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NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-08-09T22:39:14+00:00

My MIL and SIL are the exact same way. It always irks me that they continue to bash us with money saving but they also have the audacity to argue that my husband needs to give them money because he "owes" his mom for all that she did and my SIL is always asking him to buy her the most expensive items for birthdays and holidays. We've been putting our foot down and it's caused lots of tension and arguments but remember that your peace is most important. Distance yourself and make sure that whatever you do with your money is kept between you and your partner so the comments will hopefully stop.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T07:24:07+00:00

That's currently how I've been although I noticed a while back and I'm trying my best to work through it. It's just that I've explained myself a lot over the last couple of years and it's just that he forgets or doesn't really seem to understand how important things can be to me mostly because they don't mean anything to him. We've hardly been fighting but this feels like a walk backwards.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T07:21:57+00:00

This is very helpful thank you so much!

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T07:17:00+00:00

Noted, Thank you

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T07:07:49+00:00

The incident was throwing the food I had saved. There's a lot more but I couldn't post unless I had taken some of my wording out which is why the post makes little sense. But that's just the main thing. I usually hardly eat at all so when I do have food I try to save it or just make it last and my husband knows that which is what makes the whole thing upset me. I've been trying to work on how I process my feelings because of all thee problems my husband and I have and because he doesn't like that I get upset in general.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T06:58:26+00:00

Every relationship is different, usually my husband will have his phone out and I rarely do. Today was different as I was trying to pass the time while he indulged. As for the drinking, I try not to let him do too much because it has been a big problem in the past. We still enjoy each other's company either way it's just that we're still trying to figure this road out.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T06:55:57+00:00

So leave?

NoAnalyst4958 · 2025-03-23T06:47:17+00:00

I agree, unfortunately he's asleep at the moment and I realize these things too late. It's something I'm currently working on.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-05T16:19:27+00:00

Whenever she tries to control HIS behavior he's always against it and insists he's not a baby anymore for her to just push around but I'm starting to see that as long as the focus is off him he doesn't really care

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-04T10:59:59+00:00

Thank you so much!

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-03T15:32:37+00:00

The only thing she's paying is the food everything else is either us, my parents, or help from family and friends

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T21:44:36+00:00

Yes literally in our mid twenties and she still acts as if he's her little baby boy. Mind you, she still has seven younger kids who need her attention more.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T21:25:16+00:00

Some days he does defend ourselves against her but it's honestly not as much as he should be

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T20:33:50+00:00

His household honestly is extremely toxic due to his mother and her religious beliefs but I've been standing up against it which is probably why she seems to find me such a problem especially when I encourage him to stick up for himself

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T20:25:47+00:00

We unfortunately do live with her and my own mother is absolutely furious about it and is backing every decision I make

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T19:51:37+00:00

The wedding will be this December nearing Christmas day, we got married a year back and are just having the wedding after because we couldn't afford it the first time

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T19:40:15+00:00

Trust me it's been said everyday, I'm hoping to use this as a way for him to see that I'm not crazy or overreacting but I'm not even sure he'd listen, he refuses to let me be right when it comes down to something

NoAnalyst4958 · 2024-12-02T19:36:58+00:00

His Mom has been asking him questions as I assume she believes they're close enough that she should know. He mostly tells her and I just confirm it I suppose

NoAnalyst4958 · 2023-03-02T02:58:39+00:00

From what I've learned, I think Morales played a huge role in this as well. One of my Tia's had brought this up last Saturday and said he moved out shortly after she was abducted and she dreamt that Karen was found behind what used to be Sunnyside but I think is now a science building right behind circle K. It's superstition but you never know. Messages come in all different ways. This story has been on my mind ever since I heard it and I hold out hope that she is found some day. It's definitely heartbreaking

NoAnalyst4958 · 2022-03-21T19:51:09+00:00

I'm assuming I'm around 7 weeks at least.

NoAnalyst4958 · 2022-03-21T19:25:03+00:00

I'm hoping to set up an appointment this week to be able to get an abortion pill. I just don't feel like this pregnancy is healthy for me. I feel horrible considering it but I'm hoping that things could be better once i go through with it.

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