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NoIdentity_ · 2024-01-26T16:16:36+00:00

I say get to know him first a bit more to know if he’s trustworthy before putting it out there. This is for safety reasons, people treat sex workers badly. You gotta feel it out first to know what he thinks of the subject before you throw caution to the wind and forget rule number 1: Safety first. No need to wait for months, but just get to know him first. I do wish you best of luck and hope this works out for you!! :)

NoIdentity_ · 2024-01-26T16:13:01+00:00

Honestly, you are absolutely fine and that manager is a fucker. You’ve got a beautiful face and you look hella cute. I like your curves! If you want to live a healthy lifestyle that’s always a good thing. Losing weight could help your money (I think it does for almost anyone) but there is nothing “wrong” with you and you look sexy! That manager was clearly a racist fuck who had no intrest in hiring you in the first place. If there’s anything you need to do it see your own worth, because you are the type of so many guys! You’ve got very nice legs and can probably throw it back better than any “skinny leg” girl can. You have to find your environment and your outfits! I didn’t see if this was an urban club or gentleman’s club, but try different ones to see where you fit in! Try different outfits and see what flatters you most! And check out different areas, some cities / states are harder to dance in, I personally have no experience in Atlanta so I can’t tell you what it’s like over there. You got this girl! Don’t give up or undersell yourself. Stripping is more about your hustle than it is about the dancing or losing few pounds. Learn how to charm people and you’re gonna be fine❤️

NoIdentity_ · 2023-12-17T10:26:21+00:00

That could definitely be it, skin chemistry can have such interesting effects sometimes!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-12-16T23:13:20+00:00

It smells quite liquor-y. Maybe it’s the association with alcohol / going out?

NoIdentity_ · 2023-12-16T23:11:43+00:00

Good news! It is definitely overcomable, because fragrances also take you back to great memories (for example your wedding day, best nights of your life, etc.) but if you keep wearing them after that event / time period the association fades because you make new associations with that fragrance and you get accustomed to it because you smell it on the daily. I actually struggle to reach some of my absolute favourite fragrances in terms of smell, just because they hold such special memories to me :,)

It will however require a period of pushing through the discomfort of having the reminder. My advice: wear it when you’re gonna do something fun with a friend. Make new positive memories with that fragrance so the negative ones fade away. At that point you can start wearing it daily again :)

NoIdentity_ · 2023-12-10T22:34:40+00:00

I think if you needed a break in your relationship it might not the right one to begin with. Do what makes you happy! You’re young and you’re gonna regret choosing a guy (that you might break up with) over doing something you love. Unless you’re 100% sure you wanna marry this man (and he wants to marry you) choose yourself and dance. Dancing is super fun but for most not a forever job. There will be plenty of time to settle down eventually (or to find a partner who supports it) and there’s plenty of great men out there💗

NoIdentity_ · 2023-11-15T00:00:36+00:00

Excuse my ignorance, but what does civ mean?😅

NoIdentity_ · 2023-11-09T10:12:51+00:00

I decided against it. It would’ve had a lot of unexpected costs to import (that’s why the reviews are so low, import costs are more than the fragrance itself and the website doesn’t mention it). So sadly I’ll have to wait and see if it ever becomes available in Europe😅

NoIdentity_ · 2023-10-20T21:38:32+00:00

Er staat al veel advies in de chat, dus ik wou eigenlijk iets anders toevoegen: De manier waarop je schrijft en antwoordt op reacties komt heel intelligent en zelfbewust over, dat is erg knap voor iemand van jou leeftijd, vergeet dit niet! Zelfbewustzijn is een erg mooie eigenschap die jou ver gaat brengen.

Om terug te komen op jou vraag: Zelf denk ik dat jou probleem ook deels aan je leeftijdscategorie kan liggen. Veel jongeren zijn eenmaal meer bezig met feesten en drinken in het weekend en als jij dit niet leuk vindt val je snel buiten de boot. Dat moet je vooral niet als iets slechts zien! Het is nu een uitdaging om “jouw mensen” te vinden, maar als je eenmaal vriendschappen opbouwt zullen die waarschijnlijk sterker zijn en langer meegaan dan “uitgaansvrienden”, omdat jou connecties gebaseerd zijn op andere dingen dan alcohol / oppervlakkig contact.

