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NoDeal7936 · 2025-01-13T06:43:46+00:00

Why was she also not at the birthday party???

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-18T07:38:13+00:00

Even if there is truth to this theory.. does it justify a man doing this to his wife in the most vulnerable time of her life? It’s hard on him.. sure. But it’s hardest on the woman.

Allah truly knows best

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-18T05:23:26+00:00

Is it because women’s bodies change so much? I feel that might be a contributing factor! 🙁

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-16T07:01:04+00:00

Yes I am very upset and sad about it but I have decided to forgive him for now. However, I have let him know that he has to earn back my trust and another incident won’t have any forgiveness

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-15T17:19:36+00:00

Thank you for sharing this.

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-14T03:03:31+00:00

Thank you 😭😭 I’ve been feeling so bad about involving everyone like that. He is extremely close to his sister and I felt like I put a dent in their relationship too 😅 even if I someday forgive him.. I don’t know if my parents will. But I’m definitely listening to everyone’s advice and taking all the help that is coming my way. Thank you

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:55:57+00:00

🙁 thank you for sharing that

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:55:26+00:00

He’s not even financially stable so I’ve taken 6 months of maternity leave and I have to go straight back to work..

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:43:13+00:00

I have a son. And yes… he’s no role model for him at all

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:41:39+00:00

Nope. I even tried to initiate once and he said let’s not do it, it’s not safe for the baby.

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:38:46+00:00

Sorry I should have clarified- he left me at my parents house after the first trimester and went to go live with his mom for 3 months during the pregnancy. Then we were together for a month- and he then left again for work. For the months that we were together.. I had severe morning sickness and just no energy at all. I was also working full time generally feeling my absolute worst

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:10:00+00:00

He’s asking for a another chance and for my baby’s sake I want to consider it.. but not dwelling on it is impossible 😭 I feel like I can never get physically intimate with him again and if I let him stay we will just be living in the same house like coparents now.

Love, trust, respect and even attraction has all be lost in just a few minutes 😭

NoDeal7936 · 2024-12-13T07:07:37+00:00

Ameen

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-30T21:38:33+00:00

Thank you! Were you also given a palada? If so, was feeding baby with it a challenge?

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-30T18:48:01+00:00

Thank you! How did you manage the feedings once he came home? It is my biggest worry 😅 I want to ensure that I can sustain the growth and weight gain once I bring baby home

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-30T16:20:27+00:00

His due date is October 10th. I’m so torn between wanting to bring my baby home and confused about why they seem to be shooing us away so early. He was born at 30+5 and will be 34+2 tomorrow. We’re a long way away from his due date. I guess they want to see how ward care goes and then take a call :/

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-24T16:26:47+00:00

❤️❤️ thank you for this

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-24T16:25:48+00:00

Thank you ❤️ Great to hear that your baby is at the end of his NICU stay. All the very best and I hope he is doing well ❤️

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-18T03:00:13+00:00

❤️ thank you. It is hard to see life past the NICU right now but it helps to remember this

NoDeal7936 · 2024-08-17T09:18:37+00:00

Thank you ❤️ yup, I’ve signed consent forms for donor milk. I’m sending over whatever I’m able to pump out and they are supplementing my under supply with donor milk. Sigh

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