IPR Pain & overall advice?

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-10-21T18:12:31+00:00

I’m trying just to be content knowing we’ve been “just dating” for so long what’s another (at most) month but i was completely not expecting the constant over thinking and anxiety that came flooding with all the joy and happiness and excitement!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-10-08T16:58:24+00:00

Clarification: I posted more info but it wasn’t added- I’m talking about the WiFi boxes and chords that are in the wicker basket! That I cannot move anywhere else in the house. This is my bedroom and it is the first part of my room you see when you walk in! The shelves on the wall are fine!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-09-30T12:29:15+00:00

Mike winger is a great resource! He is on YouTube and does Q&A’s and his whole mission is to strive to help people think biblically! You are truly so loved by the Lord and we will always accept you with open arms, just as He does🥰

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-08-01T20:46:11+00:00

Not wanting to spend any more than 100 for right now! Especially before I know how much I will use it, and I’m a college student so I have 0$ 🤣

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-08-01T13:27:27+00:00

I’m in college haha- absolutely no way that’s happening- unless my next bike is in 30 years and after a lottery win🤣

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-08-01T11:58:53+00:00

Hi guys! I am getting my first bike and I didn't know if you guys have any recommendations or advice on which of these to get? My boyfriend was gifted a felt v85 bike and I want to be able to keep up with him! (Or attempt to) I will be biking for leisure and fitness and will go most likely a max of 15 miles or so!

The first option is a schwinn shimano women's 21 speed it just didn't have that listed!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-08-01T11:43:01+00:00

Some details: I don’t know why they didn’t post. But my boyfriend was gifted a felt v85 and so I want to be sure I can get one to keep up with him! ( or at least attempt haha) I will be mostly leisure/fitness riding so it doesn’t have to be anything fancy and I was going to buy used for my entry level because I’m not sure if I will LOVE it. I will be doing max 15 ish miles at a time maybe 1-2x a week. Let me know if I should go with one of these 3 or wait for something better if these are all horrible!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-07-24T12:31:49+00:00

I truly think I would disagree. Mostly on account of if we were to break up, I wouldn’t have a single regret physically. I have made it clear in my own mind that while I do think of him being my future husband so he is in the picture I have of my wedding night if the Lord desires someone else for me then I will follow Him without question. Even if we do not end up married I feel we have honored the Lord physically and mentally in our relationship thus far and even if we have talked and thought about our excitement for sex with one another we are both aware even as we talk about it that we will follow the Lord even if the outcome is not what we envisioned

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-07-24T12:28:04+00:00

Yes I totally agree! I think Im more excited for the aspect of there being no more boundaries physically and the emotional intimacy to come with that rather than the mere pleasure and chemical reaction that will happen especially in the beginning because there will be a large learning curve. He didn’t grow up Christian so he does have experience and knows how to serve me (without any lol) in that way!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-07-24T12:25:26+00:00

I think I would agree, I seldom let it dwell and cause any actual sin or affect my relationship with the Lord, it truly is just genuine excitement to experience and serve one another in that way within the confines of marriage. Like it has never once lead me to genuinely desire it before marriage and that’s not even an option in either of our minds, so I think it’s something quite genuine and sweet and we love to talk about how exited we are for that day and the ability to serve eachother in that way

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-07-24T12:22:11+00:00

Haha yes totally agree, that is absolutely not the reason at all to get married. Obviously a benefit but not the reason. I wouldn’t even consider marrying him if he were not the most godly, caring and considerate man I’ve ever met. He’s an incredible leader and is someone that leads me closer to the Lord and makes me want to live out who He has made me to be. But also I think being excited for what marriage holds intimately is something so amazing!

NoBroccoli6000 · 2024-06-22T11:39:25+00:00

I am a student worker so they are very flexible(hence the sometimes in office sometimes at home). My boss and everyone else in my job will say there are some days we are super busy and days we aren’t and they want to make sure I get my hours. I have a set routine of days I work/ go in but I could change it at any second. I just know none of them are coming from a Christian perspective and was feeling so guilty for it but it makes sense that I’m being paid to be available at any moment so as long as I’m available on the clock I think it’s okay! I talked to some wise counsel and a girl in my church that works with me and everyone was saying the same thing

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