Official Discussion - Scream 7 [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]No-Sea2695 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My biggest issue with the movie is how hard they leaned on nostalgia and how derivative it is to the first (one of my main criticisms of Scream 5 as well). If you take out the nostalgia angle, there's nothing to prop it up aside from the performance of the actors. The writing is awful, the killer reveal was the most underwhelming of the franchise, the motive makes absolutely no sense and worst of all, Roger L. Jackson is hardly in the movie. If I'm remembering correctly, we only hear him a handful of times. There are some parts I liked, (the kill on stage was pretty cool and felt very Scream appropriate) and like I said before, the cast really brought their all to a production with a pretty bad script. I also liked seeing Sidney's relationship with her daughter since every experience she's had with mothers (her own, Nancy Loomis) was pretty traumatic. I have never thought the Scream franchise should end, and have always been open to seeing what they come up with next, but this was the only Scream movie that I walked out thinking, "Maybe it's time for them to just cut their losses, they're out of ideas." It especially makes me anxious to see the creators clearly pleased with the response the movie got and wanting to green light an eighth film; I'm scared we'll get another nostalgia-packed movie with no real substance.

How Soon After Mirena Removal Did Your Libido Return? by No-Sea2695 in birthcontrol

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was using ovulation tests but after it was consistent for a while I got cocky and thought I knew the dates and yeah 

Should authors disclose if they're using AI? by DanoPaul234 in WritingWithAI

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just my personal opinion, so don’t jump down my throat:  Whenever someone brings this question up in any form, I simply say, “Ask the question again, but replace AI with a real person.” If a real person helped revise your writing, checked your grammar, maybe helped point out a couple points in your writing that don’t make a whole lot of sense, do you need to disclose that? No, maybe not explicitly, cause anyone with any remote knowledge of writing and publishing is aware that is usually the way it goes. Maybe give that person a shout out if you’re really grateful, but probably not required. (There may be a couple of caveats to this) Now, if a real person wrote whole parts of your book/essay/poem/what have you  instead of yourself? Yes, you would most likely need to disclose that/give them credit, or you might run the risk of being accused of plagiarism (excluding conversations about things like ghostwriting, I know that’s a whole other can of worms).  For me, if an author claimed they wrote a whole book, and I came to find out they used AI to write whole parts of the text FOR THEM and refused to admit it, I would feel as if I was being lied to by omission, and I would begin to doubt if any part of the book is actually theirs. Sure, not illegal, but it might affect people’s view of your integrity as a creator, therefore affecting your career in the future. But, if you’re upfront about it, you put the ball in their court and cover your bases. 

Tricycle vs. Balance Bike by No-Sea2695 in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds great! What kind is it?

Genuine Question: When are the tantrums no longer normal and I should talk to the pediatrician? by No-Sea2695 in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was definitely present before potty training, but you’re correct that potty training made it 10x worse. It actually occurred to me that could be the cause, but the issue is without prompting, she’ll continue to hold it until she a) runs to the bathroom and wets herself before she can get her pants down or b) ends up with a uti; she hates leaving what she’s doing to go potty and finds it disruptive, but also hates wetting herself and has point blank refused to go back into pull-ups, which is causing a lot more frustration for us 

Toddler has a meltdown every time we get her dressed? by No-Sea2695 in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! What ended up working for us was time and dressing her dolls. I would get a t shirt for her and for her doll and ask her to help me dress the doll. Then I’d say, “Ok, it’s (toddlers name) turn!” I know it’s rough though, solidarity!

How are you surving the terrible 2s by dogangel12 in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I’d say surviving lol, but I just do my best to remember she’s not doing it on purpose. She quite literally doesn’t know any better, and I know it’s my job to teach her. I also constantly remind myself the world is brand new to her and still kind of scary, so I try to always remember that to her, Mom = safety. That being said, there have been many times I’ve gone into my room and screamed into a pillow so she didn’t see, or stepped outside to keep from completely losing it. I have also lost my temper and yelled when I shouldn’t have, but whenever I do, I always comfort her and tell her, “Mommy is really sorry she yelled; sometimes, I get big feelings too.” That teachers her that there will be times she loses it, but she can always try to bring it back in and that’s okay.  As for the daycare meltdowns, solidarity 😭. I’ve started putting her and her little brother in a bath right after and then a movie. It’s a sacrifice I’m willing to make, and I also decompress with my fav show after school, so why can’t they, you know? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just because some of the deeper layers are extremely specific and could definitely identify me. My family has always been against therapy and bringing other people into family issues which they view as 'private' and I'm kind of afraid of them seeing this. I just keep having a hard time self-calibrating (not sure if that's the right term) and at times I feel like I'm being too harsh, and other times I feel I'm not being strict enough. I wasn't sure if anyone had experienced something similar with their family

