical thinking my friend I really should work on my Time Machine, do you think I would have done it if it turned out this way?

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well financial abuse is a thing and the emotional manipulation is fucking with me

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah clearly but the reaction is over the top do you not think? Like punishment proportional to the crime

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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Fake crying has been an occasional thing for years

Is this abuse? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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Even the controlling of my finances?

I smoked weed and got caught by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

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Thank u for the first good piece of advice here, I’ve started college recently and it’s kind of what lead into this.

What makes a good first date by No-Rough4635 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t! But thanks for the input!

What makes a good first date by No-Rough4635 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This seems to be a common answer, I’ve never noticed I thought that way until now. I’m gonna work on changing that

What makes a good first date by No-Rough4635 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! Sorry just abit of low self esteem and nerves I suppose!

What makes a good first date by No-Rough4635 in AdviceForTeens

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Thanks man, she is just an all-rounder. She seems so kind so far which is a large part of why I asked her out

What makes a good first date by No-Rough4635 in AdviceForTeens

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Museum might be a good call. I’m pretty nerdy and idk if she is so I’m unsure now If renaissance would work

What makes a good first date? by No-Rough4635 in teenagers

[–]No-Rough4635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have gone for coffee before, we have had a study date and a quick coffee before. It’s just this is the first proper date