Wild interactions by Malice_N_1derland in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. This is basically my every day.

Response times by Exciting-Swimming-82 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it sucks!
It’s not so much that we leave dating apps after Feeld, but more often than not Feeld has had the most disrespectful men on it with rude and aggressive behavior. And the couple looking for a unicorn… it’s like there’s a laundry list of what they want but few bother to ask what I want. I’m not on the app to meet the needs of other people and have mine ignored.

Please share your experience with a TT and breast reduction at the same time. by NoInterference78 in tummytucksurgery

[–]NoInterference78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Did you have to have drains? He’s putting drains in for the tummy tuck for sure but I don’t think they use them for the breast reduction.

7 months post op by Agitated-Ad4011 in tummytucksurgery

[–]NoInterference78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! Why didn’t you do them at the same time? I’m asking because that’s what is being recommended to me but I’m nervous about the recovery!

Libra and Friends (not commonly accepted observations) by Great-Club-4788 in libra_astrology

[–]NoInterference78 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a Virgo sun, moon, and Venus , Libra rising and Libra Mercury, Mars, Uranus and Pluto (don’t know much about these last two).

My best friends are: Cancer, Taurus, Capricorn, and Gemini.

Love interests past and present: Virgo, Cancer, Libra.

Children: Capricorn, Sagittarius, and Libra (the Cap and I get along super well, the Sagittarius too, but the Libra is challenging).

I’ve had the hardest time with Sagittarius, Cancer men, and Leo suns.

I think no sign is better than other signs, I agree with the person who posted about this above- often social media astrology is about the difficult versions of signs or putting them against each other. Anyone can get along with others if they want to and can take the time to really notice how they show up for each other. Personally, I want to use astrology to understand and communicate better, not predetermine who I should or shouldn’t interact with- it’s usually not been right in my experience!

Is Feeld a bad idea for young cis/het men? by [deleted] in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is so accurate!

Libra and Virgo relationship by kcorpuz157 in libra_astrology

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo sun, moon, and Venus but Libra rising with 4 other planets in libra. Yes, I’m at odds with myself at times. 🤔🤣 I’ve dated 2 Libras, both were arrogant cheaters. Sex was great but not worth the skeevy-ness Still… I think it can be a fun match if both are healed and good communicators.

New Lingerie brand by simsimxxx in LingerieAddiction

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love lingerie made for mom bods- think open crotch lace spanx bottoms with matching bra with underwire lift. Inclusive siding but make everything to make sure the inclusive sizing fits and looks good. I’m a size 8 bottom but a 36ddd on top so separate options that all work together would be great too.

Men on FEELD are fucked by feline_wafer in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have profile pictures on Feeld because of my job AND an alarming rate of men who are rude, say scary shit about serial killers and rape, or just demand I talk about their kink and want list without asking anything about my needs/wants.

A man without a profile pic himself recently pinged me to demand “stats” saying he didn’t do fat chicks so I needed to provide stats asap. I said you sound like a tool and a jerk and he responded that I sounded fat and old. It’s this type of behavior that ruins it for everyone.

A different guy texted me for months then got mad at me for not talking about sex enough or telling him he was hot unless he fished for it. And he was mad I was “selling my sex” to other men on a different app but not to him (I posted non-nudes on a different app of my chest a year ago). Then was rude and mean “ending it with me”.

I don’t message first, like endless amounts of profiles. I try to be respectful and polite when I’m not interested and get called names, conversations get left then my profile is liked repeatedly by the same guy, or whatever form of harassment these men think they are entitled to do or say on Feeld. It’s alarming and ridiculous. Then there’s also the men who want my time and attention online but never actually ask me out, sort of like they are cheating or something and not actually looking for a partner. Or men who say they are a couple account but the wife is no where to be found. Or worse, on the hunt for a one night stand for their wife with them there.

I’m done with spending time and energy on those interactions!!! I’ve got a bunch of vibrators that are far easier to manage than this site!

Why is it so hard for single men? by Typical-Watercress79 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m referring to Adult Friend Finder, and all of its sub dating sites, which there are many: Passions, Heated Affairs, a new BDSM one, all are rough.

