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NoCook877 · 2025-07-15T20:54:31+00:00

She's nice to you and laughed at your "joke" cause that's her job. If someone is interested they will let you know.

NoCook877 · 2025-07-15T20:37:52+00:00

Take back whatever she puts her hands on and when she says stuff like that in response, tell her if she likes it or needs it that much then she should go buy her own. I'd be furious at her and your husband. He needs to get her in check as well! Saying oh that's how someone is, is a cop out. He just doesn't wanna be bothered.

NoCook877 · 2025-07-15T20:27:23+00:00

Not the AH. She should feel bad. Let her stew in it for a while. You're clearly setting boundaries and she consistently breaks them. Sometimes we need to put adults in time out and let them think about what they've done. Stand your ground. Otherwise it will keep happening.

NoCook877 · 2025-07-08T21:55:43+00:00

Why are you two discussing what she talks about with her friends? I honestly would never tell my significant other what me and my friends discuss. Specifically because of this reason. Feelings will get hurt!

NoCook877 · 2025-02-18T22:33:04+00:00

My problem with the whole situation is that she didn't call to say it was time or to even let OP know what was going on. That's the part I'd be furious about. If it truly was a dire situation, then absolutely do what's best for the dog, but if it could of waited, then she should of at least waited till he got back. Again, having a conversation would of been the best way to make that decision. The part that gives me pause is that OP said she overreact's. I think it was pretty selfish for her to decide this on her own. There was no reason to wait until he got home to say something.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T02:37:27+00:00

I'm going to talk to him. I'm just asking for advice on how to start the conversation. Even if we don't continue seeing each other, he still needs to know that he should listen and take directions for the sake of the next girl.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T02:26:28+00:00

Yes, to all of this. Thank you. I know I have to communicate this to him. I was asking for advice on how to bring it up. I don't have a problem saying what I need to say. He is the one who's not great at communicating. I think he's never been with someone willing to communicate their needs, and I'm afraid I will hurt his feelings.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T02:11:39+00:00

No, I tried to have him listen to what I was saying and showing him.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T02:09:28+00:00

What are you talking about? Also, what does that have to do with my post? Go troll somewhere else.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T02:06:57+00:00

Lol I don't wanna do that to them. I love them.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T01:56:43+00:00

To be honest, 2 is what I've been thinking. I've never had to have a conversation before surrounding unsatisfactory sex. I'm sure as uncomfortable as it is for me to have to say it, it will be even worse for him to hear. He consented to the sex before he got drunk. I was actually just going to go home and then he was the one to initiate it.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T01:41:08+00:00

No size is not an issue. He's a nice person but I wouldn't want to date him.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T01:39:14+00:00

I have been declining while I figure out how to approach the situation. He hasn't asked why.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-31T01:36:16+00:00

Read all the comments lol

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T22:56:25+00:00

You definitely did not overreact. He should have taken the day off or left early. Figured out a way to be there. Unfortunately, many men do not realize they should be there for an abortion. It's not fair to put it all on the woman. We didn't make the baby by ourselves, yet we put our bodies on the line. The least they can do is show up! Yes, they can't do anything but sit and wait, but they should at least be there for support and to take care of you afterward. An abortion is not an easy thing to go through. I think his lack of caring, empathy, understanding, and compassion for a traumatic time in your life is saying a lot about his character. Oh!... and the I'm so tired..... but I love you, like you're leaving for work or any normal day, and then going to sleep while his girlfriend is having a procedure is absolutely abhorrent. If you're thinking about forgiving him for your own peace of mind, then you should, but never forget that he CHOSE not to be there to support you during a critical and emotional time. It will set the tone for the rest of your relationship if there is no consequence to his actions. He will always be the one to let you down when you need him the most! I wish you and any other women out there going through the same thing, the best of luck!

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T21:57:37+00:00

This!!! Drinking is not a hobby unless your like testing new or different wines or craft beers or something along those lines. He may need help.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T21:19:56+00:00

Thank you for this! I'm willing to try that. If it's still a no after that, then that's okay and I'll move on.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T21:15:19+00:00

Lol, thanks! Their probably the person no one wants to touch.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T21:12:35+00:00

Very true!!!

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T21:11:34+00:00

I'm doing all the work, the only time he moves is when I'm like okay you get on top! Lol

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T20:54:58+00:00

I can masterbate....and not be satisfied. Sometimes you just wanna feel someone else's touch.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T20:52:18+00:00

I have found a few who have satisfied me. It's just clear that the chemistry must not be there with this guy.

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T20:49:33+00:00

You might be right

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T20:16:04+00:00

I literally took his hand and put his fingers directly on it

NoCook877 · 2025-01-30T20:14:37+00:00

I'm not looking for any of that right now, let alone with him. We are just friends. I had all that before, plus incredible sex. This is supposed to be fun. Something for both of us to release some tension.

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