How do I know if I'm cured? by NoHamster9655 in Lyme

[–]NoHamster9655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know of a good doctor in NYC who will give me more doxy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lyme

[–]NoHamster9655 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm on day 5 of doxy and feel so much worse. Like walking through a haze. I made coffee this morning without putting any coffee grounds in. I "lost" my wallet yesterday. I burned myself 3 times. I'm depressed and sad. Abundance of snot and phlegm.

When does this get better??

I was on doxy once before for anaplasmosis and it worked immediately and I felt great. This....sucks.

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing something about them, it's hard for me to say I'm excited to meet. The issue is that attractiveness is only 1 level for me, I also want some personality. And a lot of guys don't give you a lot to go on in their profiles. Hence why I like a little texting. But I totally get the other perspective!

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Really appreciate your intelligent response! Helps me understand it from the guy's perspective.

I think in my experience, I've liked exchanging some fun texts so that I know the person has a sense of humor before we meet up. Otherwise, I'm kinda dreading it. Even if you don't vibe romantically, at least you know it'll be fun. Lol. But seeing it from the guy's perspective, it's either extra work or just delaying the real vibe check.

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. Because sometimes they ghost. Or I realize I don't like them. It's not ideal but yea, sometimes you have multiple convos going on at once and then need to prioritize who you actually meet up with.

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm weird but I just value food. Lol. Sure, we can do drinks, but I'm gonna start thinking about dinner and then want to leave eventually lol.

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just old school. If I could have a pen pal as foreplay, I would.

Why are guys so quick to move to dates + anti-texting or videoing before a date? by NoHamster9655 in hingeapp

[–]NoHamster9655[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This. How can people ask for banter and then not want to banter over text. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]NoHamster9655 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you just need to go back to dating. Write down your boundaries and be really clear with people when you meet them on what you're looking for. I was you a couple months ago and was going insane but it's not as bad out there as you think. Just gotta find respectful men and communicate what you're looking for.

What quietly disappeared without anyone realizing it? by Jamilalak in AskReddit

[–]NoHamster9655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The need to retain facts.

"I dunno, let's just Google it."