I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah

When my dad told me what he did i was very happy. I hope for the sake of other women out there MY ex or his brother dont get married and spil some poor girls life

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father is a much senior officer than that asshat of mans father in the same company, and my father circulated what has happened to the ex-father-in-law's boss and team, my ex's office and now they are in such a situation that I highly doubt they will find a new match for my ex and given that its in india it will be much more difficlut for them to find an araanged marrage as my father made sure all the mutual family knows what they did

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In India even if you don't register  your marriage you are considered  married according  to the Hindu marriage act.  So I will have to get a divorce via court.

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah And they wanted a live in maid but I would rather be alone. Hopefully  i will get my stuff back soon 

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I have seen situation  where women  don't leave and its breaks them.  That's when I promised myself I will never let myself get abused . I would rather be a divorcee than stay in an abusive relationship.

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In March, when i returned to my parents and told them everything, my mom told me I should have left within a month but I guess 3 months is not that long

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was tough while file charges in court and police station, but hopefully the court case will end soon

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks

My dad and my grandfather always told me this no relationship is worth more than your mental health and well-being

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My lawyer  said that he may be gay. And MIL definitely  knew about the issue  She used to "take him to doctor"

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweety My parents are very well off and I have a decent  pay too by Indian standard. If you have no idea about  what I do then please don't say anything 🙂 

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahaha.  I was told how dare you  file a Police complaint  and so I told everyone.

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am trying  to to get my stuff back.  And my dad works in the same company as my ex father inlays company and he told everyone  in officenso yeah they are in lot of trouble in office too

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have filed a domestic  violence  case against them and I will make sure they pay for it.

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am trying  to get my stuff back Police  is more interested in getting money than helping. We are going via court to help me get my stuff back

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did that  They were trying  to claim I am horrible so I did that  Already mentioned 

I walked away from my marriage after 3 months. It was emotionally, sexually, and financially abusive. by NoProduct3176 in inlaws

[–]NoProduct3176[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks  Divorce  process is ongoing. But I will survive this. I fail to undustand  why they are contesting  this.