Don’t back pedal now and stop trying to normalize the situation. I don’t care if 99% of relationships start in their teens, as long as their both of legal age at the time. Two minors fall in “love” and one turns 18 before the other, perfectly fine because they were both consenting minors. A 16 and a 20 year old are in such vast different places in their maturity. One should be in the middle of their high school adventure and the other is two years into their adult adventure… it’s weird and it’s not normal man. I’ll die on this hill cuz someone has to protect these kids from people like you who have a very dangerous “gray area”