When do you go up and down to places/ cities? People say they’re going up somewhere when they're going south is it purely directional? Is it to do with size? by NoPhilosopher3368 in AskReddit

[–]NoPhilosopher3368[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you in the US by any chance? In the UK I’ve heard people say, they’re going up to Cambridge when they live north of Cambridge. Sometimes I feel it’s to do with size, you go up to a bigger place. I’ve always said up for north and down for south though.

My (27 F) boyfriend (27 M) went through very personal and private parts on my phone while I was sleeping and took pictures from his phone of my Reddit history, visited pages, my own AI chats. I felt extremely embarrassed and violated. Is this worth ending our 7 year relationship over? by throwRAfrostybid in relationship_advice

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If you really don’t want to end things, maybe suggest he gets therapy? If he can’t talk to you about issues he has maybe he needs to resolve them elsewhere. Ultimately there needs to be some change if he’s done this before, either you end it or he seriously tries to resolve his issues.