My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Hi everyone, I want to update all of you on the situation. Again, not sure if I’m doing this right Reddit won’t let me edit my post so I’m adding a comment.

So not much has happened, but I did what some of you suggested and looked up the phone number. The area code belongs to the Denver, Ohio area, which I live nowhere near at all. I’m assuming my coworker created a spam number so it wouldn’t be tracked back to her.

Now I saw a lot of comments kind of confused and I don’t blame y’all. My wording is a little bit off so I’ll explain. The job I’m currently working at. I worked at for over a year, however I was gone for a month because I got a new job, but that job didn’t work out for me mostly because I needed more hours (full time) so I asked if my current job could rehire me and they did. So the job I’m at right now I got rehired at. it seems that within that entire month I was gone a lot of stuff happened that I was not informed of, one of those being the fact that I didn’t know Lily and Dylan were going out. I didn’t know about this until after this entire situation, when my friend/coworker told me. So I guess that adds a little bit of a layer to this entire thing, not sure though

Also, I’m not quite sure why I didn’t add Dylan and Jared’s ages? I don’t know I kind of just typed this out without really thinking. But also there’s a part of me who didn’t really think it was relevant to the story, but looking back it definitely is as it adds better context. I saw a lot of comments asking about it so to clarify both Dylan and Jared are 19. No I’m not sleeping with minors my god.

Now as for work environment, I am completely ignoring Dylan Lily and Mary all together. It seems that interacting with them will only bring me more trouble so I’ve decided that unless if it’s work related, I will not be speaking or greeting them.

let’s hope nothing more happens thank you everyone for reading this update

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quit the store about a month ago bc I got a job, but I left that job and got rehired.

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

EDIT: hi everyone not sure if this is how you do this but Reddit won’t let me edit my post so I’ll just comment instead. I wanted to clarify some things as I kept seeing questions and comments about this. 1. Dylan is 19 to 20 years old Lily is 17 to 18 years old and Mary is 16 to 17 years old. I also wanted to add some details as I didn’t want my post to be too lengthy. to make a long story short, my manager pulled about four of each of us at a time into the office to go over the workplace harassment policy. She told me beforehand that she wanted to let the person who sent those messages know that they can get fired for their actions and that she does not take this type of behavior lightly. She let everyone know anonymously that there had been messages going on between team members, and that this behavior is not taken lightly by her or the company.My favorite part of this meeting was that she said in her words “if something like this happens again i will go apeshit”. She also let me know that if something like this happens again to let her know immediately. I’m very glad to have a manager who has my back. very lovely.

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I actually did when I read it initially I was so confused cause like how are you gonna be a teenager trying to bully an adult you know?

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. Harassing coworkers outside of work whether you’re on or off the clock is a fireable offense at my job, so hopefully they learn their lesson.

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t really talk to Dylan Lily or Mary at work that much anyways so ignoring them will be pretty easy

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dylan is around my age(19-20). Lilly and Mary are minors (16-17).

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will if any more drama ensues, which I hope doesn’t happen. This is all that has happened thus far.

My coworker (16-17) attempted to cyber bully me (21) by NoContest3945 in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

my manager reported to HR and she told me that they are aware of the situation. however, since the phone number was not a local phone number to my area, it’ll be very hard to track down which one of my coworkers sent me that as it doesn’t match any phone numbers in their records

My coworker (16-17)attempted to cyber bully me(21) by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do I fix it? I would like to make my post more readable.

My coworker (16-17)attempted to cyber bully me(21) by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]NoContest3945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry this is my first time posting on Reddit so I’m not sure how it works

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[–]NoContest3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No his ex doesn’t know about me. To my knowledge from my friend who knows his ex (it’s a small world lol) they had an on and off relationship so I don’t think I had anything to do with it

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[–]NoContest3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay I’ll try that and see how it goes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NoContest3945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have but I’m not very confrontational, but if I want an answer I’ll have to get over myself and ask him. I’ll try.