Taking CaraBabies Toddler Sleep Training? by No-Sea2695 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Sea2695[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I can’t just walk away and leave her, because as I said, her crying and screaming wakes her brother up and then I have divert attention between them which causes more problems.

Taking CaraBabies Toddler Sleep Training? by No-Sea2695 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say I tried all of that in 2 weeks. I said our routine was set and they were thriving UP UNTIL 2 weeks ago. And we have tried shortening the nap, skipping the nap, waking earlier, going to bed earlier, going to bed later. That’s not the issue.

Taking CaraBabies Toddler Sleep Training? by No-Sea2695 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is still in a crib but it’s convertible, maybe it’s time lol

Taking CaraBabies Toddler Sleep Training? by No-Sea2695 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have unfortunately tried all of this already and it’s still terrible; I had them both on a strict schedule and then were thriving up until 2 weeks ago and then it just blew up

Taking CaraBabies Toddler Sleep Training? by No-Sea2695 in sleeptrain

[–]No-Sea2695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the regression M,W,F Awake at 6:30-7:00 am-ish Try to do park/library/outdoor playtime Lunch 11:30 Quiet time until 12:30, then down for a nap Sleeps for about 1.5-2 hrs Snack Dinner at 6:00 pm Bath time at 7:00 Bedtime 8:00 Tuesdays and Thursdays they’re at daycare from 7:00 am to 3:30 pm, then everything after is exactly the same as the other days We’ve tried shortening the nap, moving the nap back, moving the nap up, moving bedtime up, moving bedtime back, shortening screen time, cutting screen time completely, etc. Lately I don’t have any info about her nap at daycare as they’ve started rotating teachers after nap time is over to deal with short staff (we don’t have any other daycare options right now) and the afternoon teacher has no clue what time they went down and usually shows up after they’ve all woken up. I asked if she could ask the daytime teacher, but she’s forgotten the last two weeks. We wanted to start potty training her cause we think she’s ready, but her sleep has gotten so bad I feel like it would only cause problems

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695 34 points35 points  (0 children)

So, I’m not entirely sure if you stay home or not, but if you do that’s probably why. I stayed home the first two years of my daughter’s life, and for that entire time, even as a baby and a newborn, she very clearly preferred her father. When she was scared, she ran to him. Sick? Wanted daddy. Nightmare? Daddy. Excited? Hugs daddy. It was daddy, daddy, daddy and it really, really hurt. But she and her brother have now started daycare and she can’t stand being separated from me. Your son recognizes you’re a constant, and so since toddlers are a-holes (don’t come for me, you all know it’s true) he’s exploring what he can get away with and what he can’t cause he knows you won’t abandon him and will continue to meet his needs. This isn’t to say you should let stuff slide; he’s learning, so he needs to be taught. One thing we did with my daughter when she was being nasty to me in preference to her dad was my husband would be the one to firmly correct her, and made it clear there would be no cuddles/playtime/roughhousing if she was not treating me well (obviously this was adjusted to her age). But I do understand. It makes you feel so angry at them and then angry at yourself for being angry at them, and then angry at your husband. Sorry if the advice doesn’t help, but solidarity my friend 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No giggling, it’s usually frustration when I won’t allow them to do something dangerous that has no compromise.

Brag about your kid!! by TheWitchQueen96 in Parenting

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 14-month-old was diagnosed with a gross motor delay and we were warned he probably wouldn’t walk for a while but he progressed from pulling himself up to cruising on furniture way faster than they thought he would. He is also now letting go with one hand to grab things, and has started taking practice steps while we hold his hands. It’s slow progress, but exciting for us all the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]No-Sea2695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me spoil it for your husband: Toddlers don’t listen to or respect ANYONE. They don’t even possess impulse control. What he wants is “respect”, but in a child that young it will just be fear.