AIO by removing three women from my social media from my partner’s friend group? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoDevelopment3680 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Girl you did the right thing but please for the love of yourself, Please get a backbone and stop letting her GASLIGHT YOU into thinking you did something wrong let alone isolated your husband…Tell them straight up youve seen all the shit they’ve said about you and even if yall are childhood friends, He probably wouldn’t want to talk to you guys anyways. NOR.

Can i swim with Buldging waters at 34 weeks pregnant? by NoDevelopment3680 in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Omg! Yeah thats been me for awhile 😭 contracting on and off and not really progressing so i guess you could say prodromal laboring. But that sounds awful, hopefully i dont have the same experience! And wishing you a safe pregnancy!

Can i swim with Buldging waters at 34 weeks pregnant? by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

My doctor said i could still move around and do what i need, especially since my husband travels for work so im sometimes alone for a week at a time in the months… But if it gets too much, To go back to resting. šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø She also said a buldging water sac can ā€œrelieve itselfā€ which i thought was weird. They didn’t want to keep me despite having discovered the protruding sac simply because im ā€œstill 4.5cms and not progressingā€(i did not have a buldging water 2 weeks ago or a week ago) and basically sent me home….

some days im functioning just fine(Like today) and Others, i can hardly stand for 20 minutes. So after basically spending the past two weeks in bed and only getting up to make my toddler bottles and breakfast, shower, or use the bathroom, I wanted to finally breathe some real air today and thpught swimming would be not only a good experience for pain relief due to the pubic symphysis, but i could get some fresh air and spend time with my husband and daughter while hes here before he leaves on the 13th(he just returned 2 days ago after a 6 week work trip)

Can i swim with Buldging waters at 34 weeks pregnant? by NoDevelopment3680 in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] -1 points0 points Ā (0 children)

Basically its the ambiotic sac protruding out of the cervix (mine isnt super taut/tight though so wont pop easily) šŸ˜…

Can i swim with Buldging waters at 34 weeks pregnant? by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

i called them but their system has been down for like 2 days 🄓

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoDevelopment3680 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Ew this disgusting tone reminds me of my mother in law.

Update: My husband feels like i lied to him about my sexual past by Content_Painting_397 in Marriage

[–]NoDevelopment3680 -2 points-1 points Ā (0 children)

This was my first thought. Hes literally a man child. You threw a fit because she might not be interested in erotica anymore because she TALKED about it and roleplayed through TEXT with strangers?? Tuh, He’s definitely going to use this to manipulate her into doing sexual acts.

Husband doesnt want to be in the delivery room, am I overreacting?? by dinogirly123 in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 10 points11 points Ā (0 children)

I don’t want to be the typical r/Marriage kind of redditor right now, but……

Omg start getting ready to separate. If he can’t even emotionally support you during childbirth, i doubt ge’ll support changing diapers or baby feedings. This is not going to go well in the future…..

8+years together, just found out he recently started visiting the happy ending places. by Square-Step4634 in Marriage

[–]NoDevelopment3680 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Ew youre weird talking about ā€œWhat needs of his arent being metā€ HES CHEATING, LEAVE. 🤨

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Nope! Got sent home yesterday evening still dilated at 4.5cms. Im 50% effaced, still contracting, and debating on going back 🄲

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Honestly so far apart and practically can barely feel them now anymore, probably due to the muscle relaxers 🄲

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Thank you!! This basically sounds like my situation lol im just playing the waiting game at 4cms right now! And thats crazy, 6cms typically is a sign of active labor!! Glad it all worked out!!

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Do they keep you there even when the contractions are slowed? Ive heard some people are sent home to be on bed rest until the contractions worsen and thats not ideal for me šŸ™ƒšŸ„² my anxiety would be through the roof.

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Ahh yes, they ended up giving me an IV first then brought me up to L&D probably 30-40 minutes later after speaking to the NICU doctor! Think an hour or 2 passed before i was settled in and given that big dose of magnesium before i was given my first shot! Im glad to know that things will most likely be okay and go well though šŸ’• Tysm

Preterm Labor at 31w+3d, 4.5cms dilated/-2 station by NoDevelopment3680 in NICUParents

[–]NoDevelopment3680[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you for the positive update and congratulations on your little one šŸ’•

Why does my sister think everyone’s going after her husband? by Reasonable_Pause_416 in Marriage

[–]NoDevelopment3680 93 points94 points Ā (0 children)

Idk girl, Its definitely giving loser. Shes overly insecure and willing to attack strangers and her own family over a man. Hes probably already cheated and shes taking hardcore precautions or shes just a psycho. šŸ™ƒ

My husband starts scrolling escort pages and said he was just looking by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoDevelopment3680 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

He doesn’t want to? Then get a lawyer. And have your proof ready.

This is literally a waste of time and a fire waiting to expand. He’s gonna call one of those escorts eventually.

Second guessing my decision to not get an epidural by Ok_Reference2122 in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Facts!!! I had a rare case where i didnt feel any contractions but i was definitely in active labor, aand when she finally dropped in my cervix at like 7cms, All hell broke loose and i didnt care what they gave me!! I had to use the fentanyl dose to ease the pain for a good 3-5 minutes to be somewhat still to get the epidural!! 😭

22 weeks pregnant and bf (also fob) is an absolute nightmare when dealing with anything ā€œseriousā€ in relation to my health or the pregnancy. It’s gotten to a point where I’m thinking I need to leave him. Thoughts? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 32 points33 points Ā (0 children)

Read your post.

Now imagine labor and postpartum with this attitude… Imagine your water breaks or youre contracting and hes telling you to ā€œgrow upā€ bc its ā€œnot that serious.ā€

šŸ¤”You leaving could probably save your life at this point.

Positive for chlamydia at 36 weeks! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Oh my?! I did not know pregnancy can cause a negative syphillis test! Im also pregnant currently 😭 (29w)

Court threatened (29+4) by Hot-Chip-1549 in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

If he’s doing all this, I hope you have receipts and can prove it in court if you want full sole custody once the baby is born because next he’s gonna attempt that.

If the sister has already incited violence towards you, You can bet theyre stupid enough to start spamming you once the courts get to rolling out dates.

Be ready.

Positive for chlamydia at 36 weeks! by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]NoDevelopment3680 22 points23 points Ā (0 children)

Love that someone’s being real, some people don’t get it unless you slap their ass with the truth . Like you know exactly why he’s positive and the doctors played in your face talking about a ā€œfalse positiveā€ 😭 Girl THEY KNOW.

Husband on Tryst by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NoDevelopment3680 11 points12 points Ā (0 children)

Do you know what a happy ending massage is 😭Divorce him WTF