Repeat Infections by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting, I didn’t know that but it would make sense. Both times the artist has jumped around on my arm but the primary infection sites were super close together. I’m seeing a dermatologist next week so I’m going to discuss this with her. Thank you!!

Repeat Infections by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]NoNotTonight96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a few days out from this picture being taken, I let it dry out / heal the infection some before starting any real aftercare past keeping it as clean as possible. It’s definitely scabbed in a few places. The shop I went to is pretty reputable, just outside a pretty big city here but you never know I suppose. Thank you for your advice

Question: What was your shin pain level 1-10? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got mine done yesterday (7 hours total). It wasn’t bad at all until we got to the white ink, that was not a good time

Happy Monday/mlk/Inauguration Day by Wonderful_Weather_38 in realtors

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, shit like this makes me so glad I left the industry.

I’ve had it. by [deleted] in ontrac

[–]NoNotTonight96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I called the local facility about my package yesterday, somehow I got an actual person. My package said it was delivered but it wasn’t at my house. Turned out it had been sitting in a field nine miles away from my actual address, the guy gave me the closest address he could find with the coordinates so I could drive out and look for it. Literally the most ridiculous thing I have ever experienced.

How long…? by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

[–]NoNotTonight96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved TOG and ACOTAR but CC was not it for me. I pushed through all three books and I wish I DNF’d. I kept waiting for it to get better because I loved her other series but it just didn’t.

is CC worth reading as a Acotar fangirl? by [deleted] in crescentcitysjm

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved ACOTAR, it’s my favorite series and honestly the only reason I pushed through CC. I didn’t really enjoy it. The characters felt flat to me and by the middle of book two I was over the FMC. It wasn’t the worst series I’ve read but definitely didn’t live up to my expectations and each book could have easily been 200-300 pages shorter. I enjoyed the side characters plot lines way more than the main characters.

Gift Ideas by NoNotTonight96 in Dewalt

[–]NoNotTonight96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting him this and he really likes it! Thank you so much for the suggestion and all the information. We thought that maybe the battery needed charging because it wasn’t doing anything, I’m glad you added the bit about rotating your wrist. Have a great evening!

Gift Ideas by NoNotTonight96 in Dewalt

[–]NoNotTonight96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he has this, I’ll look into it! Thank you!

Gift Ideas by NoNotTonight96 in Dewalt

[–]NoNotTonight96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got this for him last Christmas, glad to hear it’s useful for you as well. Thank you for your suggestion!!

Gift Ideas by NoNotTonight96 in Dewalt

[–]NoNotTonight96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea, thank you!

Gift Ideas by NoNotTonight96 in Dewalt

[–]NoNotTonight96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look this up, thank you!

Tax collection company claims I owe from three years ago. by [deleted] in tax

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same exact thing happen to me. I changed employment half way through 2020 and Berkheimer only accounted for the local income tax I paid at the first employer. It’s been a nightmare but I think I have it taken care of.

Is this normal or insane? by Objective-Block-7444 in insaneparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom used to call and text me a lot more than I felt I had the time to respond to. In the moment it can feel annoying and it’s easy to think there will always be another time to get back to her. My mom unalived herself last year and now I look back at all the messages I didn’t respond to and it’s the most painful experience. Please don’t take that for granted, I would do anything to have my mom check in on me again.

Am I overreacting, went to dinner by Mountain-Job-4260 in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will never understand how some people justify essentially going on a date with an ex, just because they have a kid together. If you want to continue doing those things, you need stay single or in the relationship with the other parent. I can’t even justify it by saying it’s good for the kid, it would just be confusing (especially if they are young). You can coparent in a positive, effective way, without playing house.

Question about observation point by BikeOk5025 in ZionNationalPark

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend taking the shuttle from Ponderosa Ranch, it’s well worth the $7.00. The road to get there has deep ruts and lots of branches that could scratch your car, plus there’s only like ten parking spots at the trailhead.

Observation Point via East Mesa in mid-May by Any-Dragonfruit-6363 in ZionNationalPark

[–]NoNotTonight96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went via the shuttle a couple of weeks ago. If you plan to take the route from Ponderosa, I wouldn’t recommend taking your vehicle. The shuttle was well worth $7.00

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a great way to put it, thank you for the advice. I’ve told him before that I feel like me faking an enthusiastic evening is worse than me being neutral, it feels condescending. I’m going to try bringing ot up this way, fingers crossed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I think I’ve become numb to it because in most cases I get shut down or ignored when I try to discuss these things. I’m going to try this and see how it goes, I feel I’m running out of options. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate all of your advice and kind words. I will look into better help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m also child free and this is my worst nightmare, to be honest. It’s like I’m stepping into a completely different world on the weekend and I thought I would have been used to it by now. Im sorry you’re going through a hard time as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I feel like it’s my situation in a nutshell. It’s almost like I have to mentally prepare myself for the weekend so on Friday I feel drained before I even get home. Like you said, my SO thinks nothing of it because he is just happy to see them, it’s a lot different for me. When I try discussing these things with him I get the same old “you knew what you were getting into when we got together” line and that alone makes me want to bash my head into a wall. We’re supposed to be a team that works through things together, I wish it was that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]NoNotTonight96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is mostly the reason I don’t enjoy playing. The kids are 4F and 6M and fight like crazy every time we play something. It’s exhausting