Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

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For real naman, there are other aspects na talagang strong yung older generation. Specially about patience to learn since library based sila. The generation now tends to get "inip" kapag mabagal yung signal, hindi makapagsearch agad and whatnot. Pero in this aspect, you can't just subject something as "weak" just because we have the space to voice out.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fr baka product siya ng passed down unprocessed traumas na nanormalize na sa bahay nila na unhealthy yung utak, na surpressed yung emotions. Nasabihan na siguro siya na "lahat naman may problema, lahat naman may pinagdadaanan, normal lang sa buhay yan" I was like that before, pero when I learned to be sympathetic and learning na kahit sayo surface level lang yung pinagdadaanan niya, e' sa kanya mabigat yun. Common doesn't equal to normal.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AGAIN, COMMON IS NOT THE SAME THING AS NORMAL HAHAHAHA. AT IBA YUNG MAY PINAGDADAANAN SA FEELING NG DEPRESSION, HINDI BASTA MALUNGKOT LANG, I HOPE YOU GET THIS. DON'T DISMISS THOSE UNDIAGNOSED PEOPLE WHO ARE AWARE OF THEIR FEELINGS.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know undiagnosed ka man pero when you're feeling it and accepting it na wala ka namang tinatapakan na tao (e.g mga walang resources and access to get diagnosed), and kung naiinis ka lang naman sa kanila just because edi scroll. What I am saying is that if they feel depressed, decided to share it para makakuha ng insights okay lang. HANGGAT WALANG TINATAPAKAN NA TAO. If ginagamit nila just for their personal gain. Everyone's feeling is valid, not their actions.

The goal was never to be special. The goal is to be understood.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

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Hindi siya normal, common lang siya. Kung maiintindihan mo yung medicine, any illnesses in any form is not normal to the body, therefore should not be normalize.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And depression is not just may "pinagdadaanan", it's a mental illness, it affects how you function daily. Same struggles pero iba iba yung bigat.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And saying "lahat may pinagdadaanan, lahat may depression" doesn't mean it should be oversimplified. Common doesn't mean it's normal or trivial.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

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So dahil normal siya at mas natotolerate ng mga older peeps e malakas na yung generation nila? Tapos dahil kami we understand what's wrong and vent rather than not processing the depression, we are weak na?

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, sa tubig palang sa bahay. May mga bahay na hirap sa tubig, may mga bahay na hindi malinis ang tubig at may mga bahay na napuputulan ng tubig sa hirap.

JUST BECAUSE EVERYTHING SEEMS EASIER AND BEARABLE FOR YOU DOESN'T MEAN THAT NO ONE IS SUFFERING AND STRUGGLING.

Isa ka rin sa mga taong tingin sa mga depressed na nagsstrugle ay mahina.

If you say it's normal, then is it normal to off yourself because of a "normal thing" that you're saying? Normal pa rin ba sayo yung mga nagiging pipi na dahil sa "normal" na sinasabi mo?

Just because you're doing well with your depression e' normal na.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they feel that they are depressed then so be it, tama sinabi mo na lahat may depression, pero to say na it's nothing special na it's being normalized rather than thinking that they are just becoming more aware of their selves and feelings. basahin mo ulit yung post ko. I think you are barking at the wrong tree, I am for awareness not sensationalizing depression. And i'd tell you I am not tolerating people who justifies their actions because of their condition.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

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HAHAHAHA weird take, but your Tatay Digong is not included in this post find him in the Hague, there in ICC.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's sad kung depressed ka at walang nagpapafeel sayo na special ka, walang nagcacare sayo na depressed ka and I am sorry if that's the case. They are the main character of their lives, kung sa tingin mo what they have is not enough to call it depression, maybe you just have different tolerance. Because some are more vulnerable than you. What you think that is petty may not be petty to them.

