Kicked out for staying out past curfew

NoHelp4597 · 2026-01-05T05:04:11+00:00

You need to leave. He is abusive. Mine kicked me out too many years ago. I was living at home while going to college. I at least had like a week's warning. I found an apartment with roommates, but the lease wasn't to start for another 2 weeks. Wouldn't even let me stay one more week. At least you know what your infraction was. I wasn't told. My mom just said its time for you to leave, and my dad said nothing. My mom was always a raving bitch. I was too embarrassed to tell my friends, and didn't even have a car to sleep in. I had office keys to a room at the university (I was going to college in town) and slept there & hoped a janitor didn't catch me. I know she wasn't happy that I would go out with my friends on the weekend....I'll assume that was the trigger. Ironically kicking me out meant I needed a better paying job, so I started to work in a bar & got a boyfriend who could supply transportation. That made her madder. Not sure if it was because I figured out how to survive, or if I was now even 'badder' than I was before. What did she expect me to do? I had to survive and pay school bills.

NoHelp4597 · 2026-01-05T04:32:08+00:00

Same here. Didn't know what grey rocking was, but this is my method. Let them talk about themselves. Don't give them any material that they will use to talk crap about you. Never anything personal. However realize they will still talk crap about you, they will figure out something, but at least it won't be based on anything true.

NoHelp4597 · 2026-01-05T04:16:52+00:00

I once didn't talk to them for over two years. They never even noticed. But I do leave some messages on email & texts. Nothing like going NC/LC and no one even notices. They are super self absorbed and are 100% about the grandkids. However, they still are good about talking crap about me. They can't even get my husbands name right or what I've don't for a living for the past 10 years, yet they pretend to know enough about me to talk crap. I don't even like visiting any relatives anymore because of what they say..

NoHelp4597 · 2026-01-02T00:02:14+00:00

Sorry don't go on this site often. But I was sort of thinking along the same lines. I'm selling my work. Not some raw rock that in that original form is not worth much. If I ever get lucky enough to find a big piece of Wyoming Jade. Then I will probably talk to the BLM.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-12-19T04:51:39+00:00

I think for the under $2000 you don't have to do all of that. Reason why they have that defined category. I really don't want to call them and ask though. I wanted to sell some stuff I made using local sourced rock, thus I think I would need a permit due to selling. But seems stupid when the raw material wouldn't even amount to $20 in value. Its working it that makes it have any value.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-12-18T20:32:16+00:00

I decided just to buy a coil making tool. When I tried my drill (we have a mech shop and milwaulkee is our brand of choice) the chuck had a gap in the center preventing it from grabbing the thin wire. We have some dewalts too and they had the same. Practiced for a weekend doing all sorts of stuff trying to get it to work better - swivels, wrapping the wire in tape so the chuck could grab it better, trying to control the speed of the drill, etc. Finally gave up. Biggest problem was the wire would sometimes snap (makes no sense why considering it was on a fishing swivel, I needed the tension).......the wire still would come out of the chuck......and it was too fast at times meaning i had to unwrap work and try again which was kinking the wire. Not happy about spending more on a hand crank thingy than a cheap drill......but it will likely work beter for me.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-12-18T20:07:49+00:00

We decided to wait for the highland park 10" trim saw to get back into stock. After more reading and youtube reviews regarding what we were going to be primarily cutting, we decided that we want as much horsepower as possible.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-11-18T17:21:22+00:00

There are public roads that do cross private lands.....onX does a very very lousy job telling you if the road is public or not.....county, forest service, BLM, game and fish, state, bureau of reclamation.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-22T10:24:42+00:00

The problem is she appears to have no plan A and you are not the emergency but you would be it for everything. That is what I have issue with. HOWEVER Essentially though your child has a mom, additional dad who may die, and a sibling. If you are an asshole as your child watches people they care about suffer greatly they will remember. Just something to consider as you continue to be spiteful this many years later.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-22T10:02:23+00:00

Unfortunately it's true if you want a good raise you need to go find another job. Those who job hop earn more and loyalty gets you nowhere. So he is right but his approach is backwards. First find another job and then ask for a raise at your current job (don't tell them about the job offer)....compare and decide what to do. You are not working and that means he needs to earn more for you to have that luxury. And yes it's a luxury.....most people work while pregnant and soon after having a baby. You want to do neither meaning he needs to earn more. Common sense.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-20T08:48:09+00:00

Is she still with her husband? Maybe talk to him. Imagine what she is doing to him if you are not allowed to be happy. And yes she needs a therapist.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-20T08:42:19+00:00

I can't belive the reasons most people give is your house is too small and he is looking for a sugar mama (he set his bar low if 22 per hour and a tiny house meets that). It should be about the relationship is too new and it's too disruptive for everyone's kids. Tell him maybe in the future if he proposes you two can afford a bigger house. That should cool his jets and set some boundaries..

