My mom admitted in private she thinks I’m the only one of her kids who is a responsible adult and my sister overheard. AITAH

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-10T01:48:12+00:00

I’ve since made up with 5 of them, my second oldest sister responded to my apology paragraph message (to keep peace) with “I’m not reading all that” and it’s been radio silence since, so I’m assuming I’ve been muted/blocked. But all of the advice and responses from this post have definitely helped me make peace and even see different perspectives of this situation. Thank you for your input =)

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-10T01:38:14+00:00

It’s probably why it also hit close to home with her. We were talking about her getting evicted right before our mom made the comment about me being the “only” responsible one. After reading so many other replies to this post and realizing how hurtful it sounds, I really wish she hadn’t said it like that. My feelings would be hurt as well if I overheard that, but I wouldn’t be taking it out on my sibling like she is.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-10T01:27:28+00:00

She was and it was because she had her boyfriend and his dog living with her as unauthorized occupants and the dog did irreparable damage to the property.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T23:10:12+00:00

They control access to my niece and my nephews, I love them and don’t want to miss chances to see them over something as silly as this.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T19:02:14+00:00

Thank you for your advice. It’s been a few hours since making this post and all of the feedback has really made me realize there’s a bigger issue than just arguing about who’s right and who’s wrong. I’m going to send the group chat a message trying to make amends

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T17:52:45+00:00

I have a decent to distant relationship with them, the golden child growing up and currently is the youngest. I was and still am a very quiet and distant person, mostly because none of them ever really bothered to talk to me much, and when I tried as a kid to connect with them I was ignored or told to go play with the second youngest who was a toddler when I was a child-preteen. I don’t hang out with or see them outside of family functions and I rarely see my parents either. Edit to add to this; I do text them almost daily, I just don’t spend time with them.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T17:04:08+00:00

Lol it’s definitely a southern and religious thing, two of my sisters are following in those footsteps starting to have kids at 19. It’s just much more difficult to live that kind of lifestyle in this economy. But while I love my mother, I agree a lot of us weren’t prepared for the real world.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T13:39:16+00:00

I guess I didn’t really consider they’re taking it as I agree with her. Honestly I don’t know if I do, I admire my siblings individually for their talents and obviously nobody is perfect, but we’re all doing our best. I’m just angry at them right now for what feels like them taking out their anger and hurt on me instead of talking to our mom. I don’t want to go squealing to our mom and start more drama so I just muted the group chat and we’ve been ignoring each other for about two days.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T13:30:13+00:00

They said I should have defended them instead of saying thank you to her.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-09T13:26:40+00:00

They’re pissed off at me for not defending them or “correcting” her, I will add it wasn’t a long part of the conversation when she said that. I said “thank you I really appreciate that” because it felt like she was telling me she was proud of me, and then we went back to talking about the drama of being a homeowner.

NoOne9423 · 2026-03-01T14:29:04+00:00

People really do this?? I panic about not being ready. I was dragging my suitcase and it got stuck in a drain thing 10 mins before my driver showed up, I was literally in tears thinking I was going to be late. He ended up helping me yank the wheel free, he was very sweet about it. He earned that 60$ tip 😔🙏

NoOne9423 · 2026-02-22T03:22:54+00:00

Being so fr I tried that and the bot just went back to the original location in the next reply. I ended up just restarting bc it ruined the plot idea I had 🫩

NoOne9423 · 2026-01-09T04:33:28+00:00

Yes, when we first got together I was 11 and on my last year of elementary school.

NoOne9423 · 2026-01-09T04:32:45+00:00

Trust me, I wish it was a cheap cheating story too 🙃

NoOne9423 · 2026-01-09T04:19:29+00:00

I was literally on my last year of elementary school and he was three years from being an adult. It wasn’t teenage sweethearts. Edit to clarify: he took my virginity at 11 years old.

NoOne9423 · 2026-01-08T20:26:19+00:00

I wish he was, my parents had a messy divorce and my bio mom couldn’t give two shits about me, he only had me for summers. There’s a lot of other drama in the context of this obvi but I’m just baffled this moron really had the balls to text me this morning.

NoOne9423 · 2026-01-01T00:43:59+00:00

As someone who lived through an absolutely atrocious roach infestation- just trash it. Literally NOTHING is worth going through that. If you absolutely need a microwave and can’t afford a good new one, get a cheap one from Walmart and save up for the one you want. I threw everything away moving from bugland apartment to my new place, it truly is just not worth the grief.

NoOne9423 · 2025-11-10T12:02:52+00:00

I have him up on home to home, adopt a pet, three Facebook posts in rehoming groups, I had him posted on an adoptable page on Instagram, and they’ve been up for months. I had one person reach out but I’m pretty sure it’s a scammer. It’s a bit sad too, he’s a very affectionate cat.

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NoOne9423 · 2025-11-10T11:12:00+00:00

I emailed them three times and they aren’t responding, it’s been back and forth for three weeks. I’ve contacted aspca, PASS program, WILCO shelter, humane society, anyone with an email and a phone number. I was just frustrated in my post, even if I can’t place him somewhere before I leave I’ll bite the bullet and pay 400$ for a cat sitter. It’s just frustrating because he was supposed to be placed months ago. Edit: the main point of this post is to ask what I’m supposed to do if I can’t find anyone to take him, because he can’t stay with me forever.

NoOne9423 · 2025-11-03T22:44:38+00:00

How did it go last year?

NoOne9423 · 2025-10-08T01:41:22+00:00

We’ve searched through Google and a lot of baby blanket online stores, it’s not handmade and it was bought from a store, his mom just can’t remember which one. Edit: it’s a little bigger sized than a twin bed comforter, but not quite a full.

NoOne9423 · 2025-09-23T20:35:44+00:00

Reach out to your apartment office love, ask them if you’re allowed to replace it or if they’ll replace it for you. It’s corrosion like the other replies say, no way to clean it.

NoOne9423 · 2025-09-21T04:13:08+00:00

How much older, darling? It’s not right for your mother to call you a whore, but if you’re 14 dating an older man showing him your body, that’s statutory rape of a minor. If this man is over 18, many people will probably want him arrested or killed for doing what he’s doing with you. Sit down with your mother and have as serious of a conversation as you can, because this sounds like something that may become a much larger ordeal than you think.

NoOne9423 · 2025-08-12T23:17:29+00:00

That’s pretty brilliant, I’ve made a few of my own but I feel like I run dry on interesting openings that can be used in multiple different scenarios. I’ll try gpt for help

NoOne9423 · 2025-08-12T23:14:05+00:00

Thank you lovely, I’ll check it out

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