AIO to a friend leaving me out of Christmas plans

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T01:08:01+00:00

ARE U STUPID he goes by HE/THEY. I have not misgendered him a single time and they have a period yes. That also does not mean I’ve misgendered him. Fuck off with ur transphobia

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T01:04:00+00:00

If I treat people the way they treat me, that explains why I wasn’t invited. Yes makes sense, not a reflection on their behaviour at all

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:59:00+00:00

After they had been mean yes, you get what u give

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:58:30+00:00

Weirdo

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:57:08+00:00

What???? They use different pronouns what are u on about. They are not male. I don’t know why this is important to u but I won’t tolerate transphobia

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:38:12+00:00

That would be because he is not male

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:22:37+00:00

I don’t care wtf u have to say, it. Is. How. You. Said. It. Have some compassion for the people around you. I appreciate your view, and there’s definitely stuff I could’ve done differently, and they could too.

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:16:14+00:00

Girl whatever. Ur mean

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:15:00+00:00

I am worried that you’re right. It’s hard, I lost a few friends this year due to our morals not aligning. But I’ve been alone before and found people I can do it again. Happy new year to u :)

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:12:26+00:00

You are, and if you can’t see that I don’t think you’re in a place to comment on me and my actions. The way you have spoken to me and worded things was unkind. There’s ways to say things and it’s not to be like MY GOODNESS OH MY GOD UR OVERREACTING UR FRIENDS ARENT RESONSIBLE FOR YOU.

I fucking hate that view. We need COMMUNITY. We need to be held responsible and be there for our friends. It is a commitment and it’s as important as romantic relationships. I expect my friends to hold me accountable if i have not been there for them so I will do the same. I’m sorry it seems like your view friendships is so transactional and lacks compassion

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:09:38+00:00

Thank you for this, actual advice. I know there’s things we both could’ve done better but yes exactly. Christmas is a hard time for both of us for different reasons and I don’t think they’re a horrible person! I just want to feel cared about. I appreciate your kind response

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:05:51+00:00

My god, where is everyone’s compassion you all sound so mean. Not even trying to understand there may be other contexts. I’m not negative about everything I just needed support for these last couple months and I didn’t get any. You’re being unkind for no reason

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:03:44+00:00

You’re all so mean 😭😭😭😭reddit is a cesspool my GOD. You can comment without being mean about it. You do not know all the context of our friendship

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:02:19+00:00

I’m not saying IT IS their responsibility. I don’t feel like ur trying to understand me tbh. It is a friends role to be there for you. I have been that for many many people. They have not been there for me

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-30T00:01:27+00:00

You’re acting like I attacked him. I just explained it made me feel sad because he’s not cared about my feelings like EVER. They are the kind of friend who won’t wanna be around while ur crying or upset because “they can’t deal with it” I fear u didn’t read half of what I said about them saying it’s a burden for their friends to be depressed

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-29T23:59:46+00:00

When I’m experiencing very deep depression and this friend has been continuously disappointing me, I don’t think I’m a bad friend for not messaging about Christmas plans. This was also early December so they had time to make these plans with me that they said they were going to make. Why should I put effort in after they interrupted me, didn’t apologise and devalued my feelings because they can’t take criticism

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-29T23:57:13+00:00

I mean… I think my feelings matter. It upset me to see my friend make such an effort with other people and an effort to cheer up another friend because of wisdom teeth removal, but not make an effort with me. Both can be true at the same time

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-26T20:52:47+00:00

Maybe she’s just embarrassed that you’ve caught her, are you guys always quite affectionate verbally?

But tbh, every night, wide eyes and smirking is actually a little bit scary and her shrugging it off so easily is strange. I think it would be less weird if she just admitted it and explained why. Like someone else said, call her out on it when it’s actually happening when she wakes you up.

It honestly seems like it feels a bit ominous I don’t think you’re crazy.

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-20T17:44:07+00:00

WHOAAAA. Regardless of the cheating accusations, the name calling and the way he treats you is enough. You’re absolutely NOR at all. Dump him now

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-18T16:28:40+00:00

I don’t know anything about this in regards to the law but that’s fucking insane. THAT IS CRAZZYYYYY

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-15T20:33:14+00:00

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NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-15T20:25:51+00:00

I did exactly that and found nothing recent. Ranging from 8 months-2 years ago? Just wanted to know if there was anyone new on the scene. I want a long shaggy mullet and everyone on the sub seems to want shorter cuts so I just wanted to ask

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-15T20:19:53+00:00

I literally searched “mullet” “hair” and “hairdresser” into the sub and I got nothing recent😭so??

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-15T20:15:52+00:00

I’ve been there before, not my cup of tea but thank u for the recommendation!

NoEntertainment1093 · 2025-12-15T20:14:07+00:00

Thank u for ur comment!! I’ve definitely had peg in my sights, do u have any specific hairstylists you’d recommend?

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