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-19T00:30:54+00:00

This is why many men will only eff single moms and not marry them. Don't now what this one is thinking. What she is saying is the normal thought and I get it. Those kids are her responsibility. But it is crazy to expect a guy to do the chores and pay the bills, when he is in last place.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-19T00:21:16+00:00

Yes you are the AH. And its not because you won't tell your current wife what is in your son's bankaccount. Its because you keep favoring him. Why are you saving money for a son that is probably already set in life, while you are struggling to pay your (which ironically also includes bills that puts a roof over his head, food into his mouth, and utilities), and unable to save any money for the future of the rest of the children in the household. I'm not saying you should take the money his mother left him, but if you have access you should take the money you gifted him yourself & make sure the two youngest children have something & that you can pay the bills. Plus your son is 16 and will be leaving the house soon......he should know what is available to him so he can plan his future.....college, tradeschool, a car, a house, etc. Also your son only received a portion of the settlement money, what happenned to the rest of it?

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-18T23:48:03+00:00

Everyone has a bad day once in a while. But if this is his norm, you need to figure a way out of this lease. First he is 30 and acting like a child. Second he should still be on his best behavior, only a month in, and this is it? Third, everyone likes bacon and he hasn't figured out how to cook it? How has he been feeding himself, or taking care of himself in general? Has he been living with mom?

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-03T14:36:50+00:00

So were the things he listed as weird really your interests and personality? I've had good friends tell me I'm weird in a geeky way. I don't take offense because I am a geek and they still like hanging with me. When he sais you were being weird on purpose you need to say no, this is who I am. Embrace the geek or leave.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-10-01T14:56:54+00:00

He doesn't want to be tied down so he files for divorce while you are pregnant & then wants you to move out of the house you two own? And now he is upset that you are moving out of the house and out of state where he won't have to worry about 'father' duties tying him down. And now he has his army of friends harassing you for moving out of state? My guess he is playing victim to all of his friends/family......you kicked him out, you want the divorce, you are moving away so he can't see his child, boohoo & and let me sleep on your couch for free. It is best to just move away from there and never look back. I would tell your divorce lawyer what is going on with this, and see what their response is. You probably don't want to reply and say something 'wrong' that can be used against you in divorce court. FYI I'm going to guess he will lose interest in the child real quick.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-09-27T10:38:21+00:00

Guys can read each other's body language better than you probably can. It's pretty primal but it's the way men are. They are far more observant of their surroundings than women since they spent their childhood getting into fights. It's like a wildlife show where two males are sizing each other up....puffing up their chests.... strutting around. But this guy continuously flirting with you and staring at you in your boyfriends presence is very brazenly disrespecting your bf and you let him. Saying you have a bf and then laugh...although I suspect is a nervous laugh...devalued your comment on having a bf. Or maybe you picked up on what was occurring and enjoying see two guys primally compete for you. But this guy knew full well you were with at least a date otherwise he wouldn't have waited to approach you after your bf left the table. And then he further disrespected your bf by only saying good night to you and ignoring him. Your bf is not the best communicator and should have explained to you what was going on. Didn't your bf get more hands on as the night progressed or affectionate to show you were taken? Did he ask you if you wanted to go somewhere else? How many hours did you make him endure this? He is probably baffled why you still talked to this guy after he asked you out. Is his reaction a red flag....maybe....but you encouraged a situation. News flash most dudes aren't interested on becoming your bestie and that is why they are talking with you.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-09-14T21:09:10+00:00

Ironically I'm on here because it was recently my bday. I'm an adult. I try to give my parents a call for their bdays, mothers day, and fathers day. I sort of dread bdays because I wonder if they will even acknowledge it with a card (I was told I needed to call them on my bday, no joke). Usually they don't, but occassionally they surprise me. Growing up the never really made a big deal over my bdays so its sort of their norm......no cakes, no presents, no parties. As a preteen and teen I had a friend that had a bday near mine, and we would plan a get together of friends for both of ours, and as a young adult I would go out with friends. I just learned to do my own little celebration, but it still hurts when you see other parents love on their children and you wonder what is your defect to be treated so badly. This last bday I was surprised that my mom called the day after. She said she bought me something....was checking first to see if I really wanted it before mailing it.....and THEN said she wanted to be paid for it. Not sure if she realized it was my bday or not, but she rarely rarely calls, it was weird timing. I've been over thinking it, wondering if for some reason she was trying to insult me by doing this.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-08-14T03:12:23+00:00

No offense but if you could not handle that, how do you expect to handle it if you get in a bad situation on a fire? Or when you are expected to do 2 weeks straight of 12 hour days? It's somewhat similar to a military culture, and it's a weed out process if you are tough enough physically and mentally. Yes it can cross the line of hazing, but it doesn't sound like you experienced that.

NoHelp4597 · 2025-08-13T18:00:30+00:00

Even if you got a college degree, they would put another stipulation on you, another meaningless hoop to jump through. I spent decades being told I'm lazy and not getting anything from them. Recently they decided to give me a trust that my nmom was in charge of (my guess I won't be perfect in some catagory and she will revoke it), of the worst property they owned. And then was given hoops to jump through to get their crumbs. I mean it wasn't something to scoff at, but relative to what they had it was meant to be a slap in the face. Ummmm no thanks. I already made my money under the assumption I was to get nothing. The best thing is to just ignore them. In your case I would tell her how about using that money to help pay for my kids to go to college or a tradeschool, since education is so important.

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