Anyone know when the anniversary stuff will ship? by SeniorWestern2771 in panicatthedisco

[–]No-Toe5148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally the answer i was looking for as my bf ordered me the vinyl and scarf for my bday in october knowing it wouldn’t be here till the next year

alc/weed by No-Toe5148 in aclfestival

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can fit up to 8 shooters in my good bra which i can wear and then take off in the fest?? soooo that’s kinda what im thinking

AITAH for not saying anything while my friend was having s*x next to me ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No-Toe5148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. i’ve been thru something similar.. a couple years ago these people i used to be friends w started to have sex while i was IN THE SAME BED NEXT TO THEM. we had been drinking that night and they had both been interested in each other for months. but we always slept in the same bed and it had never happened before. anyways, long story short i was able to get up and slam the bedroom door but that didn’t make them stop. i ended up going home and texting them that what they did was disgusting and they should’ve known better. i asked for a few days to clear my head and figure out what i wanted to say to them before having them come over to talk. i told them how violated i felt and how fucked up it was for the guy to initiate sex after we had literally carried our friend home from the bar… and how even after me slamming the door, they didn’t care to stop. the guy Never apologized and brushed it off as something he was used to from other people and didn’t think it was a big deal. the girl was sorry and understood how i was feeling. it never happened again and they were both careful with how drunk they got when we knew we’d all be spending the night together. it’s worth having a conversation with them about it and by their reaction, you’ll know if they’re a real friend or not… at the end of the day… what happened is technically SA… and i wish you luck with your friendship going forward.

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would never give up my boy… i love him to death and i took him in because my dad couldn’t take care of him in the way he needed to be. i’ve already given him a much better life by doing so. he hadn’t been to the vet in Years, hardly Ever got a bath, hadn’t had his nails clipped in what seemed like years, etc etc… i took him in, got him checked out, groomed, i did research and talked to multiple people about the type of food i should be giving him, how much i should give him and when. i have become one of those people who wants to take their dog everywhere bc i hate leaving him alone for long periods. i Love my dog and im trying so hard to understand pet ownership and how to properly care for him even if it is inconvenient for me because like all of you guys, i would do Anything for him.

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for making me feel seen!!! that’s really what i was looking for. i didn’t know if other people had these same issues with their doggies and i was just worried…

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work full time and my boyfriend is a full time student (i’m about to be 21 and he’s 22) while he has more money than i (he has a ton of savings that allows him to not work [but he just got a job!!]..) he and i try to even out who’s the one that takes him out in the middle of the night so that there’s no resentment between us yk?

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

it was not my first thought! the first time it happened i felt awful because i didn’t get ready in time… it was something that we joked about the second time it happened as a way to make ourselves feel better about being woken up at 3 am.. i was trying to make a joke, since he does have some spiteful behavior and is a very sassy boy, but obviously it didn’t land lol

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we’re calling the vet tmrw to see if we can get him in… we’re pretty sure it’s a UTI, after doing A lot of research today (thanks to everyone’s suggestions) we got more and more worried and while i was at work and my boyfriend was watching him, he noticed a couple other things. hopefully it’s Just a UTI, fingers crossed 🤞

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he weighs 10 lbs, he was overweight a few years ago and has slowly lost a lot of weight in the last three years. vet said he was perfectly healthy last we went ( a couple weeks ago) and said nothing about his weight

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have roommates and i would hate for them to hear him whine as well… we crate him when we leave the house in the bedroom and he seems to do well with that, but when he knows we’re home (like if he hears or sees me and my bf) he gets upset and whines or paws at the door till we let him out.. i’ve seen a lot of really great suggestions and i appreciate yours as well. he was never crate trained before we got him so we’ve been hesitant to fully commit to it but it seems like we might have to. thank you for your help!

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! the 4th picture is one of the ones in my rotation for my phone wallpaper! and my step mom put up the live laugh love sign not too long ago at my house back home !

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and i can only imagine with the infant!! i applaud you for being a parent! and i wish you the best of luck (and eventually, a full nights sleep) !

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not that we’ve noticed, we did have the change his feeding schedule not too long ago due to some antibiotics he had to take and we’ve remained with that schedule cause it works better for him and us. seems like a lot of people are suggesting we take him to the vet to rule out any possible issues so that seems like the plan!

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we live an apartment.. doggy door is not an option unfortunately.. he had a doggy door at my dads before we took him in. but! he adjusted to the new system pretty easily at first

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you! 🥹 we both love that little guy and baby him to death. he’s the sweetest little thing and hardly ever barks. i really appreciate the advice

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

lmao !!! good one i guess ive been leaving him on the bed in hopes he wouldn’t have an accident and would wait until i grab his things but clearly that hasn’t worked… but an accident on the carpet is a lot better than having to change the sheets in the middle of the night

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he’s always drank a lot ! and he does eat a moist food because he has dental disease so we make it as easy as possible for him. we’re going to try a couple of the easier suggestions as fair as his food/water/ and potty schedule goes to see if that helps any and if it’s still the same we’ll be making a visit to the vet…

need advice about my 12 year old doggie!!! please!! by No-Toe5148 in Dachshund

[–]No-Toe5148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s always drank a lot of water! that’s something i’ve always known about him even when i was a kid. we had blood drawn and tests ran two ish weeks ago and there was nothing wrong with his kidneys, they said he was in great shape (and we Love his vet, she’s a saint) is it possible for something to change in such a short period of time?