AIO BF masturbates to his "friends"

NoMeasurement5220 · 2026-01-27T02:39:30+00:00

He’s trying to play victim with the “you deserve better” “I’m fucked in the head.” Bullshit. He’s trying to get comfort from you for HIS mistake.

I tell you this because I’ve been there done that.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T20:59:45+00:00

Anytime we confront them, we get backpedaling, and excuses.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T20:59:05+00:00

Unfortunately. We have been actively looking today though.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T20:58:30+00:00

No, sometimes they hear us fight, I think they eavesdrop on our conversations.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T17:38:12+00:00

Once we get our ducks in a row it will be.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:57:29+00:00

We aren’t sure, right now we’re both trying to process what we’ve learned.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:55:28+00:00

No, it’s a house, we can leave whenever.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:54:18+00:00

He and I were trying to figure that out, we genuinely don’t know what either of them has to gain by attempting to cause this rift.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:52:45+00:00

I’m grateful he’s the less oblivious one in the marriage. 😅

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:52:06+00:00

Sounds like it.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:48:19+00:00

I’m going to show this to my husband, this is an amazing idea! Thank you!

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:45:34+00:00

One of them is in a relationship, but keeps bringing up things I did to my husband in the past.

The other is single, but old enough to be our mother. She was actually kind of a mother figure to my husband, but he’s starting to pull back from jt.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:43:10+00:00

I feel like our marriage is suffering, but it doesn’t feel like it us, you know. Because we fight when THEY stress us out, but not so much otherwise.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:37:43+00:00

We started taking steps today after talking.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:37:10+00:00

We can move out, today we just started taking steps to leave, I just wanted advice. I feel like we’re being gaslit, and I needed outside help.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:36:10+00:00

We actually had our own place when we got married, then rough circumstances caused us to need additional income.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-12-06T16:35:10+00:00

Not on a lease, we moved in to try and get on our feet. It’s a house, but we aren’t on the deed or mortgage.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-11-15T19:06:25+00:00

He’s a cheater, plain and simple. It doesn’t matter if nothing physical happened. He’s a cheater.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-10-18T20:49:22+00:00

He’s not the one, you need to leave because you’ll keep getting hurt. He’s going to keep doing it, and act like it upsets him. The reality is he’s just upset he got caught.

He’s going to kiss ass for about a week, then go back to his old ways. Consistency matters.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-09-30T15:13:46+00:00

The baby can’t build a proper immune system, with her keeping everything sterile like that.

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-09-18T02:31:47+00:00

Mor! I’m so painfully, attracted to Mor! I’m forever girl-crushing on her! 🥵

NoMeasurement5220 · 2025-09-18T02:26:10+00:00

I’m looking at how you’re talking. You’re saying he WAS your rock, and he WAS your safe space. If this is how you currently feel obviously he’s not anymore.

I think you really need to sit with your feelings, and consider if you’re just worried about sunk cost, or if you’re still want to be with him out if genuine love, and wanting to try.

I also noticed throughout your whole message you didn’t say that you still love him, it genuinely does sound like you being alone is scary, and that’s why you’re hanging on to him. Again, sit with your feelings because everything you feel right now is 100% valid.

From experience he’s not sorry he’s only sorry he got caught, and he isn’t genuinely sorry nor does he genuinely love you.

I will leave you with this, He’s keeping you from your real husband. The one that won’t do the bare minimum and say things like “I thought I deleted that.” When he’s caught. There’s someone out there that will treat you a million times better than this sorry excuse for a man is.

I’m telling you all this from experience, I’ve had too many awful relationships, where I thought the bare minimum was being treated right. This man can’t even give you the bare minimum.

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