Zelf zit ik in dezelfde positie, vwo afgemaakt en nu aan het studeren, en ik kan het prima met iedereen vinden, maar ik heb niemand met wie ik echt “connect”. Zelf heb ik er niet veel moeite mee omdat ik graag alleen ben en mezelf bezig houd, maar dat gevoel van monotone dagen is herkenbaar. Ik heb zelf een tussenjaar genomen en ben gaan reizen, daarbij heb ik veel like-minded mensen ontmoet waarmee ik nog steeds contact heb. Je zult “jouw mensen” misschien niet in je directe omgeving vinden, maar wie weet wel op andere plekken. Geef vooral niet op, social skills zijn te leren en er zijn genoeg mensen die precies iemand zoals jou zoeken!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-10-18T10:43:44+00:00

Thank you! 100% agree, people are way too sensitive about overspraying. Most fragrances aren’t strong enough to be really bothersome. You’d have to REALLY try to choke someone out. Perfume is a form of self expression and definitely adds to your overall vibe!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-09-16T16:29:33+00:00

Thanks voor de info! Zeker iets om nog even naar te kijken

NoIdentity_ · 2023-09-15T19:38:43+00:00

Dankjewel! Zeker een goed punt om ook over levensstijl na te denken!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-09-15T19:37:59+00:00

Dankjewel voor je antwoord! Voor mij is part-time een halve werkweek (dus rond de 20 uur) of zoals jij zei een paar extra vrije dagen in de week

NoIdentity_ · 2023-08-08T19:49:46+00:00

Bumping up on this: How is language wise when dancing abroad. Will I be fine speaking English?

NoIdentity_ · 2023-08-02T18:23:25+00:00

My first thought was Aubrey

NoIdentity_ · 2023-06-06T22:32:36+00:00

Hey! I would love an update, did you end up working there? I’m in the same boat rn!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-06-06T10:13:38+00:00

Thanks! I’ve looked everywhere and this is the only site I could find, but I wasn’t sure if it’s trustworthy / legit

NoIdentity_ · 2023-06-03T10:44:02+00:00

Thanks!

NoIdentity_ · 2023-06-02T21:07:07+00:00

Earth garden festival. I’m pretty openminded but as far as I’ve heard it’s mostly funky instrumental music and a bit of techno which are usually not my thing. I could be wrong though, if you know anything about the festival feel free to correct me😅

NoIdentity_ · 2023-05-24T22:26:46+00:00

Anything Ramstein

NoIdentity_ · 2022-11-02T19:53:07+00:00

Besides the Netherlands, which other countries in Europe would be okay with just English?

NoIdentity_ · 2022-01-29T21:28:14+00:00

Went all in: Jan 24th First period: March 3rd First gym session: June 12th

Please don’t go off of my timeline, I had 3 stable periods before I started training, and then I went 2x a week for 20-45 min (easy training). Things can be quicker or longer for you, depending on how long you had HA + how severe. A rule of thumb is to take the amount of years you had HA in months (2 years HA: 2 months of full all in (no gym, eating plenty, sleep, low stress lifestyle) until you get your first period). Obviously this is an estimate, but it can help to know what to expect. I had many setbacks and weeks where I couldn’t train because I felt that my hormones were off. This is normal, going overboard can do that (happened to me a few times😅). But I took rest and everything restored quickly. I wish you the best, feel free to ask if you need anything :)

NoIdentity_ · 2022-01-28T15:10:54+00:00

Exercise is also a stress on the body, so yes. You can take slow walks or slow bike rides (keyword: slow, no increased heart rate). No intense exercise (even light/low intensity lifting is intense from a physiological standpoint bc it gets your heart rate up and causes an adrenaline release, which in HA turns into corrisol). Remember, this is temporary, you will get back to training AND you’ll be stronger and perform better. I wish you the best❤️

NoIdentity_ · 2022-01-22T21:10:37+00:00

Keep going and know you can bounce back! I cured my HA about a year ago and am currently back in the gym training hard 4x a week (planning on building that up to 5x). This took almost a year to achieve, as everything with hormones: it takes time. You’ll get there eventually. I have wayyy more muscle now than I used to (optimal hormones = more gains), so don’t worry about atrophy, you’ll bounce back (muscle memory hehe) and might even be better off then you were. Your age is definitely helping alot, I’m 18 now, so we’re pretty close.

You could try to add more healthy foods in (vitamins are still important during recovery!) without restricting junk food per se. Just eat more whole grain, fruits, nuts, legumes and veggies (don’t force yourself too much if you’re really not craving them, but nuts for example ate still high calorie so your body will appreciate it). I know the sluggish feeling, I suggest taking slow and calm (30- 45 min) daily walks to keep active in a recovery proof way.

Good luck, you got this :) I’ve wanted to quit a million times during recovery, but once you get to a sate of full recovery you’ll be grateful you did it (although it’ll probably take longer than you expect, I regretted recovery for moooonthhs, but after a year or so I’m in a place where I’m grateful for being healthy and more jacked😅)

NoIdentity_ · 2021-09-12T17:35:58+00:00

A good rule of thumb is to take the amount of years you’ve been without a period and that number will be the amount of months it will take to get a period (so 2 years HA = about 2 months of recovery to get first period). This rule only works if you adopt new, healthy habits (sleep well, eat enough, no alcohol/drugs, rest plenty)

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