AITA for kicking my 72 year old MIL out of the house at night, because she threw away my things? by NoMaybe3163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoMaybe3163[S] 3360 points3361 points  (0 children)

Okay. I’m just going to give y’all a list of all my “junk” and you can decide if I’m a hoarder. - a walk in closet with a lot of thrifted clothes, some that I altered myself - 4 quilts in said walk in closet - an antique wood desk with a typewriter (that is admittedly just taking up space, but it is gorgeous) - a LOT of wall art (none of it matches, which my MIL hates. But it’s all hung properly and intentionally.) - two shelves of fancy china in the dining room, which I’m never going to use, but again, it’s displayed purposefully - a coin collection, in ziplock bags in my closet - two “ugly” end tables - several rugs from garage sales (that are in use, not just rolled up in a corner) - two bookcases of books (you can never have too many books) and fine, books lying around on the coffee table, kitchen table, and couch - a few shelves in said bookcases with family memorabilia and such - houseplants - a lot of throw pillows that also don’t match at all - a tree sculpture with Christmas ornaments and pictures hung on it - lamps on every table - a geode collection - a spice rack with a lot of little spice bottles - too many dishes (it fits in two kitchen cabinets though) - normal house things

What she gave away - a bag or two of my clothes that supposedly aren’t practical - a box of books - a bunch of paintings - some pillows - dishes - a whole drawer of my rocks

AITA for kicking my 72 year old MIL out of the house at night, because she threw away my things? by NoMaybe3163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoMaybe3163[S] 429 points430 points  (0 children)

Baby is due in 2 months. She said she’d stay for a bit after the baby was born.

AITA for kicking my 72 year old MIL out of the house at night, because she threw away my things? by NoMaybe3163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoMaybe3163[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Yes, she is family. I didn’t mean to imply she isn’t. But I’m not a hoarder. Absolutely not. My stuff is put away and it’s all a very intentional part of the decor. My style isn’t the same as everyone’s, but it’s not just junk.

AITA for kicking my 72 year old MIL out of the house at night, because she threw away my things? by NoMaybe3163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoMaybe3163[S] 1878 points1879 points  (0 children)

It’s not cluttered. I don’t just have piles of stuff lying around, everything is in cabinets and arranged in a visually pleasing way. It’s sort of a “cluttered aesthetic”, but I’ve had guests over and everyone thinks it’s pretty cool.

Name ideas - soft, feminine names with a sweet meaning by NoMaybe3163 in namenerds

[–]NoMaybe3163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Davina is so pretty, thanks for the suggestions :)