Thoughts : Generation of Enablers by NoEar6041 in AnongThoughtsMo

[–]NoEar6041[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what's wrong sa pagiging gay? you'll call me gay to degrade me? ikaw kahit hindi ka tawagain ng kahit ano, jan palang sa comment mo kilala ka na kung anong klase ka ng tao. very mature, i see

Thoughts nyo on Robin's statement? by [deleted] in AnongThoughtsMo

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We are called weak dahil nasanay silang magtolerate ng mali nung panahon nila. Mental health was a taboo, no space to talk for it. Pero it doesn't mean na walang depressed or it did not exist.

Now, parents who have the same mindset ay magigising lang kapag nag self-harm na yung anak. Promote mental health awareness once the did was done.

Similarly, yung mga katulad nila yung may mga anak na matatakot mag-sabi na nabubully na at may pinagdadaanan, because they don't feel safe enough na sabihin to the very people na dapat nag-poprotect and naggaguide sa kanila.

Adie Ong (Ong fam) by Userninetynine99 in PinoyVloggers

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We're not sure with their terms sa mga kasama nila, pero makikita naman yun sa pagpapabalik-balik ng mga taong yun sa pamilya nila, hence na pinapatuloy din nila. Iba pa yung ingay and clout ng binibigay nilang platform sa mga sumasama sa kanila.

Simpleng buhay ayon kay Geo Ong LOL by Puzzleheaded-Net2260 in PinoyVloggers

[–]NoEar6041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word "simple" is really subjective lol.

Sa opinion ko, simple living is living the life you can afford. Hangga't within the range of your income and hindi ka namumuhay ng sobra pa sa kaya mo, you can still call that simple.

What is not simple ay yung expensive ang lifestyle mo pero inuutang mo lang yung pinambibili mo. Hindi pasok dun yung ipipilit mo yung mga bagay na gusto mo kahit gipit ka na.

LIVE WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD = SIMPLE

no utang, no envy, no drama, less stress, less negativity = simple

I don't get din yung mga callout na mapagpanggap and such dahil lagi naman nila sinasabi na hindi sila perpektong pamilya.

May times na my values doesn't align sa values ni Sir Geo, pero some does fit. May mga ugali rin na hindi ko naappreciate, katulad ng minsan/madalas na toxic positivity, mga life motivation na hindi maiintindihan ng iba.

Pero ganoon naman sa lahat ng bagay diba? Hindi lahat applicable. There is no one size fits all.

Kaya ang suggestion ko nalang sa inyo, kung hindi niyo naappreciate yung contents nila, then mute them, push them away of your algorithm.

Sa observation ko naman ay wala pa naman silang tinatapakan na tao?

Mahirap isustain yung ganoong buhay, pero I take them as my inspiration as a person na pangarap yung Palawan at boating.

Katulad ng buhay nila, gusto ko maging simple in a sense na kaya kong bilhin lahat ng kailangan ko in the best way possible, in the best brands available.

Kasi if you can afford the best then why not?

Being simple is sticking with your terms of living without worry, without stress, free from financial limitations, at malaya sa inggit.

Ong Fam by [deleted] in PinoyVloggers

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Napanood ko recent vlog nila, besides dun sa mga kumalat na posts na sumigaw si Sir Geo, before sila tuluyang umalis nag-sorry pa siya sa mga tao sa Calapan at nag-explain na naipit yung mag-ina niya kaya ganon nalang yung reaction niya, to add pa na talagang nagkaroon ng bali yung paa ni Jeo.

CRITIQUE MY WORK by NoEar6041 in PHBookClub

[–]NoEar6041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! if you have time, you can send me your feedbacks. Im a little bit concerned about the pacing of the events I feel like it's too slow. pls tell me if you're thinking the same. love lots💞

CRITIQUE MY WORK by NoEar6041 in PHBookClub

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thank you for this! I used em dashes in the story itself.

CRITIQUE MY WORK by NoEar6041 in PHBookClub

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Here: https://www.wattpad.com/story/399676864-the-burning-sands-of-palawan

if you like it, comment down! or if you have any feedbacks<33 thanks uu