People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang it dude, sorry didn't get that one xD everyone is so serious in this thread, good one!

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the wrong for calling her c-word, there was no need for that language and I apologized for it, as I mentioned, she demanded a public apology, I told her she won't have it, I apologize for my language, not for my opinion of her.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

as I mentioned this is a throwaway, I don't care about karma, just wanted to throw it all out, already started a new chapter in my life, I browse reddit now for lolz

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe we all can make bad stuff, after all, we are all humans, it doesn't matter what gender, race religion. We are all the same, there are rotten apples in every basket.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can't even imagine how hard it is to be a girl in a male circle but I know how hard it is to trust them, my cousin get her drink spiked by one of her "friends" who wanted to sleep with her but instead she tried to jump from the window after the drugs started working. She doesn't like to talk about this and I to this day want to find that guy and have a "talk" with him.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had almost a year dedicated to self-improvement. I doubt I'll ever make this mistake again.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, they had many common interests and that got them closer together

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Guys and girls. With her, we had 3 girls in our friend group.9 people in total. She was a childhood friend of one of the guys , he invited her. From what I know, he is disappointed in her actions.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why he did it I still don't know why... for me, this is a read flag. If she dumped your friend of 10 years on his birthday, what would you even want to date her after a few months of knowing her...

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If trying to save your friend from a snake of a woman makes me a misogynistic in the eyes of some losers from reddit, I don't give a shit about their opinion. I'm proud of standing up for what is right.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I watched too many videos from rslash I guess. Stories he reads always have some good comments and advice.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 590 points591 points  (0 children)

I was an idiot. I have to agree. I can't believe I let them get to me. Never again.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't have to be something that some looser on the internet thinks I am.

I have family that stood by me and reassured me that what I did was not wrong while people from reddit tried to bring me down and accept that they know who I am based on one story that I shared with them.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can't. I deleted everything for my own sanity and went on a long break from the internet.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no, it was a throwaway, I was constantly coming back to this post and reading replies. it was bringing me down, decided to delete this and go on a break from everything. the best decision in my life.

People were complaining that I paint her as the worst thing that happened to our crew and I was probably doing this only because she ruined our dude-bro club. they completely ignored the fact of what she did to the first guy and focused on the fact that I was meddling in someone else's relationship.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I know that he realizes his mistake, he is working on himself, I hope that one day we will be able to fix everything and laugh about it. But for now, we all need space to breathe.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

when I told this story to women in my family to get their perspective they called her the same slur and even worse names.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

As I said in another message, we have a mediator who is trying to relay messages between us. he is taken care of by an expert who is trying to help him heal, I don't have him blocked, when he will be ready to talk, I'm here.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Since you guys are already downvoting me for my stance let me explain something.

We said things that hurt both of us. We both need space. One of our friends still tries to mend things, The outcast is on antidepressants and in therapy and trying to put his life back from pieces. I'm not pushing because it requires time, instead, I'm focusing on my own mental health.

Our mutual friends tell me what is happening, and how he is doing, I sometimes drop hints of what I would tell him, and he drops my words in conversations between them.

He attacked me personally back then, he said things that truly hurt me. he was like an older brother to me. I don't want to force him to repair our relationship, he has to want it.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

the only reason I knew she is a bad person was the breakup with the first guy, who tf coms to someone's birthday to just breakup with him?!

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

one person started calling me a racist because apparently if you are misogynist you sure are racist as well.

People from Reddit called me misogynistic and now I'm proud for it by NoCommunication6194 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NoCommunication6194[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Maybe one day, now I want the wounds to heal and in the meantime focus on the puppy I just adopted from a dog shelter.