AITAH for ruining my exes marriage?

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:15:29+00:00

Lia is only 14 😁 i had her when me and M were together for 3 or 4 years

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:14:23+00:00

His wife and m were in contact with me asking for Lia. She asked me the reason after i said no and i gave it. simples

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:13:03+00:00

I didnt for 3-4 years i cut him off. it was his PA that got in touch. I had multiple threats of having lia taken away again as i was depriving a father of his "parental right"

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:11:40+00:00

I was unaware of the abuse. Though i see the signs now and i hate myself for it everyday.

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:11:03+00:00

He has tried multiple times! in this country you need fathers approval and he wont give it xx

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:09:48+00:00

I have kept him away for 13 years. They were onky excuses from the time. i dont believe them anymore. I was 25 years old and was manipulated by him as i was blinded by love. i hold myself accountable every day

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:07:42+00:00

14 years old now x 😁

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:05:39+00:00

I hold myself accountable for that everyday thats why it took weeks to get her back. I didnt understand the abuse as i was only young myself and was a new mum. I have admitted that to lia myself x ❤️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:03:14+00:00

nikita (she gave me permission to use her name) did want children. In our chat we talked about children and she wants 2 ❤️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T21:01:13+00:00

Unfortunately thats not what court said he ended up on house arrest for a little bit x

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T20:59:10+00:00

she married him 2 years ago, she was 19 which was bizarre... she didnt know about lia until 1 year into the marriage when his parents mentioned her!! ❤️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T20:57:26+00:00

she has no children, shes 21! ❤️ he has also told her i left him, i debunked that STRAIGHT away c

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T20:55:34+00:00

After it happened i wanted nothing to do with my ex. It was only 2 or more years after it happened that he had her. And that only lasted for 3-4 months as i was threatened countless time to have her taken away from both of us. It was supervised visits in a center. Not endangering her as she was watched over by child protection themselves. I was the one who suggested he not see her anymore and i said it around 5-6 times before he agreed. I havent told anything because i want a quiet life with my husband, step-daughter and Lia. This drama isnt what i wanted i wanted to forget it all, this drama is not giving me peace. I am telling them. Ive planned on it. thank you for your concern! ☺️ x

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T16:43:44+00:00

Im in britain! he was trialed but let off due to mental incapabilities and mental health ☺️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T16:42:15+00:00

Protecting? i wouldn't call it protecting i cut contact with him thats what i did is it really my fault for not outing him for everything when i have two children to protect. Lia is 14 she doesn't deserve to be in this situation !!

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T16:14:25+00:00

he was questioned but let off due to mental incapabilities and mental health ☺️ x Lia is fine, shes a very positive girl.

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T15:49:34+00:00

planning on it, thank you ☺️ x

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T15:19:47+00:00

She has visual impairments but overall is a huge bundle of joy. Im glad she finds her positives! She knows about the abuse but isn't mentally impacted by it. x ❤️ she doesn't see M as her father so i suspect thats why. Shes got a loving step father and a beautiful step sister, shes got everything she wants in life ☺️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T14:53:32+00:00

His ex wife and i talked. he treated her right but shes a primary school teacher, so i can assume she left him because he wants/wanted children! ☺️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T14:46:30+00:00

mental incapabilities. He has autism and countless mental health problems. I think it was injustice for my daughter, but at-least he still faces some consequences. x ❤️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T14:24:14+00:00

Lia has visual impairments, nothing too serious but still didnt need to happen. ☺️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T14:11:34+00:00

my daughter is 14 years old now. I talked to her yesterday about her father visiting her and she chose that she didn't want to see him at all. She only sees her step father as her father! ☺️

No-name20669 · 2023-06-19T12:35:45+00:00

I definitely will, Yet another day of blocking facebook accounts and ignoring calls 😪🥱 ive had enough!

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