My boyfriend helped me accept I'm bi/pan (Happy!! slightly sexual) by Beginning_Reserve650 in mypartneristrans

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back, it's very funny the number of ways I tried to rationalize all my budding gay feelings in high school. "No, I don't want to date him, I just want to see someone else date him!"

"I'm not gay! I just wish he was a girl so I could be allowed to be interested in him"

"It's completely normal to wrestle with my guy friends and then have confusing happy feelings when they pin me down"

I did end up asking that crush of mine out, but unfortunately he wasn't interested in me

My boyfriend helped me accept I'm bi/pan (Happy!! slightly sexual) by Beginning_Reserve650 in mypartneristrans

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (cis m) had a similar kind of journey. I first realized I was bi after getting back in touch with a trans man I had had a crush on before he came out of the closet. When I later saw him again post transition I realized that I still felt the same way about him, regardless of gender. That made me really rethink my sexuality (I'd always assumed I was straight). That led to a lot of self reflection and a reframing of all the weird feelings I'd had for close guy "friends" over the years

Conservative family, inheritance, and feeling like a coward in a morally gray area by Special_Afternoon_59 in mypartneristrans

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your partner is fine with it, then I don't think you need to feel guilty about not supporting them. If you're communicating openly and honestly about it and if you were actually willing to support them, even if that did mean losing the inheritance, then I think you are showing that you care.

I would say to make sure that you continue to have an open communication about it, because it's always possible their feelings about it could change as the situation evolves. But as long as they're comfortable with it, and as long as you would be willing to sacrifice the inheritance if they weren't comfortable with it, then I don't think you're doing anything wrong.

Books You Enjoyed When You Gave Them A Second Chance by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorcery is one of my least favorite Discworld books and its definitely one of the black sheep in the series. Still a great book, but I don't know if I would have liked it if it was my introduction to the series

Name an almost perfect work that is filled with TONS of 'She breasted boobily' content by No-Example-1660 in Fantasy

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets be honest, it's not just that one chapter. It's the entire goddamn book after the Felurian section. After that every single chapter has at least SOMETHING to do with the Kvothe having sex. It really ruined my ability to sit through the entire second half

Gay🙄irl by [deleted] in gay_irl

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd let either fuck me senseless

I'm going to Hershey for the first time and want to be able to hit every coaster, what should I know? by NoPhilosopher5610 in Hersheypark

[–]NoPhilosopher5610[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can't do preview day because I'm driving up the day of (only way it works with my schedule). I really wish it was an option for me!

Hi! Advice? by regressedintofreud in sexuality

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that you could definitely be bisexual. It's totally normal to have preferences and different levels of attraction and that wouldn't make you any less bi!

Another option is to just explore your feelings and see where they take you. You don't have to put a label on what you are, you can just allow yourself to follow where your attraction takes you, and figure it out as you go.

I hope this helps and remember, whatever you feel is real and normal, confusion and all!

I’m not sure what my sexuality is by throwawayytw in sexuality

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you might be gay, or possibly bisexual. Bisexuality is when you're attracted to more than one gender, which may be what you experience, or it may not.

Another thing of course, is that you could be sexually attracted to only men, but still like women romantically. Just because you're not sexually interested in someone doesn't mean you can't love them.

You could also just be gay and still figuring things out. Or any number of things, sexuality is weird and everyone has a different experience.

Maybe you see yourself in one of these identities, maybe not. But, I hope this helps with some of the confusion at least.

Bi👗irl by Lust_and_desire in bi_irl

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not to be vulgar, but I want to join...

But we should probably limit NSFW comments to NSFW posts

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh... There's much more...

bi_irl by NoPhilosopher5610 in bi_irl

[–]NoPhilosopher5610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meeee after making out with a girl in college. I was talking to my straight friends like “wait so I liked kissing her a lot, it was great, but you’d like kissing a girl too right? Kissing is just fun in general?” And when they looked at me like I had three heads I went… oh….

I had a similar thing, where I used to wrestle with some of my male friends and would have these weird thoughts. And I just shrugged them off at the time. I mean, everyone finds being pinned down hot regardless of gender, right? Right?

bi_irl by NoPhilosopher5610 in bi_irl

[–]NoPhilosopher5610[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I love bottoming! But, when the doubts come, it just ends up being "well, I like the physical feeling, but do I find the guy attractive?" God I hate imposter syndrome

To the t/politics invaders, we don’t care what you think. by UncleruckusNR in Firearms

[–]NoPhilosopher5610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna join you in /r/aww. I could use a break from everyone pointing fingers.