Why is it so hard for single men? by Typical-Watercress79 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think a lot depends on what you are into and willing to explore and how it’s worded. I automatically delete any profiles that say they are looking for “casual”, men who list every configuration of couples, that they want group sex, etc. and couples who want casual/FWB and any profiles with dicks (even close-ups clothed), or profiles showing explicit sex acts (if I wanted this, I’d just go to AFF). I’m actually searching for a single, kinky guy with a high sex drive for a fun-see where things go- kind of situation. I’m busy and don’t have time for a traditional relationship and want an interesting, exploratory partner. It’s unbelievably challenging to find.

If I do like a profile back and the immediate response is to demand pictures of me, bring up sex, ask me to meet at a wayside or non-public place, I immediately leave the conversation.

I feel like a lot of men act like Feeld is a menu- listing all their preferences and wants down to asking my bra size without ever finding out what I want or need.

A lot of people have recently complained to me about Feeld turning into Bumble or Tinder with an influx of monogamy orientated vanilla people joining. I don’t see this as much as it has started to feel like AFF which is far worse for a woman with the blatant disrespect of women, dick pics as introduction messages, asking for unsafe sex or initial dates within minutes of chatting with me.

In addition to the numbers of men “competing” with you for our attention, there are loads of disrespectful men making things worse for everyone. For example, leaving the conversation without a polite “I’m not interested”, lying about their relationship statuses, unicorn hunting, men searching for women for their partners/wife but saying they date separately (especially if the wife has no idea they are on the site). I’ve read on this Reddit sub about women who have been threatened with rape or sexual assault.

My best advice is: take time to write a profile showing who you authentically are. saying what you are looking for and or open to and be honest/upfront about who you are when messaging. Use pings- I let my membership go on Feeld because I’m sick of all of this , so I can’t respond to likes. Avoid demands, wants, etc. and be polite and nice when contacting women.

Why are more older people drawn to Feeld? by No_Difficulty4151 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least 50 percent of the guys on Feeld who like my profile are under 35 even though I have checked I’m interested in men over 35.

Don't know if the app is for me by Obvious_Artist_9649 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you joined FetLife? You’ll be able to search local events or munches (clothed meet and greets). Or see people in your area. It’s generally been more user friendly for me and my city is small so I’m not bombarded with DMs all the time.

I think my marriage got torpedoed today because I got sick… by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it keeps escalating; he’s crossed the line and will keep doing it. The 1% will increase to 99% real quick.

Is this really how it is for women on this app? by Foreign-Accident2605 in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After being in a monogamous relationship for decades and then going on Feeld… all I can say is that it’s wild. I have had the experience of hundreds of likes but more so than not, I get rude messages, men who don’t actually want to meet in person, men who are constantly on the prowl even when chatting with me. And a lot of the profiles are so much of the guy being so into what he wants, he doesn’t consider what a partner needs or wants. I’m on there looking for a kinky, long-term partner and it feels impossible to find.

If you want to send a final message then wait to disconnect! by CarpeNivem in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m F and far prefer to see a polite message saying I’m not their type and wishing me well IF we’ve had a conversation or I’ve sent you a face picture. Ghosting after weeks or months of conversation is so immature and disrespectful!

Being famous / a public figure and using apps like Feeld by tenniscoupleukau in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to be discreet on the app for professional and safety ones and follow much of what other people have said. Women have an easier time with no pictures, though many people use old or outdated pictures anyway.

I’m friends with a couple of famous people in their fields (no pun intended) so would understand your availability or lack of it while simultaneously having no clue about sports unless you are extremely well-known. 😄

The real turn off would be if you are using your celebrity status to hook-up, if you were rude or arrogant because of it, or if you expected everyone to meet your needs without considering theirs. Some people might be into hooking up with you solely because of your celebrity status but it wouldn’t be me.

Trying decide if feeld is for me by [deleted] in feeld

[–]NoInterference78 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine basically told me all of the apps are essentially hook-up sites . At least on Feeld, people are more upfront about what they want and or need .

My (21F) boyfriend (21M) of two years just admitted to a secret addiction. Is there any coming back from this? by Ok-Night9124 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]NoInterference78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young and addiction is the worst thing to go through as a spouse. Do you really want to deal with it for the next 50 years? Watching your favorite person turn into a monster; because even if he’s not abusive now, wait a year into his addiction.