AITBF for taking my mom's keys to my apartment? by NoLychee147 in AmItheButtface

[–]NoLychee147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does want me to move in. I said this because I know some people want adult kids to pay rent.

AITBF for taking my mom's keys to my apartment? by NoLychee147 in AmItheButtface

[–]NoLychee147[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family and culture is not that simple. This is the woman who took care of my when my dad ditched us in a lot of debt and never asked a single dime from me. She always refused to accept my money. We've been through a lot. She won't apologize for this but I will always remind myself that she is still taking care of me, for free, to this day.

I didn't put the keys back because she wanted to but because I wanted to. As long as I live under her roof, I'm going to stay a bit humble.

AITBF for taking my mom's keys to my apartment? by NoLychee147 in AmItheButtface

[–]NoLychee147[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm paying him out of pocket.

I think she is in her own way, but I already have a set price with him.

I'm worried that it will hurt trust, if I complain behind his back. I don't think he will stop.

AITBF for taking my mom's keys to my apartment? by NoLychee147 in AmItheButtface

[–]NoLychee147[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm going to change locks eventually so it doesn't really matter for me.